I think my son is gay, what should I do?

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    May 02, 2008 6:33 AM GMT
    I think my son is gay, what should I do?

    That is a common question that I get asked a lot. and here is what i have to say to that.

    For most parents, that is the biggest question "is my child gay?" But my question to you is "what difference does it make?" Let me tell you something, if you suspect that your child is gay, most likely they are. And you need to understand that its something they can't change no matter how many conversion camps you send them to. You have to accept it. For more http://inacloset.blogspot.com/ . If you have any more questions please message me on my blog, or @ coolguy4192@yahoo.com I'm all ears. please tell me your story.

    learn from the mistakes from my parents.
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    May 02, 2008 7:22 AM GMT
    Is this a valid topic or forum spam to get attention for you blog?
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    May 02, 2008 11:04 AM GMT
    Matterych saidIs this a valid topic or forum spam to get attention for you blog?

    I think it's both, but on the latter point, I despise blog pimps.

    I think we can discuss it here without going off site to someone's blog.
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    May 02, 2008 12:55 PM GMT
    This is a valid topic and one that is unfortunately not handled well. Too many people still think of sexual orientation as a choice (except of course for heterosexuality) that can be "corrected." The steps people have taken over the years to try and "cure" homosexuality has done nothing but increase the amount of unnecessary human misery in the world.
  • joeindallas

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    May 02, 2008 2:00 PM GMT
    Embrace him he is no differnt than when he was 6 years old and needed your love

    Protection him the world can be an ugly place

    Accept him as he is, not how you want him to be.
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    May 02, 2008 2:18 PM GMT
    Or, you could take a page from the Ann Coulter book...When asked what she would say to her son if he came to her and announced he was gay, she JOKINGLY replied..

    "Hmmmmm...did I ever mention you were adopted??
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    May 02, 2008 2:56 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ saidOr, you could take a page from the Ann Coulter book...When asked what she would say to her son if he came to her and announced he was gay, she JOKINGLY replied..

    "Hmmmmm...did I ever mention you were adopted??


    LOL...nice! Now there's a way of shifting the responsibility (was going to say blame but who's to blame!) LOL
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    May 02, 2008 7:45 PM GMT
    A.C. is a cunt. why would ANYONE use her as a guide to decent HUMAN behavior?
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    Jan 26, 2010 8:37 AM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ saidOr, you could take a page from the Ann Coulter book...When asked what she would say to her son if he came to her and announced he was gay, she JOKINGLY replied..

    "Hmmmmm...did I ever mention you were adopted??


    if she was joking then thats funny lol
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    Jan 26, 2010 9:16 AM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ saidOr, you could take a page from the Ann Coulter book...When asked what she would say to her son if he came to her and announced he was gay, she JOKINGLY replied..

    "Hmmmmm...did I ever mention you were adopted??


    oh God that was funny

    I remember reading someplace else about a guy came out to his mom
    and his moms reaction was

    " oh .. this is like Oprah "
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    Jan 26, 2010 9:54 AM GMT
    coolguy4192 saidI think my son is gay, what should I do?

    That is a common question that I get asked a lot. and here is what i have to say to that.

    For most parents, that is the biggest question "is my child gay?" But my question to you is "what difference does it make?" Let me tell you something, if you suspect that your child is gay, most likely they are. And you need to understand that its something they can't change no matter how many conversion camps you send them to. You have to accept it. For more http://inacloset.blogspot.com/ . If you have any more questions please message me on my blog, or @ coolguy4192@yahoo.com I'm all ears. please tell me your story.

    learn from the mistakes from my parents.

    I WOULD SAY.. LOVE HIM/HER...JUST THE SAME.. AS IF HE OR SHE WAS LEFT-HANDED.. TELL HIM/HER THAT YOU WIIL WORRY, IF YOU KNOW HE OR SHE WAS INTO DRUGS.. A GAY SON IS A BLESSING JUST AS AN STREIGHT ONEicon_smile.gif
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    Jan 26, 2010 10:29 AM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ saidOr, you could take a page from the Ann Coulter book...When asked what she would say to her son if he came to her and announced he was gay, she JOKINGLY replied..

    "Hmmmmm...did I ever mention you were adopted??


    Did I ever mention that I'm going to buy you a Life Alert and forget to put in the batteries, you bitch? icon_wink.gif
  • discoteca

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    Jan 26, 2010 4:47 PM GMT
    How about the reverse .... I only came out in 2002, and have 2 kids, girl 12, boy 10..... My daughter figured it for herslef, and when she talked to me about it, I told her everyting, my son as yet doesn`t know... that will be okay too hopefully icon_wink.gif .. when the time comes .....
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    Jan 26, 2010 4:51 PM GMT
    Note that the poster here is employing a technique called viral marketing. It doesn't appear to be for profit.
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    Jan 26, 2010 4:53 PM GMT
    Ann Coulter, like Rush Limbaugh, exemplifies some of the worst traits of the human species, and should serve as an example of "bad people."
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    discoteca saidHow about the reverse .... I only came out in 2002, and have 2 kids, girl 12, boy 10..... My daughter figured it for herslef, and when she talked to me about it, I told her everyting, my son as yet doesn`t know... that will be okay too hopefully icon_wink.gif .. when the time comes .....


    whadya tell her when she told u daddy r u gay?
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    Jan 26, 2010 5:22 PM GMT
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    CuriousJockAZ saidOr, you could take a page from the Ann Coulter book...When asked what she would say to her son if he came to her and announced he was gay, she JOKINGLY replied..

    "Hmmmmm...did I ever mention you were adopted??


    Thankfully Congress is passing a law that forbids that cunt from being allowed to reproduce...and then again, what male would want to get close to her to have sexual contact....LMAO
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    Jan 26, 2010 5:43 PM GMT
    coolguy4192 saidI think my son is gay, what should I do

    The same thing you should do if you learned your son is left-handed, versus right-handed, which is what 90% of humans are, about the same ratio as straight versus gay.

    Accommodate him, support him, make his life easier. Never judge him, and never try to change him. He is what he is, and proceed from there. If you love him, the answer is self-evident. Best of luck to both of you.
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    Jan 26, 2010 5:50 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ saidOr, you could take a page from the Ann Coulter book...When asked what she would say to her son if he came to her and announced he was gay, she JOKINGLY replied..

    "Hmmmmm...did I ever mention you were adopted??


    HAhAHAHAHHAHAHHAHA