Sex in Gyms or Other Public Places

  • tuffguyndc

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    Aug 11, 2011 1:42 AM GMT
    Here is the deal. I was at the gym today and there were two dudes in the sauna having oral sex. When I worked another gym we had to have the managers walk around constantly through out the day to make sure no one doing anything sexual in the showers or steam rooms/sauna. Guys seriously,what is wrong with people? I mean do these guys not have any self respect for themselves? I mean what is wrong? Am I just old fashion or a prude because? If so, I am very proud of it because I will never understand it. Has anyone else seen this at your gym?
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:57 AM GMT
    THANK YOU.

    I have been trying to inform people of this for years

    You cruise,
    YOU LOSE.
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    Aug 11, 2011 5:05 AM GMT
    I don't really care what other people do as long as it doesn't involve me icon_razz.gif

    I don't WANT people to have sex in the gym, but you know what if the do, I'm not going to die from seeing them have sex, if anything just be annoyed I have to give them space icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 11, 2011 5:45 AM GMT
    adam228 saidI don't really care what other people do as long as it doesn't involve me icon_razz.gif

    I don't WANT people to have sex in the gym, but you know what if the do, I'm not going to die from seeing them have sex, if anything just be annoyed I have to give them space icon_razz.gif


    +1, To each their own, just stay out of my way.
  • Timbales

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    Aug 11, 2011 6:24 AM GMT
    If I wanted to use the steam room and guys were in there fucking, I wouldn't give them space. I'd tell them to clear out or I was going to report them. If I'm paying my dues to use the facility, then I'm not going to be inconvenienced by guys that either can't or won't do their business in private.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Aug 11, 2011 7:11 AM GMT
    KardioKing said
    adam228 saidI don't really care what other people do as long as it doesn't involve me icon_razz.gif

    I don't WANT people to have sex in the gym, but you know what if the do, I'm not going to die from seeing them have sex, if anything just be annoyed I have to give them space icon_razz.gif


    +1, To each their own, just stay out of my way.
    hello, the gym is for working out not sex dude. i mean seriously they should have some common decency
  • tuffguyndc

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    Aug 11, 2011 7:16 AM GMT
    Timbales saidIf I wanted to use the steam room and guys were in there fucking, I wouldn't give them space. I'd tell them to clear out or I was going to report them. If I'm paying my dues to use the facility, then I'm not going to be inconvenienced by guys that either can't or won't do their business in private.
    finally someone that makes sense. listen, i do not have a problem with someone having sex in there cars or hell outside in a park or somewhere else that no one will give a shit.
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    Aug 11, 2011 8:12 AM GMT
    So what did you do? Honestly I would probably just leave them to it.
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Aug 11, 2011 4:02 PM GMT
    Sex at the gym is not for me, but I'm not bothered by it at all so long as their activity doesn't interrupt/inconvenience other members.

    That said, I'm way on the other end of the USA spectrum regarding nudity, PDA, etc. I find it highly annoying how the country has developed such puritanical attitudes towards covering up the body, feeling the need to hide an erection, etc.

    Now, if I want to use the steam room and they're sprawled out taking up space I could use, that would annoy me. Or if I got shot in the eye with a salty white liquid, that would piss me off too.

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    Aug 11, 2011 4:11 PM GMT
    [quote]tuffguyndc said
    +1, To each their own, just stay out of my way. hello, the gym is for working out not sex dude. i mean seriously they should have some common decency [/quote]

    If you don't consider sex a workout, you're doing it wrong icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 12, 2011 12:19 AM GMT
    tuffguyndc said
    Timbales saidIf I wanted to use the steam room and guys were in there fucking, I wouldn't give them space. I'd tell them to clear out or I was going to report them. If I'm paying my dues to use the facility, then I'm not going to be inconvenienced by guys that either can't or won't do their business in private.
    finally someone that makes sense. listen, i do not have a problem with someone having sex in there cars or hell outside in a park or somewhere else that no one will give a shit.


    People having sex in these public spaces doesn't matter to you because they aren't getting in your space which looks to me to be the issue. In either places it's not appropriate but one affects you more than the other.