My first time...

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    Aug 11, 2011 10:12 AM GMT
    I went club hopping to gay bars for the first time and it wasnt what I thought it was gonna be.
    1st way more fat chicks than family guy had prepped me for.
    2nd needy go go dancers who need to be told there cute.
    3rd, the guy with only a jock strap on getting pounded on the dance floor. Really, they didnt even try to pretend the were dancing.
    And Finally, the random dude who tried to blow me without asking me name. And if that wasnt bad enough he fingered my ass then told me to smell it. Afterwards he had the bartender smell his fingers and bragged about it. Why would he try to blow me and finger me before getting to know me! I'm not saying I wouldnt want a blow job but not while I'm still drinking at the bar.

    Please tell me this isnt how all gay bars are.
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    Aug 11, 2011 12:55 PM GMT
    Did drag queens have a knife fight in the parking lot, too?

    Yikes...this is hardly an example of a "normal" gay bar.
  • Ironman4U

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    Aug 11, 2011 1:04 PM GMT
    So why did you let him finger you?
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    Aug 11, 2011 1:04 PM GMT
    Welcome to the Eagle!
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    Aug 11, 2011 1:18 PM GMT
    Yikes.... And gross....
  • laxdude25

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    Aug 11, 2011 1:32 PM GMT
    How does a guy at a gay bar casually finger you without there being some degree of cooperation on your part?!?
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    Aug 11, 2011 1:35 PM GMT
    I for one am appalled. Do you have the address of this club?
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    Aug 11, 2011 1:56 PM GMT
    If you let him finger you...you probably didn't mind?
  • calibro

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    Aug 11, 2011 3:52 PM GMT
    are you sure you didn't end up in a bath house? they look quite similar.

    and frankly, i have doubts about a guy in just a jockstrap having sex on the dance floor. it's highly illegal (not that bar owners care, but they can easily be sued, which they do care about). at least in texas, go go boys aren't even allowed to wear jockstraps... so i find it odd that someone could just wear one. and if you have a problem with this while at the same time letting a guy who doesn't know your name finger you in public, then you're crazy.
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    Aug 11, 2011 3:58 PM GMT
    AnotherKevin saidPlease tell me this isnt how all gay bars are.

    This is not how all gay bars are. There.

    In truth, I've NEVER been to a gay bar like that. Sounds more like a bathhouse. Try someplace else.
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:00 PM GMT
    successful troll is successful
  • rnch

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    Aug 11, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    AnotherKevin saidPlease tell me this isnt how all gay bars are.

    This is not how all gay bars are. There.

    In truth, I've NEVER been to a gay bar like that. Sounds more like a bathhouse. Try someplace else.



    agree with AD!

    even here in New Orleans, one of the great "gay-friendly" cities of USA; i have not wittnessed the behavior you described. even during southern decadence or mardi gras.

    now perhaps in one of the baths or at a private party.... icon_wink.gif

  • calibro

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    Aug 11, 2011 4:16 PM GMT
    also, you're contradicting yourself. you already made a thread about your first time in bars... http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1739228/
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:21 PM GMT
    laxdude25 saidHow does a guy at a gay bar casually finger you without there being some degree of cooperation on your part?!?


    Well, that guy did say he was a licensed medical practitioner and he was offering free prostate exams.
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:27 PM GMT
    I haven't been to a gay bar before but I have seen inside a couple of them here in NY. None of what you described was going on. In fact, the only thing that set it apart from any straight bar was the fact that it was just a bunch of guys talking about nothing. Same as any straight club icon_biggrin.gif
  • Montague

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    Aug 11, 2011 4:27 PM GMT
    endo said
    laxdude25 saidHow does a guy at a gay bar casually finger you without there being some degree of cooperation on your part?!?


    Well, that guy did say he was a licensed medical practitioner and he was offering free prostate exams.


    If that's the case, then I'd guess it would be alright to get some free and easy medical care right on the spot, not to mention convenient.
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:28 PM GMT
    Yes, Kevin. ALL gay bars are like that. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:41 PM GMT
    I didnt really let anyone finger. The guy was already touchie feelie next thing you know it he went from just groping my ass to hands in the back of my pants. It just caught me off guard.
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    calibro saidalso, you're contradicting yourself. you already made a thread about your first time in bars... http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1739228/



    This was my first time in a gay bar. The place with topless chicks on the bar was some random dive I walked into.
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    Aug 11, 2011 6:44 PM GMT
    AnotherKevin saidI didnt really let anyone finger. The guy was already touchie feelie next thing you know it he went from just groping my ass to hands in the back of my pants. It just caught me off guard.


    First you were fingered, we all balked at it. Now you werent?

    Sounds like someone is just fishing for attention on the internets. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • ATXnative

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    Aug 11, 2011 6:56 PM GMT
    calibro saidalso, you're contradicting yourself. you already made a thread about your first time in bars... http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1739228/


    lol.
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    Aug 11, 2011 7:13 PM GMT
    It sounds like you went to a San Francisco gay bar, let me guess you went to Badlands? God I hate Badlands...
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    Aug 11, 2011 7:17 PM GMT
    Hahaoh gosh I've been to gay bars plenty but went gay bar hopping for the first time last weekend and it was a blast!

    ...Maybe because you're in Cali?
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    Aug 11, 2011 7:21 PM GMT
    Well, here in Dallas, Texas, there are alot of bars that are like that.

    It just takes some getting used to...

    One bar here has a back room that is totally dark and you just kind of "feel" through and it's just a big, grinding mass of orgy.
    Another bar is a big dance place and yes, there are guys sucking each other off and fucking in the middle of the dance floor.
    There is another bar where there is a long urinal and all the guys drink piss and suck each other. So, if you don't mind pissing in someones mouth or getting a blow job, then, that is the place.

    Mind you, all of this happens on mostly Saturday nights...That is only night I go cruising, so, I can't speak on other nights.

    It just depends on what you are looking for. There are bars that are really uppity and everyone just stands around putting down those that don't have the latest clothes or shoes or whatever....and there are the "fun" bars that I frequent....
    You just have to take your chances....you'll figure it out.

    I get laid more at these clubs than I do at the bathhouses......although, those are good places to have fun too.....

    If you don't like those places just ask around and guys will refer you to "non-sex" bars.....icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 11, 2011 7:31 PM GMT
    KingBee38 saidWell, here in Dallas, Texas, there are alot of bars that are like that.

    It just takes some getting used to...

    One bar here has a back room that is totally dark and you just kind of "feel" through and it's just a big, grinding mass of orgy.
    Another bar is a big dance place and yes, there are guys sucking each other off and fucking in the middle of the dance floor.
    There is another bar where there is a long urinal and all the guys drink piss and suck each other. So, if you don't mind pissing in someones mouth or getting a blow job, then, that is the place.

    Mind you, all of this happens on mostly Saturday nights...That is only night I go cruising, so, I can't speak on other nights.


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