Pretty much covered some of this in my profile...
1. Confidence but not cocky. Wait, a little cocky is intriguing. Cocky entering arrogance? NO!
2. Passionate about life.
3. Romantic but not clingy
5. Incredible sense of humor
6. Respects their own body and does not abuse it.
7. Awesome communicator
8. Makes me think. Challenges me in an established topic of interest. A hot debate where he gets on my last nerve can get me very fired up and horny as hell. It's a turn on to watch his passion for something come out.
9. has no shame in revealing his inner child but knows when to reel that in.
10. Knows how to make love slowly, passionately vs a generic suck, jerk, and fuck. The later is very acceptable as well and bound to happen, but must balance the two situations out.
11. Doesn't have multiple accounts on a bunch of gay chat sites where he communicates with complete strangers and tries to feed his ego by putting up a bunch of hot photos of himself while I'm in the next room figuring out our weekly budget
12. Looks like a young Dermot Mulroney. Fuck it, I'll take an aging gracefully looking Dermot Mulroney. Hey, it's my prototype of perfection might as well be specific LOL
13. Loves to cuddle
14. Creative and non stop goal setter.
15. Athletic and enjoys being active physically
17. Willing to shave off too much body hair. Willing to trust me and let me do the shaving.
18. This one is strange but in an ideal fantasy he'd be over 6ft tall. The taller the better. I don't know why. I'm not at all so fixed on this that it's a definite requirement but if Gay Santa is watching and taking notes include that as well. Just as an added bonus.
Damn... the list goes on and on.....