haven't had sex in 9 months now

  • brendanmuscle...

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    Aug 08, 2011 8:48 AM GMT
    so i havent actually had sex with anyone (real sex) in 9 months and counting now. I guess its because i havent actually met anyone in person who'se suited my eye really. I tried to a couple months ago with someone but um, well, lets just say that when the shirt came off my hard on disapeered :-/ so nothing happened there

    im just so damned picky, i dont know, what is my problem lol? i want a boyfriend, and i havent met anyone in person yet whose really what im looking for... well, since my last boyfriend, ended last year. i dont know! help!

    i hanged out with a pretty hot guy 2 weeks ago but, he's on vacation now, and i think my over-shyness when we met was a bit weird or a turn off in some ways for him





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    Aug 08, 2011 9:01 AM GMT
    good things come to those who wait... clearly 9 months is not enough waiting for you. icon_razz.gif

    But in all seriousness, you need to chase after and put in every bit of effort to find that person.

    go on multiple dates.. and base your initial attraction on the physical attraction.. so that when you are dating them, you can focus more on their personality and get to know them better.

    Dating 101.

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    Aug 08, 2011 9:15 AM GMT
    What are you looking for, and where are you looking?

    What was it about the guy you were going to have sex with that put you off when he took his shirt off?

    Are you picky, or do you just have a specific type that you go for and no one else turns you on?

    Remember, picky picky get no dicky.
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    Aug 08, 2011 9:18 AM GMT
    Pure saidWhat are you looking for, and where are you looking?

    What was it about the guy you were going to have sex with that put you off when he took his shirt off?

    Are you picky, or do you just have a specific type that you go for and no one else turns you on?

    Remember, picky picky get no dicky.


    Well he was a very handsome Guy... actually was in nyc. But ya lets just say when someone has a few extra pounds....I just can't lol.
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    Aug 08, 2011 9:21 AM GMT
    brendanmuscles saidWell he was a very handsome Guy... actually was in nyc. But ya lets just say when someone has a few extra pounds....I just can't lol.


    Well if you only ever want to be with ripped guys where are you looking for them? 9 months is a long time to go without if you're actively looking. There's shitloads of ripped hot men in NYC.
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    Aug 08, 2011 1:21 PM GMT
    brendanmuscles said
    Pure saidWell he was a very handsome Guy... actually was in nyc. But ya lets just say when someone has a few extra pounds....I just can't lol.


    And personality?
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    Aug 08, 2011 1:29 PM GMT
    brendanmuscles saidim just so damned picky, i dont know, what is my problem lol?

    Do you want his mind or his meat? I suspect meat, since you write "i havent actually met anyone in person who'se suited my eye really." [My emphasis]

    When I was single I fucked a guy because I liked HIM as a person, not his meat below the waist, nor above. Try a guy for his personality, not his pecs nor his penis. Your own penis might pop.
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    Aug 08, 2011 3:35 PM GMT
    Ive actually gone 18 months b4. Ive known guys who have gone even longer. And by 18 month I mean nothing with a guy.
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    Aug 08, 2011 4:28 PM GMT
    That's nothing. I went 21 months without sex. I ended that last Wednesday, though.

    When you say picky, what exactly do you mean? What are you specifically looking for?
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    Aug 08, 2011 7:06 PM GMT
    You've focused a lot on your body, what else have you focused on?

    I think some guys at my gym become so enamored with their own reflection they lose the humanity in looking at other people. I'm not saying that has happened with you, I'm saying that it can be that when you focus so much on image that you lose an appreciation for anything else.

    Attraction is more than beauty, at least when the first few dates fade.
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    Aug 08, 2011 7:20 PM GMT
    I think you havent had sex in 9 months because you may be prego. Check it out.
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    Aug 08, 2011 8:05 PM GMT
    Chainers saidI think you havent had sex in 9 months because you may be prego. Check it out.


    Lol, funny man. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Aug 10, 2011 11:11 AM GMT
    Chainers saidI think you havent had sex in 9 months because you may be prego. Check it out.


    I swear you must have been the class clown at school chainers! icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 10, 2011 11:14 AM GMT
    Are you gonna reply to this thread brendan? We need more info if we're going to help you get laid!