danielvn saidWell, I fell for a waiter named Andy who worked at a restaurant in the Castro called Blue. I gave him a really big tip, asked him out for a drink and got turned down. But I kept coming back several times and finally he tried to kick me out by asking if I was done and grabbed my plate lol. So just my advice, dont chase after waiters......
Lol you can chase after waiters just learn to take a hint
You asked him out for a drink, but he clearly declined.
You then basically prevented the guy from getting home and showed little respect for him by staying extra late and being that annoying customer.
From his point of view you were 'punishing' him for not going for that drink..