Maybe I am too old to find somebody here!

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    Aug 17, 2011 5:02 AM GMT
    I know that ages do not matter all the time in human relations because there are some exceptions. Remember Charles Chaplin and Sophia Loren both of them have a big different age with their partners and they last. Some guys prefer younger guys while other guys are attracted by older ones. Some Psychologist said that people around the same age, with more or less similar educational, economical, professional and cultural background have more possibilities to engage in a friendship/relation that can last. And they also said that the way both give and receive love is what finally matter in a relation. There are multiple factors around the sexuality and the mutual attraction is important too. Maybe, I am too picky or boring. Straight women for some reason find me attractive but I am never sure about guys. I just decide to show myself in the way that I am, happy, successful, playful and trying to be in shape. I do not want show myself in the way that I am not.
    I just remember this quote “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.
    Albert Einstein
    What do you think? I would really appreciate your comments because I am very open to learn from all of you.
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    Aug 17, 2011 5:08 AM GMT
    On one hand some people will view you as delusional and trying too hard to look young and attract someone young. On the other hand other people will view you as young at heart, embracing life and not adhering to the social restrictions of your age.
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    Aug 17, 2011 5:08 AM GMT
    I have a friend who's 4 years younger than me. When we walk into a bar, he immediately accesses the crowd to see the medium age. Often times he'll say we're the oldest people there and wants to leave immediately, and I just look at him like he's crazy, because it just never occurs to me to look at such things. I see online to be no different. If you're not having luck meeting guys on here, I'm certain it's something else besides your age. However if your age is all you're focused on, it will probably continue to be a problem.
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    Aug 17, 2011 5:14 AM GMT
    Less pictures more writing.
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    Aug 17, 2011 5:15 AM GMT
    50=30 in Miami. You should know this. Go to Twist and you'll have no trouble getting laid.
    Finding a relationship is a bitch for everyone there, regardless of age, so you're not alone.
    I've had the best luck with hookups that turn into friendships (with benefits).
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    Aug 17, 2011 5:17 AM GMT
    JakeBenson saidOn one hand some people will view you as delusional and trying too hard to look young and attract someone young. On the other hand other people will view you as young at heart, embracing life and not adhering to the social restrictions of your age.

    I think that what u said is true! Many thanks
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    Aug 17, 2011 5:20 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidI have a friend who's 4 years younger than me. When we walk into a bar, he immediately accesses the crowd to see the medium age. Often times he'll say we're the oldest people there and wants to leave immediately, and I just look at him like he's crazy, because it just never occurs to me to look at such things. I see online to be no different. If you're not having luck meeting guys on here, I'm certain it's something else besides your age. However if your age is all you're focused on, it will probably continue to be a problem.

    Thanks you man I appreciate it
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    Aug 17, 2011 5:24 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidLess pictures more writing.

    Thanks for your advice!
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    Aug 17, 2011 5:30 AM GMT
    paulflexes said50=30 in Miami. You should know this. Go to Twist and you'll have no trouble getting laid.
    Finding a relationship is a bitch for everyone there, regardless of age, so you're not alone.
    I've had the best luck with hookups that turn into friendships (with benefits).

    Thanks you, maybe I should go out more!