"Are you hung?" vs. "How hung are you?"

  • sfnicolas

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    Jul 06, 2007 11:44 PM GMT
    I find it interesting which way some guys ask the endowment question. One reveals their preference right away, the other a general inquiry.

    Discuss amongst yourselves...I am curious what you guys think when asked either question.
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    Jul 07, 2007 3:35 AM GMT
    I'm not a 'size' kinda guy and would prefer to just find out. I couldn't imagine myself asking any guy that kinda question. And if I had been sked that question I wouldn't be seeing that shallow person a 2nd time.
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    Jul 07, 2007 4:55 AM GMT
    I think it's a little distasteful, but I think it depends on how the conversation led to that particular topic. If the topic was sex, and endowment was a topic. I think it's acceptable to ask. However, if you're just meeting someone, it's kinna inappropriate.
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    Jul 07, 2007 10:01 AM GMT
    Some guys seem obsessed with size. I think it's a no-no to ask nor does it affect my decision on whether to take things further.
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    Jul 07, 2007 3:21 PM GMT
    I hate to mention this. But if I'm doing those "sex fo sale" thing (unfortunately I do that sometimes) with some male prostitue I ask that question . If I gonna pay u, I have a right to know how many inches I getting. Not being disrespectful , just talking business.
  • Lincsbear

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    Jul 07, 2007 6:12 PM GMT
    Size isn`t a huge issue to me.Physically,his physique counts for more.And that`s less important than his personslity!
  • GQjock

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    Jul 08, 2007 7:45 PM GMT
    I'm of the Goldilocks persuasion .... I like guys who are "just right" :)
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    Jul 10, 2007 12:46 AM GMT
    Which would be worse? To be really hung and it not work....or to be average and everything work when called upon. I'll go with average any day of the week.
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    Jul 10, 2007 9:16 AM GMT
    So bigger is better then?!
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    Jul 10, 2007 1:41 PM GMT
    Chuck,

    There is some truth to that. I been with some guy that really hung, but kinda soft. The bigger it is, the more blood is require to pump into it. I have also see some of those porn stuff, guy that are too big just not as hard as average guy. However there exception though, I been with this fellow and his is so big but as hard as iron
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    Jul 10, 2007 3:14 PM GMT
    I think the questions is...what do you like? now, if your an aggressive bottom...then you might like that 12 inch beer can. on the other hand if your an aggressive top.....then the size of your bottoms tool might not be as important. Buy if we are all going to be honest here, we all wish ours was just a little bit bigger, no matter how big you are! as long as it salutes!
  • sfnicolas

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    Jul 10, 2007 3:20 PM GMT
    Well said Billyboy! here here
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    Jul 10, 2007 11:35 PM GMT
    A sucker is born every minute, unfortunately I am one of them. I once buy an expensive vacum pump in order to enlarge myself. I come across a site in internet about. This guy come to my house and show me the then and after picture and yes, I was impressed. The pump dont work.

    I have try pill, massage , rubbing oil on it until I decided to just be happy with what I got. For an Asian fellow I am just normal and average. Nothing to be ashamed of.
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    Jul 11, 2007 12:06 AM GMT
    Would I be happy with a bit more. Of course! Goes without saying.

    I would much rather look proportioned to my height and build than have something hanging off of mme that looked too 'huge' or too 'tiny'.

    As for gimmicks and tricks. I don't know of any that really work. I've heard pros and cons of pumps but have never used one. Pills. I think you would probably get the same effect from eating right, exercising regularily, and drinking plenty of water. Don't believe in the magic pill...well except for Viagra (but I've never used it).

