Who's your realjock best bud?

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    Aug 07, 2011 1:27 PM GMT
    I just moved to Cary North Carolina and I been bored stiff! Well up until last nighticon_wink.gif I didn't have anybody to turn to, I'm surely wasn't gonna get help from Grindr.Then when I needed someone to bitch too and help me build my confidence fellow realjock newbie Caleeco was there for me! I just want to thank him publicly for all the pep-talks. Man your one in a million! Who's your best realjock bud?I'm not talking about someone that your lusting after or cheating on your husband with.icon_eek.gif Who is that friend in this cyber world you can talk too?
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    Aug 07, 2011 1:41 PM GMT
    I have more than one. And I talk to them generally the same. I can't choose one over the other. They all have great qualities I look for in a friend.
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    Aug 07, 2011 1:44 PM GMT
    ConfederateGhost is my best bud. He listens and he understands me.
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    Aug 07, 2011 1:44 PM GMT
    let me add Commonman to that list too!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 07, 2011 1:51 PM GMT
    "Best bud" and "lusting after" aren't exclusive. icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 07, 2011 1:54 PM GMT
    Hmmm i have a lot of them here but i will give you my 3 favorites icon_biggrin.gif

    http://www.realjock.com/tongun18

    http://www.realjock.com/wannamuscle

    http://www.realjock.com/Kanaka24
  • rnch

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    Aug 07, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    showme said"Best bud" and "lusting after" aren't exclusive. icon_razz.gif




    very true!
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    Aug 07, 2011 2:10 PM GMT
    I don't like the idea of this thread (no offense to the OP). So if I name somebody who's on my buddy list as my BEST BUD, how do you think others on it will feel?

    "oh I thought we're better friends than that"

    "I'm so hurt that you didn't mention me in that thread, especially after I mentioned you"

    "is this because I didn't write back that one time?! I had an exam!"

    "is it because I called you a slut on the forum? I was just joking!"

    "I can't believe you are better friends with that skank (insert the guy I named as my best bud) than you are with me. This goes to show your rotten character!"

    Then.... Un-buddylist, Un-buddylist, and more Un-buddylist.

    Now the only buddy you have left, is the guy who you named as your best bud. But guess what? HE NAMED SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOU!! So you un-buddylist him.

    Now you have no mutual buddies on RJ. Who's the sad panda now?

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    Aug 07, 2011 2:12 PM GMT
    So far I've shared a few "light" message exchanges and some laughs with guys here, nothing beyond that. RJ's function for me is to help me roll through my mid-life crisis of wanting to be lean n' mean again by providing ample (and hot) proof that it's a realistic goal. The amount of intelligence in the forums amidst all the "would you hold a door for the guy above you" junk and random cheesy video clips is a breath of fresh air too. icon_smile.gif

    Making new, real friends (to say nothing of landing FWB's) would be icing on the cake. But that's not my reason for signing on here. My existence is a happy one and my social life is good. IMHO anybody who turns to the Internet for meeting people has issues. Walk out the door, participate in stuff, say hi to the new neighbor, call somebody you haven't hung out with a while and get together - geez. "Not hatin', jus' statin'."
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    Aug 07, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    It's okay...put the blunt down...the paranoia will subside...

    cityaznguy saidI don't like the idea of this thread (no offense to the OP). So if I name somebody who's on my buddy list as my BEST BUD, how do you think others on it will feel?

    "oh I thought we're better friends than that"

    "I'm so hurt that you didn't mention me in that thread, especially after I mentioned you"

    "is this because I didn't write back that one time?! I had an exam!"

    "is it because I called you a slut on the forum? I was just joking!"

    "I can't believe you are better friends with that skank (insert the guy I named as my best bud) than you are with me. This goes to show your rotten character!"

    Then.... Un-buddylist, Un-buddylist, and more Un-buddylist.

    Now the only buddy you have left, is the guy who you named as your best bud. But guess what? HE NAMED SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOU!! So you un-buddylist him.

    Now you have no mutual buddies on RJ. Who's the sad panda now?

  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 07, 2011 2:16 PM GMT
    Have about a dozen guys I talk to both online and on the phone on a regular basis.
    RJ is great and certainly for building some good friendships!

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    Aug 07, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
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    Aug 07, 2011 2:22 PM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidIt's okay...put the blunt down...the paranoia will subside...


