Anyone having problems meeting guys

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    Aug 16, 2011 11:24 PM GMT
    i was wondering if other guys r having trouble meeting guys, i've tried online but mostly creeps, but gay club just isnt my sceneicon_confused.gif
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    Aug 16, 2011 11:46 PM GMT
    There are so many other places to meet guys. I hate online dating. Yeah sometimes clubs attract the wrong kind of guys, but there are exceptions. At least here in Atlanta, there are more laid back bars and mainly gay restaurants that offer a better quality of guys.

    I honestly have had more luck lately now that I am not really LOOKING for a guy. I am just making friends and taking the guys as they come.
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    Aug 16, 2011 11:48 PM GMT
    lol most guys that run into me want to hook up haha thanks though
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    Aug 16, 2011 11:49 PM GMT
    Try grindr maybe?? *shrugs*

    Is there a LGBT friendly neighborhood close by? Maybe if you joined one of their group activities you can find someone who has similar interests to yours.

    You're cute mate so it shouldn't be too much of problem finding a guy who fancys and respects yourself.
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    Aug 16, 2011 11:52 PM GMT
    remydeutsch saidlol most guys that run into me want to hook up haha thanks though


    And you think you are the only one this happens to? Tell them to piss off and wait for the next one. Believe me, there are plenty of guys looking for more than just a fuck. You just aren't looking hard enough
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    Aug 16, 2011 11:54 PM GMT
    thanks guys means a lot fivealive icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 16, 2011 11:55 PM GMT
    and not sure if there is one grindr wats that?
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    Aug 17, 2011 12:03 AM GMT
    Oh its one those app thingies....


    However its usually serves as a instant hookup deal, but there possibilities of developing friendship and meeting up with someone like minded as you are.


    Truth be told I do not have grindr so I can not say from experience...I'm so technological tardy icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 17, 2011 12:17 AM GMT
    lmao why?icon_surprised.gif
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    Aug 17, 2011 12:30 AM GMT
    ok no bars, no grindr

    how about one of these groups:
    http://www.gaytampa.com/gaytampa/tborgrec.html

    At your age you are probably still in College, anything glbt happening there?
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    Aug 17, 2011 12:30 AM GMT
    there is but not my crowd
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    Aug 17, 2011 12:33 AM GMT
    hmm raquetball gay skate and outddor sound fun icon_smile.gif thanks bhp
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    Aug 17, 2011 12:36 AM GMT
    Tell me all about it!

    I just wish to meet a guy who is SINGLE! Seems that I have that sort of a sticky curse that attracts only married ones! (so far 5 married guys in the past 2 months!)

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    Aug 17, 2011 12:40 AM GMT
    lol ive had guys like that lmao, closet cases r just as bad
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    Aug 17, 2011 12:43 AM GMT
    I've met bfs both online and in clubs. It can happen anywhere. I've had great dates from grindr. It's all in how you approach it. And in patience.

    As cliche as it is, from my experience it does always happen when you're not looking.
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    Aug 17, 2011 12:45 AM GMT
    remydeutsch saidlol ive had guys like that lmao, closet cases r just as bad


    Indeed, and the market here seems to offer only one of these two products: either married or in the closet. and I got to choose! Lucky me!
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    Aug 17, 2011 12:45 AM GMT
    by not looking, I mean you are happy being single and just having fun. No expectations.
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    Aug 17, 2011 12:52 AM GMT
    hmm nice way to think of it ill try iticon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 21, 2011 1:04 AM GMT
    meeting guys online is ok... the guy that i'm talking to right now i've met him online.

    just depends on the guy really. it can be a hit or miss. most guys online or on these websites are just looking for sex.

    the key to it all is PATIENCE icon_smile.gificon_smile.gif
  • KnuxNole

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    Aug 21, 2011 6:58 AM GMT
    I can't seem to find too many gay guys that have the same interests as me. At bars/clubs, they tend to care a lot about drinking, dancing, and gossip or the gym, but I like to do other stuff...I doubt there is anyone who is similar to me, but maybe someone who is slightly the same as far as interests would be nice.