Which picture to use

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    Aug 12, 2011 6:48 AM GMT
    I want to put a picture on my Grindr profile, mainly to catch the attention of a certain someone I've been talking to. I can't decide if I should put the close-lipped smile one or the one where I show my teeth. I always just get called "cute", and it's kind of annoying. I'd like to try and look sort of more sexy/handsome/mature if possible. icon_smile.gif But I don't want to look like a serious jerk either. I think when I grin my smile looks sort of crooked and weird, and my eyes get all squinty. Anyway, let me know which on y'all think I should use. Thanks!

    http://i1114.photobucket.com/albums/k535/xbbllx/whichresize.jpg
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    Aug 12, 2011 7:07 AM GMT
    Neither....take your shirt off, pull down your shorts and flaunt your cock/ass...whichever needs stimulation.

    Afterall, that's what grindr is for. sexual stimulation. That's what will garnish the most attention.
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    Aug 12, 2011 12:16 PM GMT
    take off your shirt kinda open up your pants enough to show a hint of pubic hair. no dick that will get you deleted on grindr lol try too look sexy.
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    Aug 12, 2011 12:18 PM GMT
    Fit4FitnDenver saidNeither....take your shirt off, pull down your shorts and flaunt your cock/ass...whichever needs stimulation.

    Afterall, that's what grindr is for. sexual stimulation. That's what will garnish the most attention.


    That kind of pictures don't get approved by grindr.
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    Aug 12, 2011 12:43 PM GMT
    I think mouth closed. But why no shirtlessness?
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    Aug 12, 2011 2:30 PM GMT
    don't listen to these people who are trying to say u need to be shirtless. From my experience, those with only shirtless pics try a bit too hard to get laid and often their chest is better than the rest (just from my experience..).. They have tried to pick up with 'g' rated pics, and failed, so they feel they need to show more skin.. it's a bit trashy. Use the closed mouth pic, it's very seductive, and your look is great. If someone wants more pics, they can ask for more.

    If i were on grindr and saw your clothed pic, I would message you because you come across as normal, balanced, and not desperate.
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    Aug 12, 2011 6:33 PM GMT
    They're both fine, you're a very nice looking guy.

    That said, a couple of tips.

    1. The pics are close enough that if one didn't get his attention, the other is not likely to.

    2. It's fine on grindr to just message someone with a pic, but it's also very common to be completely ignored. Grindr conversations can be a weird combination of immediate intimacy and clinical distance. If you get too hung upon on one guy you only know as a tiny little jpg you're gonna get hurt.

    Good luck, and have fun!
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    Aug 13, 2011 3:45 AM GMT
    definitely the one with your mouth closed... you look very natural there.
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    Aug 13, 2011 3:51 AM GMT
    both are so very ... alabama...
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    Aug 13, 2011 3:59 AM GMT
    this is my current grindr pic.
    anonymouslogo.jpg
    Granted I get very little traffic there now, but so far no creepers.

    I had a Courage Wolf up last week, but that was a little creepy looking in retrospect, considering that not everyone knows about these sort of 4chan memes.

    But anon sums up grindr quite well... lol

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    Aug 13, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    Doesn't really matter. If they find you attractive, any picture will do, and if they don't...you can go to a professional photographer, spend a few hundred, and still look hideous to the other guy.
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    Aug 13, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
    I like em both.. you look really friendly on both.. but I like the left best of all, without teeth showing and smiling...
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    Aug 13, 2011 4:40 AM GMT
    Fit4FitnDenver saidNeither....take your shirt off, pull down your shorts and flaunt your cock/ass...whichever needs stimulation.

    Afterall, that's what grindr is for. sexual stimulation. That's what will garnish the most attention.


    I guess a whore would know eh?