Art_Deco saidWell I can personally promise you, nobody gives a fuck about an old guy. At least not online and not here on RJ.
Fortunately I have a wide circle of friends in real life. But do you think most guys here care about an old geezer? Of course they don't.
Though I will say, I get the most lovely e-mails from a very few guys here, who do thank me for my posts.
But I get an equal amount of hate mail, from US right-wingers, who are compelled to tell me how much they hate gay guys like myself. I'm kinda used to right-wing, conservative hatred, but it's still tough to read it. I wonder why they're on this site.
Nobody may "give a fuck about an old guy" sexually but who cares? Sex isn't the most important thing in life. If you're young and beautiful, a lot of people may give a fuck about you but that's only for sex. That's it. Once they get it from you, they're gone. It's fleeting and empty. Not worth much in the end. I'll bet older guys have a lot more true friends. People that care about you on the inside and not just what you look like. Being a young gay man can be just as lonely as being a gay senior. If not more lonely.
I always try to be friends with older gay guys but they always try to get into my pants. Persistently. Then they turn into deuschers.
I don't want to start another war here, but last year when I was quasi-new here, I tried to initiate a conversation with you---and you ignored the hell out of me. Never once did I even suggest getting "into your pants."
Every now and then this topic of "Young Versus Older" shows up in the forums and turns into examples of "Us Versus Them." As a suggestion, I would like to see some of the younger guys here take the lead...and take ownership...of changing the mindset of their own peers and educating those into accepting gay guys of all ages. As a "seasoned in life matters" individual I, along with many others in my age group, have tried to reach out to younger guys only to hear, "creeper," "old bastard," and other negative remarks hurled at us. As a group, older and younger, I believe we should work together on changing this mindset and not talk about it so much. What do you guys think???