wpbnole saidI feel that adding someone to your hotlist is like saying I appreciate your physique or great personality. I can't see much drama stemming from that.
I call bullshit on this. Hotlists are not about admiring someones hard work, they are about highlighting the members of RJ that you find sexually appealing.
Think of how many people only have white guys on their hotlists. Is there a shortage of black and asian men with amazing bodies on this site? nope. But minorities are underrepresented in a lot of hotlists. Age is another area where hotlists can get a bit funky too.
If I had a hotlist, it would be filled with young defined asian guys. But that does not mean that those are the only types of guys I like or want to meet/date. I would hate the idea of some overweight guy or old guy or white guy wanting to say hi to me, but choosing not to do it because he doesn't thin he's my type.
Hotlisting just seems like high school shit to me.