Am Into my Straight Coach ...

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    Aug 09, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    .... Well Few days ago i started to see that my gym coach gives me extra attention... joke with me ... Smiles when I arrive gym ... even tellin' me ''welcome Darling'' when i go there ..i didn't even care about that .. but suddenly i started to feel something for him :S ... i don't know if its love or just admire >,<
    i feel kinda sux cuz am already dating and i don't know if that consider cheating .. to have feelings for someone else ..
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    Aug 09, 2011 3:33 PM GMT
    If that's all a person has to do to win your affection then perhaps you are very easily, easily manipulated. Maybe you just think he's hot and have a little crush. *shrug*
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    Aug 09, 2011 4:25 PM GMT
    Soulasphyxi saidIf that's all a person has to do to win your affection then perhaps you are very easily, easily manipulated. Maybe you just think he's hot and have a little crush. *shrug*


    naw he isn't that hot btw .. he is just normal .. however he is straight ... i cant love him ...but duh i cant get him out of my mind >,<

    + i have seen lots of hot guys .. i didn't feel the same -,-
  • coolarmydude

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    Aug 09, 2011 5:42 PM GMT
    Don't take kindness as a form of making a pass at you. Many people, including me, confuse that.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Aug 09, 2011 5:44 PM GMT
    bet he knows you're gay and keeping you as a client- Are you paying him???
  • TR_Latitude10

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    Aug 09, 2011 5:49 PM GMT
    Back in the 90s, there was a grocery store chain that required its employees to initiate a conversation, "Hello, can I help you?" This didn't last long because all the male clients thought that the female employees were "coming on" to them. It started a whole series of sexual harrassment lawwsuits.

    In sum, if someone says "Hello" it's very likely JUST a salutation.
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    Aug 09, 2011 5:55 PM GMT
    Ooo a hot straight but 'curious' coach with his gay client....
    Sounds like gay porn waiting to happen!
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    Kidding. Dont mind me, im a dirty old man, hehe....
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    Aug 09, 2011 5:56 PM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidbet he knows you're gay and keeping you as a client- Are you paying him???


    Well i pay the gym itself .. but no i dont pay him any shit ..and i would feel sux if that is true ..cuz his kindness .. killin me >,<

    Even tho .. i was mad about something .. n he saw me mad .. he kept askin me u look mad .. tell me what happened , as i know him from a long time
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    Aug 09, 2011 7:59 PM GMT
    I have 3 straight friends who always cuddle or hug me while they sleep and i thought they really want me lol. But they don't, they are just "sleephugging".

    Any intimate actions from a straight one may make you think he has some feelings for you and that sometimes will drive you crazy, but just think of him as some forbidden love, then he'll slowly vanish, it's like how a monk doing a zen session :p
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    Aug 09, 2011 10:19 PM GMT
    tyklong saidI have 3 straight friends who always cuddle or hug me while they sleep and i thought they really want me lol. But they don't, they are just "sleephugging".

    Any intimate actions from a straight one may make you think he has some feelings for you and that sometimes will drive you crazy, but just think of him as some forbidden love, then he'll slowly vanish, it's like how a monk doing a zen session :p


    hate when Straights do that ... am a bomb of emotions ... just need to press the button to explode .. n they always press it
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    Aug 13, 2011 4:15 PM GMT
    don't analyse so much. It's so easy to be deluded... in terms of mathematical statistics, the probability of your hunch being true amounts to a maximum of 0.05. Anyway it's so easy to misread others' actions when you've already formed a false perception... done it before, I was super shocked that they weren't actually gay haha!
  • dancedancekj

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    Aug 13, 2011 4:59 PM GMT
    Mmmm... straight gym coach.

    Mmmm.... straight cuddling and hugging

    Totally forbidden fruit attraction. Don't think about it, find someone else who is sweet and good looking to crush on (Check out the "RJ crush" thread on here for starters) You won't even miss him!
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    Aug 13, 2011 5:25 PM GMT
    L_O_L said.... Well Few days ago i started to see that my gym coach gives me extra attention... joke with me ... Smiles when I arrive gym ... even tellin' me ''welcome Darling'' when i go there ..i didn't even care about that .. but suddenly i started to feel something for him :S ... i don't know if its love or just admire >,<
    i feel kinda sux cuz am already dating and i don't know if that consider cheating .. to have feelings for someone else ..


    When I read shit like this - I swear some of you are off your fucking meds.
  • kemoze

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    Aug 13, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    you say.. Am Into my Straight Coach ...
    and in fact there is a big probabilitiy that ( he is not into you )
    ok , let me tell you how pathetic i was when an indian ( all races full of damn hot guys , this to racial gusy ) anyway , i loved this indian, you know why because of the fucken wrong perception that i made because that guys was always asking me about my body , ( i am not athlete but at least i am little fit , no stomach )
    anyway, sometimes when i help him at work and give him reports that support him in his work he used to say that ( I LOVE YOU ), then i i was crazy about him, that we used to text, anyway oneday , i know i was out of my mind, i asked him if he would like to have dinner cuz i wanted to make it up to him , as he drove me home oneday , he didnt reply my message and then after two weeks , you know what happened, ( I WAS THE TALK OF THE COMPANY icon_redface.gif )
    i am not out and he acted like a complete jerk , gossiping about me and spread rumors about me being gay , and i think you know very well what the meaning of being gay in the middle east,
    i know i was in my worest circumstances and i had to go through all of this , so i reported him to my financial manager and i showed him the messages, and my manager talked to him, since what happened i never say hii , even though we still work together..
    and i have a good relation with all my colleagues there that they say
    ( Kareem we love you in all ways whether you are gay or not )

    so i liked a phrase written by someone here , i dont know who, but it was
    ( dont shit where you eat )

    anyway dont fuck things up and forget about him, its just delusions.