How to know if someone is into you?

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    Aug 16, 2011 4:04 AM GMT
    Okay, so I've never been with a guy. and the one thing i want to know is how can you tell if a guy is into you? body language, the things he says... what are some of the hints? and how can you let a guy know that your into him without flat out saying it?
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    Aug 16, 2011 4:10 AM GMT
    When he stands outside of his hotel room shirtless and sorta-stares at you while you're talking on the phone.
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    Aug 16, 2011 4:13 AM GMT
    when your butthole really hurts but at the same time you don't want him to stop.

    Wait, I misread the title...
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    Aug 16, 2011 4:14 AM GMT
    waimea saidwhen your butthole really hurts but at the same time you don't want him to stop.

    Wait, I misread the title...
    That's "in" - not "into." icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 16, 2011 11:53 AM GMT
    does he love me i want to know
    how can i tell if he loves me so
    is it in his eyes
    oh no you'll be deceived
    is it in his sighs
    oh no he'll make believe
    if you want to know if he loves you so
    it's in his kiss
    that's where it is

    is it in his face
    oh no that's just his charms
    in his warm embrace
    oh no that's just his arms
    if you want to know if he loves you so
    it's in his kiss
    that's where it is
    it's in his kiss
    that's where it is

    kiss him and squeeze him tight
    find out what you want to know
    if it's love, if it really is
    it's there in his kiss

    how about the way he acts
    oh no that's not the way
    and you're not list'nin' to all i say
    if you wanna know if he loves you so
    it's in his kiss
    that's where it is
    it's in his kiss
    that's where it is

    kiss him and squeeze him tight
    find out what you want to know
    if it's love, if it really is
    it's there in his kiss

    how about the way he acts
    oh no that's not the way
    and you're not list'nin' to all i say
    if you wanna know if he loves you so
    it's in his kiss
    that's where it is

    it's in his kiss
    that's where it is
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    Aug 16, 2011 1:56 PM GMT
    Usually eye contact, but also watch out for the guys who are into you, but do their best not to look at you. Weird I know.
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    Aug 16, 2011 2:31 PM GMT
    Its sometimes very easy to tell. When most guys see you and are into you, they give you this unmistakable look. Its almost involuntary. You can pretty much know exactly what they are thinking. However, some guys are good at not giving away their thoughts and feelings that easily. Sometimes its impossible to tell so the only way to know is to hit on them and see how they respond. I hate games so I am very upfront when I am into a guy.
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    Aug 16, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
    They get really nervous around you...so f'ng cute.
    Touch their arm or back and watch them lose all concentration.
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    Aug 16, 2011 4:00 PM GMT
    KSUOWL saidIts sometimes very easy to tell. When most guys see you and are into you, they give you this unmistakable look. Its almost involuntary. You can pretty much know exactly what they are thinking. However, some guys are good at not giving away their thoughts and feelings that easily. Sometimes its impossible to tell so the only way to know is to hit on them and see how they respond. I hate games so I am very upfront when I am into a guy.


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    Aug 16, 2011 5:34 PM GMT
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    KSUOWL saidIts sometimes very easy to tell. When most guys see you and are into you, they give you this unmistakable look. Its almost involuntary. You can pretty much know exactly what they are thinking. However, some guys are good at not giving away their thoughts and feelings that easily. Sometimes its impossible to tell so the only way to know is to hit on them and see how they respond. I hate games so I am very upfront when I am into a guy.


    That.


    What does this look, look like? :/ I've probably encountered it and just don't know it yet...
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    Aug 16, 2011 5:50 PM GMT
    PaintDude said
    running11 said
    KSUOWL saidIts sometimes very easy to tell. When most guys see you and are into you, they give you this unmistakable look. Its almost involuntary. You can pretty much know exactly what they are thinking. However, some guys are good at not giving away their thoughts and feelings that easily. Sometimes its impossible to tell so the only way to know is to hit on them and see how they respond. I hate games so I am very upfront when I am into a guy.


