Sex with the Ex

  • DrobUA

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    Aug 18, 2011 5:24 AM GMT
    Idk if this is really a problem is but I'll start off with saying all my relationships seem to end on pretty good terms. Usually because we just weren't right for each other.. However, I have noticed that I tend to hook up with my ex's. The first time it happened it was my ex from almost 3 years ago. I took a road trip down to Tucson with a friend and got really drunk and ran into him at a bar (he was working there). So... yea, we know how that went. In the time apart you forget all the reasons you aren't together but it still feels good to get with someone you have intense chemistry with. I told him we couldn't get back together because I wasn't up for a long-distance relationship. Anyways this is one of 3 different ex's that I've hooked up with long after it was over.

    My question: Do you think it's healthy to never completely sever ties with your ex? Or should it be over and done as soon as you call it quits?
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    Aug 18, 2011 5:26 AM GMT
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  • JP85257

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    Aug 18, 2011 5:28 AM GMT
    You are on adam4adam enough to not need ex's tho.

    Not judging....just a statement.
  • DrobUA

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    Aug 18, 2011 5:29 AM GMT
    JP85257 saidYou are on adam4adam enough to not need ex's tho.

    Not judging....just a statement.


    Not need ex's?? huh?
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    Aug 18, 2011 5:30 AM GMT
    Where do I sign up to be your ex?
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    Aug 18, 2011 5:31 AM GMT
    you answered your own question

    it's not healthy MOVE ON
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    Aug 18, 2011 12:12 PM GMT
    Maaah... If it were healthy anf felt right, you would not be asking yourself this...

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    Aug 18, 2011 12:36 PM GMT
    BELLOO saidyou answered your own question

    it's not healthy MOVE ON


    Agree and it's torturing the other guy if he's asking about getting back together. You have to consider the feelings of others sir.
  • rnch

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    Aug 18, 2011 12:37 PM GMT
    DrobUA said.... In the time apart you forget all the reasons you aren't together but it still feels good to get with someone you have intense chemistry with...



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    it may not be "right".....but it surely does "feel good"..temporarily.
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    Aug 18, 2011 12:49 PM GMT
    I carried on sleeping with an ex after we split up and decided to just be friends. Eventually we had to completely cut all contact because we realised it was basically just the same as being in a relationship, but with no actual committment, and it was screwing us both up.

    I think the trouble is when the sex is good and you really get on as friends and you split up very amicably, it's very easy to stay in each other's lives, but I don't think it's very healthy.
  • rnch

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    Aug 18, 2011 1:01 PM GMT
    Pure said...I think the trouble is when the sex is good and you really get on as friends and you split up very amicably, it's very easy to stay in each other's lives...




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    Aug 18, 2011 1:13 PM GMT
    Well they are called ex's for a reason and you should keep it that way unless you plan on being with them again. You never forget why they became an ex in the first place.

    Sounds like you are just using them for sex. It's not healthy. You should move on.
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    Aug 19, 2011 4:28 AM GMT
    i dont see the diffence then hooking up with another person you know, you simply happen to lable him ex, so i realty there is no problem with hooking up with your ex.
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    Aug 19, 2011 7:07 AM GMT
    I don't really know anything about relationships so can't really say.

    I do know a thing or two about grammar, and I think the plural of ex is exen or exes? Ex's would be possessive and erroneous at that.

    Man you're useless...
  • AlanGZ

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    Aug 19, 2011 7:08 AM GMT
    I ll hook up with you anytime instead ;-)

    Just sayin'
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    Aug 19, 2011 8:13 AM GMT
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    Aug 19, 2011 8:38 AM GMT
    RSM23 saidMaaah... If it were healthy anf felt right, you would not be asking yourself this...



    ^this
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    Aug 19, 2011 8:39 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    dc2011 saidHi, this David. I will like to make love with you. Contact me at
    david.coulombe@intel.com
    Cool story, bro.



    Hahahaha wth is this...