the cool points are out the window and you got me all twisted up in the game

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    May 02, 2008 11:49 PM GMT
    so my boyfriend is going to Iraq and i just moved home for a few months. lets start at the beginning. i was living in NC and meet him, shit happened and i had to move to Ohio for a few months, i get a call saying he is going to Iraq in a month (now a few weeks), i have tried the past 2 weekends to go see him but they keep making him work weekends. what am i to do how can i see him before he goes. i can only take one more weekend off of work, well friday-monday off.
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    May 03, 2008 2:32 AM GMT
    Time will tell! But best of luck, and I hope it falls in your favor.
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    May 03, 2008 2:58 AM GMT
    That sucks icon_redface.gif - Try your best, is really all I can say. Unfortunately. I hope you get to see him before he goes!

    PS - I love the title of this topic, hahahahaha icon_razz.gif
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    May 03, 2008 3:05 AM GMT
    Best of luck. I hope you see each other before he heads off. God i'm so angry for you. icon_sad.gif
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    May 03, 2008 4:00 AM GMT

    LOL, welcome to being a military wife. There is a base full of substitutes for you while he's away.icon_razz.gif

    military wife LOL, because they have to be!

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    May 03, 2008 9:20 AM GMT
    Av8tor2005 saidso my boyfriend is going to Iraq and i just moved home for a few months. lets start at the beginning. i was living in NC and meet him, shit happened and i had to move to Ohio for a few months, i get a call saying he is going to Iraq in a month (now a few weeks), i have tried the past 2 weekends to go see him but they keep making him work weekends. what am i to do how can i see him before he goes. i can only take one more weekend off of work, well friday-monday off.


    Can you see him after he gets off work? I know he probably has to be careful being gay in the military, but still I would hate not to see my bf before he was shipped to a place like Iraq!

    Best of luck, and hope you can communicate with him when he is overseas.
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    May 03, 2008 10:30 PM GMT
    thanks everyone for the wishes



    BostonVball saidThat sucks icon_redface.gif - Try your best, is really all I can say. Unfortunately. I hope you get to see him before he goes!

    PS - I love the title of this topic, hahahahaha icon_razz.gif

    im in love with Bringing down the house haha most people look at me like what the fuck
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    May 03, 2008 10:32 PM GMT
    Wysiwyg60 said

    Can you see him after he gets off work? I know he probably has to be careful being gay in the military, but still I would hate not to see my bf before he was shipped to a place like Iraq!

    Best of luck, and hope you can communicate with him when he is overseas.



    he has a house off base but he works from 6am-11pm and its not like he can stay up late cuz he has to work again
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    May 04, 2008 12:24 AM GMT
    Six am to 11 PM? Ugh, that is a horrible schedule. Sorry to hear that, you must be worried you will not see him before he leaves.
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    May 04, 2008 3:53 AM GMT
    Wysiwyg60 saidSix am to 11 PM? Ugh, that is a horrible schedule. Sorry to hear that, you must be worried you will not see him before he leaves.


    worried is an understatement. the past few weekends have been cancled and its starting to get to me. and the phone calls have become alot less
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    May 04, 2008 3:58 AM GMT
    Av8tor2005im in love with Bringing down the house haha most people look at me like what the fuck


    Hahaha then they don't know what's funny! icon_razz.gif
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    May 05, 2008 1:06 AM GMT
    at this point in time im thinking about just getting a hotel room for the weekend and just hoping i get to see him? good or bad idea, its $250 for the room and $300 in gas to get there and back plus food for both of us. that being said money isnt too much of an issue but is it worth all of that to maybe see him or maybe sit in a room alone all weekend?
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    May 08, 2008 5:10 PM GMT
    so it wasnt worth the money to go down there, he cheated on me and the engagement is off. he took his ex back because his ex is also in the military and "he understands what [my ex] is going thru" and its a convience thing. they live closer together than i live to my ex. thanks to those that tried to help
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