Why is it when you get close to a boy (I meant, a guy), then he runs away?

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    Aug 05, 2011 9:33 PM GMT
    I am sure this has happened to you guys before. And don't tell me what I'm saying is not true!

    OK you meet a great guy (online) and the online conversation is going well. You try to take the relationship forward a little bit more. One of the following happens:

    - You ask for their facebook. They stop responding. OR

    - You ask for their real email addy. They stop responding. OR

    - You ask to make a little digital video saying "hi". They stop responding. OR

    - You ask to cam / skype / facetime. They stop responding. OR

    - You ask for phone #. They stop responding. OR

    - You ask to meet. They stop responding.

    Why O Why when things start to get more serious, guys would just pull back and run away?! I'm not trying to have sex with you! Not yet anyway icon_mad.gif
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    Aug 05, 2011 9:42 PM GMT
    LMAO I thought it was gonna get progressively worse

    - You ask for their facebook. They stop responding. OR

    - You ask for their real email addy. They stop responding. OR

    - You ask to make a little digital video saying "hi". They stop responding. OR

    - You ask to cam / skype / facetime. They stop responding. OR

    - You ask for phone #. They stop responding. OR

    - You ask to meet. They stop responding.

    - You ask to suck his hard cock. They stop responding.

    - You ask if you can beat the hell out of them for not talking to you. They stop responding.

    - You ask to stalk them every day of their lives. They stop responding.

    - You ask if you can kill him. He calls the police.


    SERIOUSLY WHAT'S WRONG WITH THESE GUYS THEY WON'T TALK TO ME
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    Aug 05, 2011 9:48 PM GMT
    ^ what are you saying. icon_confused.gif what I said was within the online meeting normalcy. what you added, was not. maybe the sucking part was normal but that was all.
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    Aug 05, 2011 11:25 PM GMT
    Stop dating boys and date men.
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    Aug 05, 2011 11:55 PM GMT
    Ive had something similar happen. Will talk with guys for a few weeks on line sometimes daily but once I push to meet for coffee a drink or whatever they stop responding. IMO they never had any intention of meeting in the first place. For some they are just playing games. Or setting around holding out for someone they like a little more to ask them out. imo if you talk with someone 3 or 4 times and they show no interest in taking things off line move on.
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:15 AM GMT
    gatolifter saidStop dating boys and date men.


    men do this too.
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:15 AM GMT
    atljoe75 saidIve had something similar happen. Will talk with guys for a few weeks on line sometimes daily but once I push to meet for coffee a drink or whatever they stop responding. IMO they never had any intention of meeting in the first place. For some they are just playing games. Or setting around holding out for someone they like a little more to ask them out. imo if you talk with someone 3 or 4 times and they show no interest in taking things off line move on.


    ugh maybe i should just become a monk. maybe in the monestery you will get more action than in real life.
  • shawn06

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    Aug 06, 2011 12:19 AM GMT
    Most likely something or someone else has gotten there attention and they forgot about you, or don't want to continue conversation for whatever reason. It's what you call online dating, thats why out of the many people you will talk to only a very select few will be worthy enough to pursue
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:20 AM GMT
    Bc some dudes come on like lightning! It's scary shit!
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:21 AM GMT
    Well maybe asking for their FB or a "little digital video" seems just a little but needy son. Or he's just an asshole.

    But rejection happens, man up and move on. There are about 3 assholes on this site who I showed my facs pics to and they never messaged me again. Shallow queens. I guess my third eye, extra teeth, bald spot, and hairy mole scared them off.
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:29 AM GMT
    I noticed this on Facebook. A nice guy tagged some of my photos (which is OK with me) and gave me a number of likes on the photos, etc, comments saying nice things. . . so I sent him a message saying "thanks, very nice of you to say". . . thinking that might start a dialogue. . . but I still haven't heard back from him.

    You think maybe he's just shy?
  • TallSoCal

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    Aug 06, 2011 12:29 AM GMT
    I think a lot of guys (people in general but mostly guys) aren't necessarily afraid of commitment, but are hesitant about not being single. You then have to answer to that person, have to talk about feelings, set rules, let someone in and have them know your weaknesses and flaws...When it comes to love, it makes people act irrationally and would normally make people do or say things they normally wouldn't. And being in love with someone is scary. You risk getting hurt and put your trust and emotions on the line. I, personally, think people run from their feelings because that would mean they'd be exposed and vulnerable in that time. Stare death in the face by skydiving, bunjie jumping, cliff diving...etc...God forbid someone takes a chance in the name of Love. ::shrugs:: I guess emotional pain is worse than death cause you have to live with it.
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:32 AM GMT
    Kanaka24 saidBc some dudes come on like lightning! It's scary shit!


    But this is after like a month and half of chatting online like every other day. At least the one I am thinking of.

    The moment I asked him to cam. I haven't heard from him for like 3 days. This is not normal for our conversation.
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:36 AM GMT
    I'd save this woe for the boys you seek outside the digital world.
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:36 AM GMT
    CHIdude saidWell maybe asking for their FB or a "little digital video" seems just a little but needy son. Or he's just an asshole.

    But rejection happens, man up and move on. There are about 3 assholes on this site who I showed my facs pics to and they never messaged me again. Shallow queens. I guess my third eye, extra teeth, bald spot, and hairy mole scared them off.


    I seriously doubt that. You have a third eye?!
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:37 AM GMT
    where on line did you meet this guy? Any chance any photos he showed you might be fake? This happen to me few years ago chatted with a guy for a month found out he wouldn't meet or show his face on cam because the photos he originally sent me wasn't his
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:37 AM GMT
    I hear ya, bitchassness...
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:38 AM GMT
    Kanaka24 saidI'd save this woe for the boys you seek outside of the digital world.


    I can't just turn my feelings off like that! I am not a machine. I wish I can. icon_cry.gif Worst thing is, I have already developed some real strong feelings for him.

    Oh I'm fucked. And not in a good way.
  • vintovka

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    Aug 06, 2011 12:39 AM GMT
    So you have no photos of yourself online, but you wonder why others are sketched out when someone asks for their facebook? I think probably for the same reason you don't have a pic here.
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    Aug 06, 2011 12:42 AM GMT
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    CHIdude saidWell maybe asking for their FB or a "little digital video" seems just a little but needy son. Or he's just an asshole.

    But rejection happens, man up and move on. There are about 3 assholes on this site who I showed my facs pics to and they never messaged me again. Shallow queens. I guess my third eye, extra teeth, bald spot, and hairy mole scared them off.


    I seriously doubt that. You have a third eye?!


    Are you making fun of my third eye? icon_sad.gif I've been in medical journals as a phenomenal case study!
  • Tommygayboy

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    Aug 06, 2011 1:05 AM GMT
    I always thought that the "third eye" referred to a man's red eye? Get it, their butt hole which you probably want to plug with your manrod.
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    Aug 06, 2011 1:07 AM GMT
    atljoe75 saidwhere on line did you meet this guy? Any chance any photos he showed you might be fake? This happen to me few years ago chatted with a guy for a month found out he wouldn't meet or show his face on cam because the photos he originally sent me wasn't his


    I don't think so. We have each other's facebooks. He is tagged very often by his friends. So I doubt it. But yeah I can totally see why you would think that. Fake profile is a big reason why people flake.
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    Aug 06, 2011 3:34 AM GMT
    Come on. More responses.
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Aug 06, 2011 3:41 AM GMT
    Happens to me plenty of times....and I don't have a hairy mole, extra teeth or a third eye!!
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    Aug 06, 2011 3:41 AM GMT
    If at first you don't succeed, try someone else.