Looks, Length, and Personality.

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    Aug 10, 2011 10:49 PM GMT
    Just how important are these factors to gay men when looking for another guy? Of course, you would have to consider your intentions, but let's try to make this a little more long term than a one night stand. And yes, there are other factors that aren't categorized.

    On a scale of 1-10 (10 most important)

    Face -
    Build -
    Hair -
    Dress Style -
    Length-
    Sense of Humor -
    Outgoing -
    Smarts -
    Is Nice -
    Assertive -
    Personable -


    And I apologize for sounding like an Eharmony profile.
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    Aug 10, 2011 11:05 PM GMT
    you forgot girth
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    Aug 10, 2011 11:29 PM GMT
    The most important factor is length times diameter, plus weight over girth, divided by angle of of the tip squared
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    Aug 11, 2011 12:22 AM GMT
    I'll explain the ones that need explanation.

    Face - 5 (It's important to have a good face, but I'm definitely more of a body person)
    Build - 10 (The guy has to at least have a decent built to be attractive imo. You could have the best face in the world, but I still wouldn't be attracted to you if you look like a twig.)
    Hair - 2 (I find some bald guys attractive)
    Dress Style - 4 (I feel like guys are often at their best when they are in casual gym clothes and not when they are focused too much on dressing well. I'm not a fan of metro guys.)
    Length- 3
    Sense of Humor - 7
    Outgoing -7
    Smarts - 8
    Is Nice -8
    Assertive - 3 (If I'm with a guy that's too assertive I'll probably find myself being passive. If I'm with a passive guy, I'll be in control.)
    Personable -8
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    Aug 11, 2011 1:48 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    KSUOWL saidThe most important factor is length times diameter, plus weight over girth, divided by angle of of the tip squared
    And this will get your TMI.


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    Aug 11, 2011 2:32 AM GMT
    Face - Very important. I block people on sites without a face photo. A good smile is great, caring eyes are wonderful, and overall it just needs to say "I am nice" rather than "Questionable pedophile and/or sex addict" what with the moustache and all.

    Build - Mostly irrelevant. I tend to like twink, average, a little chubby rather than jacked/steroids appearances. Although if you can make me laugh your BMI matters little.

    Hair - Short. Guys in long hair ... equal girls? Ew.

    Dress Style - Casual. Own some tshirts I can borrow.

    Length - Irrelevant.

    Sense of Humor - Extremely important. Lack thereof means I ignore you.

    Outgoing - Important but not necessarily a dealbreaker. My relationship model is based on how you treat me, not how you treat others. So if you can talk to me but don't put a lampshade on your head to impress people at a big loud party ... that is good.

    Smarts - I have one doctorate and am working on a second. You don't need the same pedigree but if you are dumb, I will probably have nothing to talk about besides the weather and how cute you are. That is not a successful formula for a relationship ... unless you are hyper cute and you like Pokemon.

    Is Nice - Required. If I see any sign of mean you are absolutely gone from my life.

    Assertive - I like someone to have my back. But it is not the most important thing. if you stand up to me, you should at least be respectful and debate, rather than say "This is how it is ... "

    Personable - ... is cute. But not necessary.

    The above:
    A/K/A why I am single.
  • studflyboy87

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    Aug 11, 2011 2:43 AM GMT
    I ranked mine from 0 to 10.

    Assertive - 10
    Smarts - 9
    Build - 8
    Personable - 7
    Face - 6
    Is Nice - 5
    Sense of Humor - 4
    Dress Style - 3
    Outgoing - 2
    Length- 1
    Hair - 0
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    Aug 11, 2011 3:01 AM GMT
    Face - 8. I need a guy with a good face. I like strong bone structure with kind eyes and a big smile. The smile is the most important feature though.
    Build - 6. I've liked guys with all types of builds - but generally I actually am into guys with more body fat than me. I've been attracted to guys who could probably lose 15 pounds and be even more "attractive"
    Hair - 9. A good hairline is necessary. I can't get into guys with receding hairlines or guys who are balding.
    Dress Style - 6. This can be changed. I do notice guys who are hot in just like jeans and a t-shirt or gym clothes. As someone else said, not into metro guys, although some can be hot
    Length- 3. I'm a exclusive top (for now...not have had the urge to bottom). So it doesn't really matter...but I guess average size would look most appropriate?
    Sense of Humor - 7. Important, but not a dealbreaker if someone's not funny.
    Outgoing - 6. As an introvert myself, I like it when someone can do a lot of the heavy lifting from a social perspective. But I'm more than able or capable to do it if necessary
    Smarts - 10. I need someone who can challenge me intellectually.
    Is Nice - 7.
    Assertive - 8. I'm assertive myself, but I need someone who would like to be assertive every now and then. I hate it when I'm like the only one who has to make plans and stuff.
    Personable - 10.

