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    Aug 14, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    can you catch anything from a guy just putting it in and not going off in you?
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    Aug 14, 2011 4:45 PM GMT
    rosco87 saidcan you catch anything from a guy just putting it in and not going off in you?


    Are you talking barebacking? If so, then YES.
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    Aug 14, 2011 5:43 PM GMT
    He could leaky inside of you making the spermies wiggle into your anal flesh and corrupt your body with STIs.

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    The condom is the safeguard. Don't let the spermies take over you.
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    Aug 14, 2011 6:30 PM GMT
    rosco87 saidcan you catch anything from a guy just putting it in and not going off in you?


    Yes
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    Aug 14, 2011 10:01 PM GMT
    curses...



    yes, i meant barebacking.

    well, i know i didn't catch anything, he's tested regularly. i guess lesson learned on that though...

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    Aug 14, 2011 10:41 PM GMT
    rosco87 saidcurses...



    yes, i meant barebacking.

    well, i know i didn't catch anything, he's tested regularly. i guess lesson learned on that though...


    Yeeeeeees every gay man is tested regularly that wants to bareback..... mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm totally tested regularly!
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    Aug 14, 2011 10:45 PM GMT
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    yes, i meant barebacking.

    well, i know i didn't catch anything, he's tested regularly. i guess lesson learned on that though...



    Oh gosh please don't just listen to a guy when he says he is clean. There is this thing people do in the world called lying. You should get tested.
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    Aug 14, 2011 10:49 PM GMT
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    yes, i meant barebacking.

    well, i know i didn't catch anything, he's tested regularly. i guess lesson learned on that though...

    If he's tested regularly, that means he has sex regularly...between tests. Were you the first person he barebacked since his last test?

    Just my $0.02 + tax.
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    Aug 14, 2011 11:25 PM GMT
    imo you should get tested. You can't just listen too a guy when he says he's clean. if he's sticking his dick in your ass raw then who else is he doing it too?safe sex or well safer sex is assuming everyone could be hiv+ and use a condom every time where anal is concerned.
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    Aug 14, 2011 11:39 PM GMT
    *sigh*....


    well, i know him fairly well. i know he's fucking other guys. he admits to all of it and is honest to a point where he's making himself look bad at times. we're just friends but still sleeping together and have shared our most personal stories. I've had a really rough life and he knows all of it now, in fact made me tell him (not that i haven't told people before), because he noticed i was leaving things out when telling him about myself. he cried when i told him all the shit that's happened to me and then we had really good sex after that.


    so, it's not as bad as it seems, but i am definitely being nieve, he's called me that many times himself. i'm letting the emotions involved with my fuck buddy blind me into taking risks, just... wtf...


    i think i will get tested, i trust he's telling the truth but will anyway just for the confidence.
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    Aug 14, 2011 11:46 PM GMT
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    yes, i meant barebacking.

    well, i know i didn't catch anything, he's tested regularly. i guess lesson learned on that though...

    If he's tested regularly, that means he has sex regularly...between tests. Were you the first person he barebacked since his last test?

    Just my $0.02 + tax.


    i believe so... i think he got tested after the last time we fucked actually, he sent me a text to let me know the results. i can't remember though.

    i don't mind your 2 cents, you can give me a couple dollars even, im pretty tolerant of opinions with things like this.

    if i told him i was going to get tested i wouldn't be surprised if he was willing to go with me, he's just that type of person. he has all his dumb rules like tops won't catch anything and stuff like that though. he's just pushing his luck...
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    Aug 14, 2011 11:48 PM GMT
    Please don't EVER engage in any intercourse with any guy without using protection, even if he shows you his HIV test results.
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    Aug 15, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
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    yes, i meant barebacking.

    well, i know i didn't catch anything, he's tested regularly. i guess lesson learned on that though...



    Please don't go through this again. We both feel something like barebacking is one of the most intimate experiences requiring absolute trust that any gay couple could have. It deserves a deep respect, an open honesty over a fair length of time and that it's (our opinion) fraught with danger otherwise.

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