New & Trying to Meet People On This Website

  • SebastianXCII

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    Aug 06, 2011 2:01 AM GMT
    So i have been on this site for a while & it bores me a little. Don't get me wrong, its A LOT of eye candy & its kinda heaven hahaa but there doesnt seem that much to do. I've only TRIED to find people to talk too but haven't got much of a response from anyone. Help a guy out here! i'm lonely hahahaa!.
    & I'm always looking for new friends to chat it up with so IM me or message me aight! or the very least, check out my profile & buddy list me!

    but in the meanwhile, "latas on the menjay" hahahahaa! ( "I Love You, Man" reference lol)..big movie quoter
    -S
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    Aug 06, 2011 2:34 AM GMT
    Give it time. You've only been here since 7/30. Participate in forums or chat and get to know people that way. Most of the people I talk to here comes as a result of forum participation first.
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    Aug 06, 2011 2:39 AM GMT
    Fuck that websites hinder authentic social interactions out in the real world (in my experience).

    With great power comes great responsibility, try not to use it as a crutch to meet gay guys and friends...
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    Aug 06, 2011 2:42 AM GMT
    Iceblink saidGive it time. You've only been here since 7/30. Participate in forums or chat and get to know people that way. Most of the people I talk to here comes as a result of forum participation first.



    This +1.
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Aug 06, 2011 2:49 AM GMT
    Trocks797 said
    Iceblink saidGive it time. You've only been here since 7/30. Participate in forums or chat and get to know people that way. Most of the people I talk to here comes as a result of forum participation first.



    This +1.


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    Aug 06, 2011 3:05 AM GMT
    turtleneckjock said
    Trocks797 said
    Iceblink saidGive it time. You've only been here since 7/30. Participate in forums or chat and get to know people that way. Most of the people I talk to here comes as a result of forum participation first.



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    THIS.....

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    Nspyerf8 saidFuck that websites hinder authentic social interactions out in the real world (in my experience).

    With great power comes great responsibility, try not to use it as a crutch to meet gay guys and friends...


    Equals my opinion.

    It's nice to be here and meet guys and learn about others opinions and views, but there is no substitution for live social interaction. Don't put all your stock in cyber-socializing.

  • SebastianXCII

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    Aug 06, 2011 3:18 AM GMT
    Thanks for the input fellas!
    Oh i'm just looking for new friends on the site i can talk to & shoot the shit with lol.
    But trust, I do have a social life lol
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    Aug 06, 2011 6:39 AM GMT
    Welcome to RJ!!! icon_biggrin.gif
  • barriehomeboy

    Posts: 2475

    Aug 06, 2011 8:02 AM GMT
    Well, as you can see, there are some normal people here, like me, then a bunch of crazy people. It's not the best place to meet niormal gay guys to fuck around with, or marry.
  • ohioguy12

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    Aug 15, 2011 2:57 PM GMT
    Might also help to have a face picture. Most wanna know who they're talking too.
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    Aug 15, 2011 4:26 PM GMT
    brainiacSeb said I've only TRIED to find people to talk too but haven't got much of a response from anyone.
    One pic + no face + unverified = Fake profile.
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    Aug 15, 2011 4:43 PM GMT
    Iceblink saidGive it time. You've only been here since 7/30. Participate in forums or chat and get to know people that way. Most of the people I talk to here comes as a result of forum participation first.


    I've been here since 2008 and have only met a handful of people that I talk to with some semblance of frequency.
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    Aug 15, 2011 4:45 PM GMT
    it's cuz you're black bro

    sorry guys...i was bored
  • dancedancekj

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    Aug 15, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    Try to participate in the online discussions. You'll find people that think along the same lines as you, or reveal something that you find interesting, and then you can add them as a buddy or hotlist them, and start chatting that way.

    There's plenty to do on here. Join in on one of the hot opinionated threads (White is the new Black! Romneynomics! Jesus was a Dinosaur) or put in your two cents on discussion threads (Flip flops are teh sex, Butts or Butts?) or just read, read, and read the threads here. Most are really entertaining, the guys here are really funny and witty, and are also attractive and have shirtless pics that just make it so much fun icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 15, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    dekiruman saidit's cuz you're black bro

    sorry guys...i was bored
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  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 15, 2011 5:08 PM GMT
    Iceblink saidGive it time. You've only been here since 7/30. Participate in forums or chat and get to know people that way. Most of the people I talk to here comes as a result of forum participation first.


    This..

    Robb is correct. Give it time and patience and make your interaction real.
    Friendships will happen. RJ is a good place and most here are welcoming.
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    Aug 16, 2011 4:18 AM GMT
    Iceblink saidGive it time. You've only been here since 7/30. Participate in forums or chat and get to know people that way. Most of the people I talk to here comes as a result of forum participation first.


    +1 Quoted for truth. icon_smile.gif