Guys, clarify this for me...

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    Aug 13, 2011 4:34 PM GMT
    I don't quite understand it's secret code per say. I was looking @ a show last night and there were some guys who commented that when someone (straight or gay) ask another person back to their place to watch a movie, this really means that you want to hookup/have sex with the other person or if you're in a relationship, it really means that the relationship is going down in flames. Are these interpretations true? I have went out with a couple of guys who were kool guys and I have asked them back to my place to watch a movie but I NEVER meant that as an invitation for sex. They were kool guys and they were awesome to hang with so I just wanted to extend the date, nothing else. What do you guys think?
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    Aug 13, 2011 4:38 PM GMT
    I think you are overthinking this too much... There is no secret code names...
    If I want to fuck someone, I just tell them, want to come over to my place for a good fuck?
    If I want to watch a movie and have a romantic night, then I say "wanna come over to watch a movie?"

    and if we end up getting all horny after watching the movie, then yea...we fuck.
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    Aug 13, 2011 6:37 PM GMT
    being gay is like brokeback mountain meets iCarly.

    i love it
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    Aug 13, 2011 6:43 PM GMT
    Usually that's the interpretation for me. If I'm not comfortable enough with them alone just yet then I don't do it.

    But that part you said about if you're in a relationship? Goodness no. I would ask my ex all the time if he preferred to spend the night with me watching a movie or doing something together besides being out in public with ... people.