    Not just any guy is going to meet this criteria, I know.
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    Aug 11, 2011 3:42 AM GMT
    On a scale of 1-10 (10 most important)

    Face - 7
    Build - 9
    Hair - 5
    Dress Style - 5
    Length-8
    Sense of Humor - 8
    Outgoing - 8
    Smarts - 9
    Is Nice - 10
    Assertive - 7
    Personable - 9
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    Aug 11, 2011 3:46 AM GMT
    I LIKE TO HUG CATS!! haha

    On a scale of 1-10 (10 most important)

    Face - 7
    Build - 7
    Hair - 1
    Dress Style - 6
    Length- 5
    Sense of Humor - 7
    Outgoing - 4
    Smarts - 5
    Is Nice - 8
    Assertive - 6
    Personable - 8
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:23 AM GMT
    eChav saidJust how important are these factors to gay men when looking for another guy? Of course, you would have to consider your intentions, but let's try to make this a little more long term than a one night stand. And yes, there are other factors that aren't categorized.

    On a scale of 1-10 (10 most important)

    Face -
    Build -
    Hair -
    Dress Style -
    Length-
    Sense of Humor -
    Outgoing -
    Smarts -
    Is Nice -
    Assertive -
    Personable -


    And I apologize for sounding like an Eharmony profile.



    I think it's like riding a bicycle. If you try analyse all the muscle movements while you're doing them you'll fall off, lol.

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    -Doug
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    Aug 12, 2011 6:00 PM GMT
    Face - 8 (I'm more into face, cuz that's the thing I see the most)
    Build - 5 (Your face can compensate for the body)
    Hair - 3 (Just that long hair attract me less)
    Dress Style - 4 (If you're handsome, anything will look good)
    Length - 4 (Just asking not to be a midget)
    Sense of Humor - 6 (A little sense of humor goes a long way)
    Outgoing - 6 (Need to keep up with me at least)
    Smarts - 6 (A little intelligence doesn't hurt)
    Is Nice - 7 (I'm too nice, so I would be taken advantage of)
    Assertive - 7 (Make up your mind, cuz I'm too nice to tell you mine)


  • Latenight30

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    Aug 12, 2011 6:03 PM GMT
    Face -8
    Build -7
    Hair -3
    Dress Style -1
    Length-10
    Sense of Humor -5
    Outgoing -6
    Smarts -4
    Is Nice -9
    Assertive -2
    Personable -10

    Everything else can be change but your size and if you have a personality.
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    Aug 12, 2011 6:09 PM GMT
    Face - 10 (I'm a sucker for a nice smile)
    Build -2 (as long as the guy isn't obses, I'm cool with it)
    Hair -8 (I really like clean cut guys)
    Dress Style -6 (I like many different styles, but I really like athletic wear like Jordan, Nike, ect.)
    Length-1 (I'm a total top, so that doesn't matter to me)
    Sense of Humor -9 (I love funny guys, because I have a big sense of humor)
    Outgoing -9 ( I love going out whenever possible)
    Smarts -7 (I want a guy who can crap and read at he same time)
    Is Nice -7 (Most people I meet are nice anyway)
    Assertive -3
    Personable -8 (I see this as the same as outgoing)

