An apology that is required on my part.

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    Aug 11, 2011 1:18 AM GMT
    Just wanted to apologize to all the wonderful men (showme, Zbmw5, Rune and others) who I had fought with in the forums because I was stubborn towards the idea of open relationships not working out and how I was very close-minded.

    I am in an open relationship right now and I can tell you that it has never felt better. I definitely feel like an asshole because of what I had said in the past but it is what it is and I can only move forward from here.

    I think open relationships are a fantastic way of being able to be committed to someone but also be able to explore yourself (Showme defintiely enlightened me on this one).

    In the end, I really have changed my views on relationships because of the impact these guys have made with their words of wisdom here on RJ.

    So, once again, I apologize to all those who I had "clashed with".
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    Aug 11, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    There was no need for the public apology - but it is appreciated nonetheless, and you are a stand-up guy, M. Hugs.
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    Aug 11, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    You owe me an apology because from the first day I said you were born to be in the kitchen... I mean a bottom
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    Aug 11, 2011 1:23 AM GMT
    showme saidThere was no need for the public apology - but it is appreciated nonetheless, and you are a stand-up guy, M. Hugs.


    It was definitely required since the fighting was done in public, it is only proper to apologize in public... and thanks for accepting my apology.
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    Aug 11, 2011 1:54 AM GMT
    This is why I like RJ...people are awesome. <3
  • slimnmuscly

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    Aug 11, 2011 4:04 AM GMT
    Well done, Mohamed. It just goes to show you're getting more out of these forums than people who never stop clinging to their views.
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:10 AM GMT
    slimnmuscly saidWell done, Mohamed. It just goes to show you're getting more out of these forums than people who never stop clinging to their views.


    But then, our views are only what we know is true for us. icon_wink.gif

    We celebrate others successes and mourn along with them with their failures. We both think he's exploring, which we think healthy (as long as it's safe stuff). Everyone's journey is uniquely their own.


    -us

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    Aug 11, 2011 4:48 AM GMT
    slimnmuscly saidWell done, Mohamed. It just goes to show you're getting more out of these forums than people who never stop clinging to their views.


    thanks, hopefully I can pass the wisdom you guys passed on to me when I get older.
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:51 AM GMT
    Wow that's very big of you. ^_^ I'm proud of you. This just goes to show the kind of good guy you really are. Good for you!
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    Aug 11, 2011 5:09 AM GMT
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    Aug 11, 2011 5:10 AM GMT
    unfounded7 said


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    She didn't look very happy in that video.
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    Aug 11, 2011 5:12 AM GMT
    LOL!
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    Aug 11, 2011 5:20 AM GMT
    _Mohamed_ said
    She didn't look very happy in that video.

    She doesn't approve of your naughty parts being all engorged and tingly.
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    Aug 11, 2011 5:21 AM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    _Mohamed_ said
    She didn't look very happy in that video.

    She doesn't approve of your naughty parts being all engorged and tingly.


    well she can go fuck herself icon_razz.gif

    i'm just kidding.. that would make her more mad...
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    Aug 11, 2011 5:23 AM GMT
    _Mohamed_ said
    unfounded7 said
    _Mohamed_ said
    She didn't look very happy in that video.

    She doesn't approve of your naughty parts being all engorged and tingly.


    well she can go fuck herself icon_razz.gif

    i'm just kidding.. that would make her more mad...


    LOL!!! I thought this is an apology thread!

    (I absolutely saw the extremely small subtext!)
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    Aug 11, 2011 5:24 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidChurch lady is simply jealous.

    Classy post by the way, Mo.

    Kudos to you.


    and thank you MMTM for always proving me wrong whenever I argued with you. You helped open my mind.
  • wldct1998

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    Aug 11, 2011 5:29 AM GMT
    You never argue with me. Clearly you don't like me. icon_lol.gif jk

    We're all glad you're happy. And I expect you to be posting your wisdom from all of the recent turn of events in your life....next month? Meh, maybe next year.
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    Aug 11, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    maybe i t is not nesessary to do this
    you are a nice man
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    Aug 11, 2011 6:02 AM GMT
    Hate to say it, but I told you that you were a moron. Actually, that's not the truth - I enjoyed saying it.
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    Aug 11, 2011 6:49 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    _Mohamed_ said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidChurch lady is simply jealous.

    Classy post by the way, Mo.

    Kudos to you.


    and thank you MMTM for always proving me wrong whenever I argued with you. You helped open my mind.


    I never viewed your beliefs as "wrong" but I will admit I was hoping to simply expand your mind.

    I too am less judgmental about open relationships because of people's contributions to the threads. Just sort of happened over the past month or so. So I have grown as well.


    LOL, OMG, now ive seen everything.. im sorry, this was unexpected on my part icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 11, 2011 7:03 AM GMT
    I just want to say that people in open relationships are immoral and going to hell that is all.

    Also man on man sex is not ok...
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    Aug 11, 2011 7:05 AM GMT
    Chainers saidI just want to say that people in open relationships are immoral and going to hell that is all.

    Also man on man sex is not ok...


    Halleluia amen bruther!

    god is watching you!!!
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    Aug 11, 2011 7:08 AM GMT
    _Mohamed_ said
    I think open relationships are a fantastic way of being able to be committed to someone but also be able to explore yourself (Showme defintiely enlightened me on this one).

    In the end, I really have changed my views on relationships because of the impact these guys have made with their words of wisdom here on RJ.

    So, once again, I apologize to all those who I had "clashed with".


    Awww, that's sweet...but don't do it to please people here.

    I still believe the only open relationship I'd be 'open to' is if it was 2 older guys wanting to meet younger men or if someone was bringing in cash to be sleeping with other dudes (because the chances of either of those turning into relationships is slim).

    Then again, I'm a jealous ass mother fucker and I wouldn't feel right with someone seeing other guys with the exception of the occasional 3-way taking place out of town.

    Mohammad....you're young. Just proceed with caution and keep your eyes open. I meet a lot of men on adam4adam who claim to be in open relationships, but yet they have 2 profiles....one they "play together" and then another the boyfriend sneaks behind his man's back to hookup. Yet claiming to be in an open relationship.

    No...they are being sneaky is they're doing. They're being grimey.
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    Aug 11, 2011 7:15 AM GMT
    I'm glad you are happy and I hope that you maintain this new found open minded behavior.
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    Aug 11, 2011 7:45 AM GMT
    This thread is vile and disgusting. It should go to my room immediately. >:[