Aug 10, 2011 5:36 AM GMT
21 year old college student in Austin but never been with a guy before. I'm a little nervous and don't really know what to do, or even how to meet guys. I'm still not out yet. Any tips? Personal experiences?
spaghettimonster saidthe skanky zerg rush
wi2sd saidGo to Rustys and pick up a cowboy! Have fun.
silkrock saidmmm I think you should loose you virginity to someone you care about. but, it you just want the NSA way I would just go to a bathhouse.
Davisboy04 saidThanks for all the advice guys. I guess the general consensus is to wait and be patient, so I suppose I'll do so and muster up the confidence to include a face pic in the near future.
spaghettimonster saidDavisboy04 said
Don't do anything you are uncomfortable with. Generally, straight people don't browse gay people corners of the internet just to "out" people ... but if you have reservations about putting your face out there, wait until you have hit that level of acceptance. You just might get recognized at Whole Foods by someone who will say "hi" and it is better for the world at large if you say "Yeah, that's me!" rather than punch a gay person in the face for knowing you from around the internets.
The gays shop at the Whole Foods. This is true.
The Whole Foods thing is so true. Central Market as well. This includes several of the cashiers (as a few of them have emailed me online). Take it slow. You'll either be like "fuck yeah I'm gay and that was awesome" or "hmmm... that wasn't as hot as I thought it would be". PLEASE USE PROTECTION! HIV is on the rise as well as other STD's in Austin because of all the "trust". Good luck man.
HisAlterEgo saidPatience is great. But that's easy to say when you've had plenty of sex already... and you're not 21 anymore when you're hard half the day. Wanking three times a day is only going to keep you at bay so long. I wouldn't suggest going to a gay bar on your own with the intention of meeting guys. Veterans can practically smell the newbies. They will pounce. Once they get you in bed a few times, you don't hear from them again. You're going to have plenty of sex in your lifetime. At some point you're going to have sex so good it's going to wipe away all the other times... so although your first time seems like a big deal now... it really isn't in the grand scheme.
I would focus more on finding gay guys to befriend. There are always support groups on colleges. I'm sure there's an LGBT center with a lot of information. There's LGBT meetup.com groups, sports leagues, student groups... plenty of ways to do what you already like doing while meeting new people. Sex will probably come will you least expect it, so don't force it.