Aug 07, 2011 5:14 PM GMT
This thread is just more so to get others thoughts on this topic. I have noticed over the years that some really great guys have gotten caught up in this so called gay culture or lifestyle. I know I am babbling but I bare with me. I know these two guys who are great guys. They are very masculine, handsome, but do not have the best bodies. However, I could over look that but others in this lifestyle seem not to be able to do that. Because, they do not fit the typical stereotype they lost themselves and turned to drugs and just became reckless. Now one is HIV positive and is still going bareback. The other one is doing the same and is also doing drugs as well. Why do guys allow the others to do this to them. Is it because of low self esteem, trying to fit in become what others want them to be or is it something more? Guys, I have spent most of my life not conforming to stereotypes any other stupid ideas others may think. Why couldn't they do that. I mean they are both smart, very successful and really really great guys. But they allowed themselves to fall victim to this ridiculous lifestyle. I am sure only they know why but why do guys like become victims?