The "all things Fraternity" thread.

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    Aug 06, 2011 6:03 AM GMT
    I thought this would be an interesting thread for those of us who are in a Fraternity, have partied with, or have done anything related to it.

    I have never had, and have vowed to avoid as much as possible hooking up with any "brother" from any chapter. A brother is a brother, for life, and hopefully I never "hookup" with one!


    Lets share here!
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    Aug 06, 2011 4:02 PM GMT
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/?searchtext=Frat

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    Love my brothers (well some, others are dicks). Never hooked up with any although had older brothers who were in a messy love-triangle.
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    Aug 06, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    the time i was actively involved in my fraternity were some of the best years of my life! i'm still in touch with a good number of my brothers and we've remained close over the years. I'm still as actively involved as i can be. Sigma Pi till i die!!!
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    Aug 06, 2011 4:09 PM GMT
    Oh please, I have seen Bros in frats who have orgies parties among them regularly. They often have discreet sex all the time, it's not discussed but it's alot common than you think. I have never been in a frat because I don't believe in the pack mentality. But I have dated a guy who is in a frat and his frat bros texted him if he wanted to have a foursome while I was with him. I was disgusted.
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    Aug 06, 2011 4:14 PM GMT
    Tdawg saidA brother is a brother, for life,


    Haha. this doesnt mean anything 10 years after college and you've hardly seen each other. you'll default to being just friends if not just acquaintances. this is what happens when school ends and people move on. well, unless you all stay in the same town but i imagine after college most people would try to get away and try to explore life in another city as part of the growing process.
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    Aug 06, 2011 4:15 PM GMT
    hangulmal saidOh please, I have seen Bros in frats who have orgies parties among them regularly. They often have discreet sex all the time, it's not discussed but it's alot common than you think. I have never been in a frat because I don't believe in the pack mentality. But I have dated a guy who is in a frat and his frat bros texted him if he wanted to have a foursome while I was with him. I was disgusted.


    and then theres always those that have never actually been involved in a fraternity, and have no concept of what it actually is. amazing how quick the haters show up.
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    Aug 06, 2011 4:18 PM GMT
    hangulmal saidOh please, I have seen Bros in frats who have orgies parties among them regularly. They often have discreet sex all the time, it's not discussed but it's alot common than you think. I have never been in a frat because I don't believe in the pack mentality. But I have dated a guy who is in a frat and his frat bros texted him if he wanted to have a foursome while I was with him. I was disgusted.


    You have no idea what you're talking about. Like in a dormitory, they have shared rooms. They will often have sex with girls in front of each other, but not with each other. "Most frat guys have gay sex with each other". That is a gay fantasy and completely untrue. There are obviously gay guys in fraternities...about the same percentage as in the outside world. In most places, you have to be very secretive about that. You watch too many porn films.
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    Aug 06, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    i like the tv version, where everyone is hot, we all wore blazers, we all had ferarri's and mommy an daddy paid for everything, in reality it was the cheapest rent in town, loaded w/ fun stuff ta do constant parties, and kina let u forget you were away from home for a lil bit. the only blazer was a rusted out 88 in the driveway, i don't think anyone actually owned it but everyone drove it.
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    Aug 06, 2011 4:25 PM GMT
    hangulmal saidOh please, I have seen Bros in frats who have orgies parties among them regularly. They often have discreet sex all the time, it's not discussed but it's alot common than you think. I have never been in a frat because I don't believe in the pack mentality. But I have dated a guy who is in a frat and his frat bros texted him if he wanted to have a foursome while I was with him. I was disgusted.



    HAHAHAHAHAHA^^^ this is hilarious conjecture.
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    Aug 06, 2011 4:35 PM GMT
    TDC here - and I never heard of any brother getting on with another brother. As for me - I know I thought about it and wished it could happen but never crossed that line. It was sort of expected that we would all bang share of women - and we did - but other brothers? Not that I ever saw.

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    Aug 06, 2011 4:56 PM GMT
    There are only a few brothers in my chapter that look even remotely attractive. So no luck with them anyway. icon_razz.gif

    Most are rather surprised I'm in a fraternity; I don't drink, I'm introverted, I don't like parties, I hate sports, and I value education more than getting wasted. This puts me at odds with a few of my brothers, but most seem to just accept that.

    I came out to them on the first day of pledgeship. They went around asking, "Name, grade, major, tits or ass?" When they got to me, I said, "I like dick." They stopped and stared for a moment, then got the usual shock and awe. No one said anything negative though, which really surprised and kinda touched me.
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    Aug 06, 2011 7:11 PM GMT
    Fraternity days were the best part of college to me hands down. I was an extreme introvert and very socially awkward to the point i was practically a recluse.

    After joining the fraternity and being around a group of people who showed me acceptance and fun I opened up and became a new person. Although I stayed closeted most of the time until my last year in school. Once I came out and my brothers all slowly found out they were even more accepting of me, and even those I wasn't particularly close to come to me and told me how they were proud of me for doing so and how they admired me for have the guts to it.

    Many also told me they noticed a second change in me after coming out to them, I had become more confidence and alot happier. They were they first people I came out to and it made me feel even closer to my brothers.

    Now that that chapter has ended I still keep contact with most of them as they are majority of my close friends.

    As far as hooking up with any of them, there were a couple who were attractive but since I held my brothers in such high regard I would never have crossed the line and done anything with any of them. And I like to believe they had enough respect for me to have never tried to do anything with me like that with them being straight and me being gay just for fun.