    [my previous post]

    LMAO! I'm not paranoid. It was a satire. I was just merely describing a remotely possible, although unlikely apocalyptic event to a poor RJ soul.

    So guys, if you must answer, pick your guy carefully.
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    Aug 07, 2011 2:28 PM GMT
    cityaznguy saidI don't like the idea of this thread (no offense to the OP). So if I name somebody who's on my buddy list as my BEST BUD, how do you think others on it will feel?

    "oh I thought we're better friends than that"

    "I'm so hurt that you didn't mention me in that thread, especially after I mentioned you"

    "is this because I didn't write back that one time?! I had an exam!"

    "is it because I called you a slut on the forum? I was just joking!"

    "I can't believe you are better friends with that skank (insert the guy I named as my best bud) than you are with me. This goes to show your rotten character!"

    Then.... Un-buddylist, Un-buddylist, and more Un-buddylist.

    Now the only buddy you have left, is the guy who you named as your best bud. But guess what? HE NAMED SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOU!! So you un-buddylist him.

    Now you have no mutual buddies on RJ. Who's the sad panda now?



    people who react this way are drama queens. luckily we don't have those on RJ
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    Aug 07, 2011 2:38 PM GMT
    In that case...I will allow you back into rotation.

    cityaznguy said
    ConfederateGhost saidIt's okay...put the blunt down...the paranoia will subside...


    [my previous post]

    LMAO! I'm not paranoid. It was a satire. I was just merely describing a remotely possible, although unlikely apocalyptic event to a poor RJ soul.

    So guys, if you must answer, pick your guy carefully.
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    Aug 07, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    I have a couple and they know who they are. My go-to-guys when I just need to talk. Love you guys!
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    Aug 07, 2011 2:58 PM GMT
    cityaznguy saidI don't like the idea of this thread (no offense to the OP). So if I name somebody who's on my buddy list as my BEST BUD, how do you think others on it will feel?

    "oh I thought we're better friends than that"

    "I'm so hurt that you didn't mention me in that thread, especially after I mentioned you"

    "is this because I didn't write back that one time?! I had an exam!"

    "is it because I called you a slut on the forum? I was just joking!"

    "I can't believe you are better friends with that skank (insert the guy I named as my best bud) than you are with me. This goes to show your rotten character!"

    Then.... Un-buddylist, Un-buddylist, and more Un-buddylist.

    Now the only buddy you have left, is the guy who you named as your best bud. But guess what? HE NAMED SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOU!! So you un-buddylist him.

    Now you have no mutual buddies on RJ. Who's the sad panda now?



    mmm good point but what have the others done for you lately? Who is the latest RJ that ya been talking too?That has your back? Besides if they are that petty to unbuddylist you.That's really high maintenance and childish.
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    Aug 07, 2011 3:00 PM GMT
    i have a few. they know who they are. icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 07, 2011 3:12 PM GMT
    It's always better to take the high road. The lust will subside. Either that or get a long distant case of the blue balls. Please keep it real!


    showme said"Best bud" and "lusting after" aren't exclusive. icon_razz.gif
  • rebelbeard

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    Aug 07, 2011 3:17 PM GMT
    No one :-( Well that's depressing. I wish I had some friends or best friend on here. Ah well, there are always the threads. Those are entertaining.
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    Aug 07, 2011 3:30 PM GMT
    I talked to one guy on here who was nice. But he went over seas for a while. No one else. icon_sad.gif Right now I just watch the cool kids from the sidelines.
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    Aug 07, 2011 3:34 PM GMT
    High Octane, If you ever need to rant, confess, gossip, or just chat, hollar! icon_wink.gif besides I been to Croatia and Serbia as well.

    HighOctane saidNo one :-( Well that's depressing. I wish I had some friends or best friend on here. Ah well, there are always the threads. Those are entertaining.
  • rnch

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    Aug 07, 2011 3:55 PM GMT
    IF i do have one here it's Art Deco.


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    Aug 07, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    silkrock saidIt's always better to take the high road. The lust will subside. Either that or get a long distant case of the blue balls. Please keep it real!


    showme said"Best bud" and "lusting after" aren't exclusive. icon_razz.gif


    Please get a sense of humor! (And also a sense of reality, we all think about sex, even with guys where it's inappropriate or unrealistic. It's what we do about it that's important.)
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    Aug 07, 2011 4:52 PM GMT
    Anybody but running11.

    That dude's a dick.icon_cool.gif