OMG I got ignored ,meee?? no way....

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    Aug 09, 2011 8:17 PM GMT
    so I sent this guy an email 2 months ago.. and Ive been waiting for his response.. (the guy is rarely online I would say once a month) but yesterday he finally signed in ..read my message and.... IGNORED it. NOOOOOOOOO why me...

    my message & picture were cute, I guess he's the busy type of guy.. he has no friends here, never posted anything, just logs in to approve some picture comments.. on how hot is he.. bla bla bla..

    anyway I took it personally , I always go for the wrong guys...
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    Aug 09, 2011 8:24 PM GMT
    Let me try to find the root of the problem...

    jocklover23 saidso I sent this guy an email 2 months ago.. and Ive been waiting for his response..


    found it.
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    Aug 09, 2011 8:28 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidLet me try to find the root of the problem...

    jocklover23 saidso I sent this guy an email 2 months ago.. and Ive been waiting for his response..


    found it.


    There's that. Plus, everyone gets ignored by some guys.

    And if that's not the case please do not disillusion me. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 09, 2011 8:28 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidLet me try to find the root of the problem...

    jocklover23 saidso I sent this guy an email 2 months ago.. and Ive been waiting for his response..


    found it.


    You mean you dont wait months on end fantasizing about what life is going to be like with an individual when you message them?

    And its a wonder why you are single...
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    Aug 09, 2011 8:36 PM GMT
    Oh my god. I don't know why at first I read "2 days ago". I guess my brains didn't want to believe it.
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    Aug 09, 2011 8:36 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    Ariodante saidLet me try to find the root of the problem...

    jocklover23 saidso I sent this guy an email 2 months ago.. and Ive been waiting for his response..


    found it.


    You mean you dont wait months on end fantasizing about what life is going to be like with an individual when you message them?

    And its a wonder why you are single...


    Who says I wanted a relationship with that guy???
  • danisnotstr8

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    Aug 09, 2011 8:39 PM GMT
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  • DrobUA

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    Aug 09, 2011 8:44 PM GMT
    I ignore all messages from picture-less profiles
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    Aug 09, 2011 8:49 PM GMT
    You have no pictures. duh!
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:01 PM GMT
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:02 PM GMT
    jocklover23 said
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet


    This is one of the biggest lies I have ever heard...
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
    jocklover23 said
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet




    Let me explain this to you another way......

    • Guys without photos are usually not "out."
    • Guys who are not out are ashamed of their sexuality.
    • Guys who are ashamed of their sexuality are not emotionally healthy.
    • Guys who are not emotionally healthy and live their lives according to the approval of others are seen as weak.
    • Weakness is a turn-off!

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    Aug 09, 2011 9:09 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    jocklover23 said
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet


    This is one of the biggest lies I have ever heard...


    I agree with this, I've met a couple of trolls to give them the benefit of the doubt won't happen again. No pictureless profiles for me!
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:09 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    jocklover23 said
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet




    Let me explain this to you another way......

    • Guys without photos are usually not "out."
    • Guys who are not out are ashamed of their sexuality.
    • Guys who are ashamed of their sexuality are not emotionally healthy.
    • Guys who are not emotionally healthy and live their lives according to the approval of others are seen as weak.
    • Weakness is a turn-off!

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    But bro, they totally act like they bang chicks, thats hot right? I mean cause if they act like they bang chicks, and then they bang you, its like your a chick...right? And all gay men want to be chicks...right?
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:12 PM GMT
    I try to answer nearly every email I get. The exception- no pic, no info profiles.
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:15 PM GMT
    jocklover23 said
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet


    Question: If you're on a GAY DATING WEBSITE, the only people who are going to find you are ALSO Gay. So if, perchance, a peer of yours discovered your profile, you can assume that he is ALSO GAY AND IN THE CLOSET. So why not just post some pictures and get on with the dating like the rest...
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:17 PM GMT
    jocklover23 said
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet


    Actually, you are letting society pressure you into not coming out of the closet (whether it is your family, friends or workplace)... which means you are scared from society... you are letting society control you and you are not comfortable with who you want to be - that's a turn OFF.
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:20 PM GMT
    Jeandeau said
    jocklover23 said
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet


    Question: If you're on a GAY DATING WEBSITE, the only people who are going to find you are ALSO Gay. So if, perchance, a peer of yours discovered your profile, you can assume that he is ALSO GAY AND IN THE CLOSET. So why not just post some pictures and get on with the dating like the rest...


    Yeh I was gonna say this. And to make sure thats definitely true you can set your profile so only other members can view you.
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:24 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    jocklover23 said
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet




    Let me explain this to you another way......

    • Guys without photos are usually not "out."
    • Guys who are not out are ashamed of their sexuality.
    • Guys who are ashamed of their sexuality are not emotionally healthy.
    • Guys who are not emotionally healthy and live their lives according to the approval of others are seen as weak.
    • Weakness is a turn-off!

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    I'm talking about looks, and you're talking about well being ...you're completely off..
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:29 PM GMT
    Sometimes if I get the same irritating "hey stud" over and over, I don't respond. If somebody takes the time and writes me something that's not generic or shallow then 99% of the time they get a response back.

    Sometimes, if you respond back that you're not interested, the other person either gets super offended or feelings get hurt. Sometimes it's just easier on both parties not to respond.

    All in all, it's just the Internet, folks...get a hobby.
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:30 PM GMT
    Got a lil free time there don't you buddy. We've all been there time to time. You'll be okay.
  • brycetippe

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    Aug 09, 2011 9:30 PM GMT
    More than half the time, I get ignored. Doesn't mean I'm ugly or there's something wrong with me... Just I'm not their type. That's fine, I wouldn't expect them to message me if they had no interest.
    It's the way the internet is, if you can't take people ignoring you... then don't message people.
  • RHUK

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    Aug 09, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    jocklover23 said
    Scruffypup said
    jocklover23 said
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet




    Let me explain this to you another way......

    • Guys without photos are usually not "out."
    • Guys who are not out are ashamed of their sexuality.
    • Guys who are ashamed of their sexuality are not emotionally healthy.
    • Guys who are not emotionally healthy and live their lives according to the approval of others are seen as weak.
    • Weakness is a turn-off!

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    I'm talking about looks, and you're talking about well being ...you're completely off..


    I think he's completely 'on'. You might be hot, but if the guy thinks you're an emotionally unhealthy, flakey, closet-case, why would he message you back?
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:32 PM GMT
    jocklover23 said
    Scruffypup said
    jocklover23 said
    DrobUA saidI ignore all messages from picture-less profiles


    you shouldn't picture-less profiles are hottest guys ever , they're just not "out" yet




    Let me explain this to you another way......

    • Guys without photos are usually not "out."
    • Guys who are not out are ashamed of their sexuality.
    • Guys who are ashamed of their sexuality are not emotionally healthy.
    • Guys who are not emotionally healthy and live their lives according to the approval of others are seen as weak.
    • Weakness is a turn-off!

    icon_rolleyes.gif


    I'm talking about looks, and you're talking about well being ...you're completely off..



    Great. You get all the shallow guys! icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 09, 2011 9:35 PM GMT
    The fact that you think sexual attraction is all about looks says much about your mentality. I'm guessing this guy might be more mature than you.