    That.


    What does this look, look like? :/ I've probably encountered it and just don't know it yet...


    Kinda like their mind goes blank and they are instantly thinking of sex. They forget they are staring at you. Gah I love seeing that look haha. But remember, if this doesn't happen, it doesn't automatically mean they aren't interested. Some guys are smoother than that
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    Aug 16, 2011 5:53 PM GMT
    It's in the eyes and they makes up reasons to touch you. Or they just do alot when you hang or chat.
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    Aug 17, 2011 2:21 PM GMT
    The eyes can't and don't lie. Also, if you're close enough physically, listen to his heart beat and observe his breathing. When I'm in love with or attracted to someone, my heart beats very fast and I have a hard time breathing when I'm with him.
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    Aug 18, 2011 3:37 AM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidUsually eye contact, but also watch out for the guys who are into you, but do their best not to look at you. Weird I know.


    That is so me. If I'm totally attracted, I try my best to avoid eye contact. It's weird..probably because I'm pretty shy when it comes to matters of the heart.

    Overall it depends on my mood and how I'm feeling about myself. If I'm feeling particularly confident, no-one would ever know I was into them (unless I wanted them to). I can be very aloof at times. But sometimes, if a guy I find cute talks to me or something, there are times when I actually forget what I'm trying to say! Trying to decide whether that's cute or very third grade, heh.
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    Aug 18, 2011 3:41 AM GMT
    KSUOWL said
    PaintDude said
    running11 said
    KSUOWL saidIts sometimes very easy to tell. When most guys see you and are into you, they give you this unmistakable look. Its almost involuntary. You can pretty much know exactly what they are thinking. However, some guys are good at not giving away their thoughts and feelings that easily. Sometimes its impossible to tell so the only way to know is to hit on them and see how they respond. I hate games so I am very upfront when I am into a guy.


    That.


    What does this look, look like? :/ I've probably encountered it and just don't know it yet...


    Kinda like their mind goes blank and they are instantly thinking of sex. They forget they are staring at you. Gah I love seeing that look haha. But remember, if this doesn't happen, it doesn't automatically mean they aren't interested. Some guys are smoother than that


    So what makes you think that the look doesnt just mean "I want sex!" and nothing more?
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    Aug 18, 2011 3:43 AM GMT
    if he tells you "baby lets fuck right now!" ..that's actually a pretty good sign icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 18, 2011 4:00 AM GMT
    McGay saiddoes he love me i want to know
    how can i tell if he loves me so
    is it in his eyes
    oh no you'll be deceived
    is it in his sighs
    oh no he'll make believe
    if you want to know if he loves you so
    it's in his kiss
    that's where it is
    kiss him and squeeze him tight
    find out what you want to know
    if it's love, if it really is
    it's there in his kiss
    it's in his kiss
    that's where it is


    Reminds me of Ally McBeal! Such a good show. Haha

    Anyways, I think Davey Wavey (on Youtube) does sum it up best. Look at where the eyes are directed when you walk past....
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    Aug 18, 2011 4:02 AM GMT
    I never know if a guy likes me. I am the most clueless person in the world when ti comes to that stuff. Unless he tries to kiss me I always just think he is being polite.
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    Aug 18, 2011 4:04 AM GMT
    When I have him bent over the hood of his car and I'm balls deep into him off some farm road grabbing him by his hair and hearing him moan my name.

    Pretty good chance by then he's as into me as I would be in him.
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    Aug 18, 2011 3:00 PM GMT
    Guys are very open if they like you. They will do whatever it takes to be near you. Smile at you. Talk about themselves loudly in front of you to their friends so you can hear. They are gracious, and look for ways to be thoughtful to you like holding the door. Guys are very transparent with attraction. This has been my experience. If a guy a likes you he will move heaven and earth to be with you. Guys are easy that way.