guy who I think is too hot for me

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    Aug 07, 2011 8:39 PM GMT
    So...met this guy for sex a month ago. As soon as I stripped him naked and threw him on the bed I thought to myself "jack pot!" Perfect body. Ethnic (whatever that means. I am Indian. do we call each other ethnic?), light brown skin, hot facial hair, nice face and smile, ripped, good amount of muscle on arms and chest, tall, tattooed, very "guy next door" looking, etc etc. Sex was great too. We chatted a little after sex and he did not sound stupid for a change. If I had to see him in a club, I wouldnt even try to hit on him thinking he is way out of my league.

    Didnt hear back from him for 2 days after that. Sent him a quick message to which he responded quickly. He said he also liked me a lot. We got onto texting each other. I asked him why he never texted me first, to which he said he thought I was just looking for a club buddy. I am not really sure what that meant. I never asked him if that meant he was also looking for sex, friends, or more. He kept on texting me and telling me how hot he thinks I am and if we could hook up again. I am having hard time believing he finds me that good. Guys should be falling head over heels for him at every bar and club.

    Has this ever happened to you guys? Is there a catch here?
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    Aug 07, 2011 8:46 PM GMT
    Advaya said[...]
    Didnt hear back from him for 2 days after that. Sent him a quick message to which he responded quickly. He said he also liked me a lot. We got onto texting each other. I asked him why he never texted me first, to which he said he thought that I was just looking for a club buddy. I am not really sure what that meant. I never asked him if that meant he was also looking for sex, friends, or more. He kept on texting me and telling me how hot he thinks I am and if we could hook up again. I am having hard time believing he finds me that good. Guys should be falling head over heels for him at every bar and club.

    Has this ever happened to you guys? Is there a catch here?


    Stop second guessing and killing the chance of great things happening.
    The only "catch" is that it is a learning experience for you, showing you that you're very desirable. Keep life simple.
    Go for it!
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    Aug 07, 2011 10:32 PM GMT


    If he likes you and the feelings are mutual.. GO FOR IT!!! don't question yourself it'll show...
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    Aug 07, 2011 11:28 PM GMT
    If both of your are digging each other, then stop second guessing icon_razz.gif

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    Aug 08, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    whats hot to you is ugly to someone else...

    Have fun
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    Aug 08, 2011 4:18 AM GMT
    You said, " I asked him why he never texted me first, to which he said he thought I was just looking for a club buddy. I am not really sure what that meant."

    That's odd, to me. It shouldn't matter, I think, who contacts who first.
    He said club buddy and I think his inference was that he thought (and thought to tell you, hint hint) you weren't looking for anything more than a bounce, lol. If you feel like there's more, tell him you're not looking for a club buddy, but something more and draw him in for kiss.


    How do you feel about him?


    -Doug
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    Aug 08, 2011 4:30 AM GMT
    Thanks guys, and Doug for your interpretation of his message. I am really liking this guy. We need to spend some time together and find out what we are looking for. One thing that kills me is, if he really does like me, I am going to feel very possessive. Because I will always feel like I got lucky with him and he will find someone better at the drop of a hat icon_confused.gif

    I am probably just overanalyzing this shit.
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    Aug 08, 2011 4:36 AM GMT
    Advaya saidThanks guys, and Doug for your interpretation of his message. I am really liking this guy. We need to spend some time together and find out what we are looking for. One thing that kills me is, if he really does like me, I am going to feel very possessive. Because I will always feel like I got lucky with him and he will find someone better at the drop of a hat icon_confused.gif

    I am probably just overanalyzing this shit.



    In some way I think you are.
    Let what happens happen. It will happen or it won't. You can only be who you are, which he obviously likes. icon_wink.gif


    As for feeling like you got lucky, I often think many men in happy relationships think that. *tries not to look obviously happy about Bill*

    -Doug