    Basically I look for guys with good faces plus outgoing personalities
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    Aug 12, 2011 6:15 PM GMT
    Face - 10 (Most important. it makes it or breaks it, if I am not attracted to your face, it won't work)
    Build - 8 (Important to a good degree, but less so then a face)
    Hair - 6 (I am good with most hair styles and types, there's a short list though of "just no's")
    Dress Style - 3 (not terribly important, just be normal in a way)
    Length- 4 (not a size queen, but not gonna lie if you're below average then I am less attracted)
    Sense of Humor - 1 (I pretty much could care less, humor is irrelavent to me, "funny guys" and "jokesters" are actually a huge putoff)
    Outgoing - 7 (I get along with introverts too, but in a relationship they have to be outgoing)
    Smarts - 6 (no need to be a genius, but you have to be above average)
    Is Nice - 5 (I like nice, but there is such a thing as too nice)
    Assertive - 7 (I like assertion, and lack of it is annoying)
    Personable - 9 (if you compartimentalize your life and squester people, I am going to get extemely irratated, largely because I am quite personable).
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    Aug 12, 2011 6:26 PM GMT
    eChav saidOn a scale of 1-10 (10 most important)


    Face - 7 (Need not be model handsome, but if I'm ideally to see the same face over the better part of a lifetime, general good looks won't hurt)
    Build - 6 (Prefer athletic twink to generally athletic types, though a lack of rock hard definition ain't a dealbreaker - it just gives us mutual goals to work on as I know I'm far from being a 10 myself)
    Hair - 3 (hair can always be dressed up as the occasion needs)
    Dress Style - 4 (same as above, though a sense of personal style don't hurt)
    Length- 2 (I'm more interested in making trouble in a guy's bubble than the size of his snake, lol...)
    Sense of Humor - 10. Absolute must to both put up with my twisted sense of humour as well as to be able to keep me on my toes with his.
    Outgoing - 6 (I'm something of an introvert until I get to know others, so having someone willing to break the ice besides me would be nice)
    Smarts - 8 I likes a smart guy.
    Is Nice - 7 Nice is nice, but don't be a door mat either.
    Assertive - In Life: 7 (Don't assume I've always got a plan) In Bed: 2... I much prefer to be the guy pushing your face down into the pillow while ravaging your ass (among other things)
    Personable - 9 Absolutely.
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    Aug 12, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    Where is the option for money?!
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    Aug 13, 2011 12:32 AM GMT
    Face - 7
    Build - 5
    Hair - 3
    Dress Style -
    Length- 2
    Sense of Humor - 10
    Outgoing - 1
    Smarts - 9
    Is Nice - 8
    Assertive - 6
    Personable - 4
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    Aug 13, 2011 12:47 AM GMT
    Face - 9 I'm definitely a face guy. A face that is attractive (to me) is a must.
    Build - 7 Fitness is a big part of my life (and income). Must be putting some effort into it.
    Hair - 6 As long as they know what works for them, fine with me
    Dress Style - 7 You don't have to spend a lot to look nice. A guy should know what looks good on him.
    Length- 6 - Proportional is good
    Sense of Humor - 7 Our sense of humor should get along
    Outgoing - 8 I'm always doing something. They should be able to keep up
    Smarts - 7 No need to be a genius, but good conversation is necessary
    Is Nice - 6
    Assertive - 8 I'm not a mind reader
    Personable - 8
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    Aug 13, 2011 7:10 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    eChav saidJust how important are these factors to gay men when looking for another guy? Of course, you would have to consider your intentions, but let's try to make this a little more long term than a one night stand. And yes, there are other factors that aren't categorized.

    On a scale of 1-10 (10 most important)

    Face -
    Build -
    Hair -
    Dress Style -
    Length-
    Sense of Humor -
    Outgoing -
    Smarts -
    Is Nice -
    Assertive -
    Personable -


    And I apologize for sounding like an Eharmony profile.



    I think it's like riding a bicycle. If you try analyse all the muscle movements while you're doing them you'll fall off, lol.

    icon_wink.gif

    -Doug



    Exactly!
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    Aug 13, 2011 7:28 AM GMT
    DougI think it's like riding a bicycle. If you try analyse all the muscle movements while you're doing them you'll fall off, lol.



    That's the cutest icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 13, 2011 10:50 AM GMT
    Do you guys carry this list with you everywhere?
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    Aug 13, 2011 10:57 AM GMT
    And one wonders why some guys are chronically single.
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    Aug 13, 2011 11:13 AM GMT
    Face - 7
    Build - 5
    Hair - 1
    Dress Style - 1
    Length- 3
    Sense of Humor - 7
    Outgoing - 4
    Smarts - 8
    Is Nice - 8
    Assertive - 7
    Personable - 5