Is the first time painful for all?

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    Aug 09, 2011 2:06 AM GMT
    I am myself a virgin...but alot of my friends said its painful! on a scale..is sex more pain or pleasure
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    Aug 09, 2011 2:14 AM GMT
    For bottoming in general, the first insertion and the next few minutes after that are the most painful, but then it starts to feel great. You just gotta breathe and relax through it. But yea, expect your first time bottoming to be pretty painful. Make sure you have a blanket to bite down on or a pillow to bury your head in to stifle your screams of pain-pleasure. icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 09, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
    Yeah I used spit and just jumped on it like a conditioner bottle in the shower.


    LMFAO

  • Aug 22, 2011 1:55 PM GMT
    I don't think it is painful for all. I think it just depends on whether you take it slow and how much practice you've had. You'll definitely feel some new sensations, lol.

    With plenty of lube, and an experienced partner, it doesn't have to hurt. My first was actually pretty comfortable.icon_biggrin.gif
  • Hothouse

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    Aug 22, 2011 3:07 PM GMT
    My first time as a bottom didn't hurt at all - it was very pleasurable and the top was experienced - he knew what he was doing.
    Just relax, it may be uncomfortable at first, but it will end up feeling great.
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Aug 22, 2011 3:35 PM GMT
    For me it was more awkward/uncomfortable than painful. Think about it: up until that point, things have only been coming out of there, not going in.

    It's an adjustment, that's all.
  • rnch

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    Aug 22, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
    Hothouse saidMy first time as a bottom didn't hurt at all - it was very pleasurable and the top was experienced - he knew what he was doing...


    as did my first top guy!

    LOTS of kissing, caressing, silicone lube for me and his penis, first one, then two fingers in and out of me, a long, slow, wet, intense rimmimg session...and about 10 seconds before first time insertion, a short snort of a new bottle of poppers....and he slid right in!

    no pain, no screamng, no blood, no drama!


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    Aug 22, 2011 11:12 PM GMT
    first time with most guys is uncomfortable and a little painful, more painful for some then others.

    But the guy your with needs to know what he's doing and you need to be comfortable and relaxed as possible with him.

    Your a virgin, my experience with them is that they are terrible in the sack but most of them over think it and wanna be great and get nervous having no idea what the hell to do.

    So... don't do that, just accept that right now you've no idea (besides the absolute basics) and enjoy what they top is gonna try and do..

    After a few times you can start getting amazing and learning how to make ya top squeal!
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    Aug 23, 2011 12:01 AM GMT
    Well it did hurt me ... and yeah A lot .. however later its gonna be good .. n take care .. make sure u use condom .. i had bleed at my 1st time .. however i didn't notice or either did he .. just at end lol