    I have seen the effect of healthy teenage males coming into the ER having combined Viagra and Ecstasy and ending up with a painful four hour erection. The process to deflate them is not pretty to watch.
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    Jul 12, 2007 12:23 AM GMT
    big sure is a good fantasy, but it depends on how it's used :) i've never been a fan of sex so rough that it leaves you raw and blistering .. top or bottom

    actually i quite enjoy sex that is smooth enough that you still enjoy intercourse after orgasm
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    Sep 25, 2007 6:42 AM GMT
    it may be a little odd, but i prefer smaller...something close to average or even a bit smaller...then again, i'm not a full time bottom, either...if it's too big, it's a turn off for me. to answer the original question, i'm not a big fan of being asked my size. i don't generally make it part of any conversation. i like to find out when the time is right.
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    Sep 28, 2007 11:56 PM GMT
    if he's asking your size, then you know where his mind is. As simple as that.

    So is your mind there too, or are you looking for something little more.

    Now if its playful flirting than yeah I get it, but if its just right off the bang how hung are you? Give me your stats? Thats hook up talk and nothing more and unless you're looking to have some quick fun then is kinda trashy.

    So looking for sex, its all fine and dandy.
    Looking for more, playful flirty is more acceptable.

    for as size in general I'm more of a size of your heart and mind kind of guy. Though I prefer a guy that is decently endowed, a penis is a penis as long as its 5 inches and up, not to offend anyone 4 and below. Whatever comes with that idea dude will become my idea size.
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    Sep 29, 2007 1:19 AM GMT
    Since I'm primarily a bottom, I seldom get that question and I never ask it. I've been with men who were incredibly well hung and those who were smaller than average. Its been my experience that bigger isn't always better, especially if he doesn't know what to do with it...

    On the other hand, the best sex I've ever had was with a guy that was just surprisingly huge... but it was not because of his size... rather it was because of what he did and because he took the time to really get to know me and was genuinely turned on by the person I am, rather than how I looked or how big my dick is...

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    Sep 29, 2007 1:30 AM GMT
    Chuckmeister...

    Your last sentence in your previous post made me curious... so I checked it out...

    http://www.webmd.com/content/article/3/1680_50136.htm

    I had always wondered how that would be treated... OUCH!!!
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    Oct 24, 2007 1:57 AM GMT
    I don't like it when guys ask. I'm pretty hung myself, and no pun intended.. I hate it when guys get hung up on that. Like.. "hello.. i'm up here!"

    I'm probably pretty weird for thinking this way.. but I preffer a guy who's kinda.. lacking in inches.
  • Timbales

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    Oct 25, 2007 11:48 PM GMT
    I've never had anyone ask me that.
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    Nov 08, 2007 9:31 PM GMT
    I am not a size person either, but having dated a guy that we decided to go slow and tried to put the sex thing off for as long as possible. Naive. Anyway, when we did finally get naked, I was shocked to find just how over the size limit he was and he was totally into topping. So, I have learned while size is not important, discussions about sex and size should be discussed.
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    Nov 19, 2007 2:29 PM GMT
    I must agree with you NYCalexander... it should be discussed. I was in a couple relationships and the conversation about size never happened. When it was our time to go further it was always a bad situation because I'm quite thick (I don't think I'm huge by any means, but almost as thick as my wrist)and no one would bottom for me. I always ended up feeling like I was a bottom by default and was put off by that. It's always good to know what you're getting into before the emotional attachment get's too deep.(No pun intended) I prefer being versatile, but mostly top now. I also learned that the size thing is irrelevent when you're with someone who's relaxed and trusting enough to handle whatever you have. I don't think a guys size should be a surprise.
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    Nov 19, 2007 2:44 PM GMT
    When I was single it never came up, only once was I totally shocked by the person's size. The first thing that popped into my head was "they come in that size?" because he was so small. It was only a one night stand anyways but I doubt if I could have had a relationship with someone that small.

    If you are into anal intercourse then size maybe a barrier especially if the bottom has trouble relaxing.
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    Jun 11, 2008 7:45 AM GMT
    If you are having a conversation about sex, then I would see this question coming up.....

    otherwise, it is totally inappropriate.

    ie
    someone messaging you and asking "How Hung Are You?"
    or
    just meeting someone and asking "Are You Hung?"

    inappropriate.

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