Is this a hookup?

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    Aug 11, 2011 11:54 AM GMT
    My recent experience got me thinking.

    I met this really hot Brazilian guy on grindr. He invited me over to "take a shower together" after my sunset run. So I did. And when I got there, we have a a little bit if smalltalk, then we hit the shower together. We start making out in it and it was hot! After the shower, we went into his bedroom and made out some more, nekkid.

    Now we didn't fuck and we didn't have oral and we didn't even got off from the mutual JO. My question: Does this count as a hookup or not really? I don't do this kind of stuff often so I'm asking.
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    Aug 11, 2011 12:03 PM GMT
    Yes, it's a "hookup." Sperm need not leave the penis to be considered a hookup. Not sure why the terminology is so important to you though. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 11, 2011 12:08 PM GMT
    he invited you just to shower, so yeah. a very mild one but yeah
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    Aug 11, 2011 12:14 PM GMT
    Yes, you were naked and touching.
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    Aug 11, 2011 1:05 PM GMT
    He hooked you, and you went up!
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    Aug 11, 2011 2:04 PM GMT
    Aww come on and tell all, Waimea ;-)
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    Aug 11, 2011 2:08 PM GMT
    MAYBE it's more of a hiccup than a TOTAL hookup ?? Nawww, you hooked ! icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 11, 2011 2:17 PM GMT
    Waimea your not hot enough to hook up so no this was not a hook up!
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    Aug 11, 2011 2:26 PM GMT
    That's hot
    I guess I don't understand is why not even a BJ? You guys like...showered together...it's not like that's going to make things any less intimate
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    Aug 11, 2011 2:35 PM GMT
    Chainers saidWaimea your not hot enough to hook up so no this was not a hook up!


    BEtch cum 2 L.A. n aye will shut yo mouth by stuffing it with my meat.
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    Aug 11, 2011 2:55 PM GMT
    it counts. you can add another notch and tell your friends.

    actually i'd have to check, but Brazilian guys might count as 2 points...?
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    Aug 11, 2011 3:17 PM GMT
    waimea said
    Chainers saidWaimea your not hot enough to hook up so no this was not a hook up!


    BEtch cum 2 L.A. n aye will shut yo mouth by stuffing it with my meat.


    Betch you can't handle me!
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    Aug 11, 2011 3:27 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    waimea said
    Chainers saidWaimea your not hot enough to hook up so no this was not a hook up!


    BEtch cum 2 L.A. n aye will shut yo mouth by stuffing it with my meat.


    Betch you can't handle me!


    I would love to handle you Chainers! All of you!
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Aug 11, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    Definitely a hook up!
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    Aug 11, 2011 3:53 PM GMT
    markinaztukee said
    Chainers said
    waimea said
    Chainers saidWaimea your not hot enough to hook up so no this was not a hook up!


    BEtch cum 2 L.A. n aye will shut yo mouth by stuffing it with my meat.


    Betch you can't handle me!


    I would love to handle you Chainers! All of you!


    For some reason this thread is all about cute Chainers now.

    Hello? Can we please focus back on me? The OP? The one with the real question?
  • calibro

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    Aug 11, 2011 3:55 PM GMT
    one the scale of prude to whore, you're hook up was sydney from scream one before she puts out.
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    Aug 11, 2011 3:56 PM GMT
    waimea said
    markinaztukee said
    Chainers said
    waimea said
    Chainers saidWaimea your not hot enough to hook up so no this was not a hook up!


    BEtch cum 2 L.A. n aye will shut yo mouth by stuffing it with my meat.


    Betch you can't handle me!


    I would love to handle you Chainers! All of you!


    For some reason this thread is all about cute Chainers now.

    Hello? Can we please focus back on me? The OP? The one with the real question?

    Sorry-to me it's a hookup becaue you two "hooked up" together and went to bed.
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    Aug 11, 2011 3:57 PM GMT
    That's why the guy who invited me over to his house yesterday...I didn't come.

    And then when I suggested meeting elsewhere, he flaked. If you don't want a hookup, don't go to their house on the first date.

    And if they can't accept it, fuck em (not literally). Although if they are just about sex, might as well just fuck them as chances are they won't ever turn into anything anyway.
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    Aug 11, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    y does it matter?
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:00 PM GMT
    jrunner25 saidy does it matter?


    Because some people actually care about the type of relationships they create with people rather than just slagging off every guy they meet.
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:02 PM GMT
    jrunner25 saidy does it matter?


    Because if I refer him to my friends, I dunno what to call him. Do I call him "the guy I made out with", or "my hookup from last week", or "this hot Brazilian trick".

    See, it's all about the definitions. What do I call him?
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    waimea said
    Because if I refer him to my friends, I dunno what to call him. Do I call him "the guy I made out with", or "my hookup from last week", or "this hot Brazilian trick".

    See, it's all about the definitions. What do I call him?


    So it's all about what your friends think? For a moment I thought you had integrity about the situation.

    How about you call him by his name. Is it Bruno? Then call him Bruno...
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    i wouldn't call it a hook up...more like a meet-up or cuddle-up...sorry but no erection=not a hookup
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:05 PM GMT
    Fit4FitnDenver said
    waimea said
    Because if I refer him to my friends, I dunno what to call him. Do I call him "the guy I made out with", or "my hookup from last week", or "this hot Brazilian trick".

    See, it's all about the definitions. What do I call him?


    So it's all about what your friends think? For a moment I thought you had integrity about the situation.

    How about you call him by his name. Is it Bruno? Then call him Bruno...


    I certainly hope it's more than a hookup but after a week of just light convo on grindr. I don't think he has an intention of meeting up again icon_sad.gif

    Of course I hope it's more. He's hot and we really clicked in bed. I felt there was some real intimacy there.
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    Aug 11, 2011 4:06 PM GMT
    dannylv saidi wouldn't call it a hook up...more like a meet-up or cuddle-up...sorry but no erection=not a hookup


    Oh there were erections. There were just no ejaculation.