Either or Neither. Would you be offended?

  • Celticmusl

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    Aug 24, 2011 7:17 PM GMT
    Two scenarios. Would you be offended if:

    -A guy comes up to you and explains he is attracted to you and would like to have sex with you.

    -A guy comes up to you and explains he is attracted to you and would like to go on a date with you.
  • rnch

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    Aug 24, 2011 7:18 PM GMT
    it would depend on:

    how drunk I am

    how horny I am

    what the guy looks like
  • Lincsbear

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    Aug 24, 2011 7:19 PM GMT
    As above.
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    Aug 24, 2011 7:21 PM GMT
    I've had this happen, and was flattered. When I was single I accepted if I liked the guy, or made my apologies if I was in some kind of relationship at the time. Nowadays it's a moot point. icon_sad.gif I should be so lucky to be approached anymore. I consider that an honor, rarely offended. Though sometimes the pushy attitude of a stranger would turn me off.
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    Aug 24, 2011 7:24 PM GMT
    It really depends on my mood and the context of it.

    If it is something like "you have a great smile and I want to have some fun with you" probably wont be offended.

    If it is like "Your ass is so fucking bangable, I just want to fuck you raw" then yes, I may be offended.

    Edit: As for the date, wouldnt be offended either way unless he couldnt leave me alone.
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    Aug 24, 2011 7:25 PM GMT
    Celticmusl saidTwo scenarios. Would you be offended if:

    -A guy comes up to you and explains he is attracted to you and would like to have sex with you.

    -A guy comes up to you and explains he is attracted to you and would like to go on a date with you.


    I'd be ecstatic at the 2nd, and the 1st depends entirely on context - delivery, timing, surroundings, etc.
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    Aug 24, 2011 7:26 PM GMT
    torrentprime said
    Celticmusl saidTwo scenarios. Would you be offended if:

    -A guy comes up to you and explains he is attracted to you and would like to have sex with you.

    -A guy comes up to you and explains he is attracted to you and would like to go on a date with you.


    I'd be ecstatic at the 2nd, and the 1st depends entirely on context - delivery, timing, surroundings, etc.

    Nicely stated.
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    Aug 24, 2011 8:48 PM GMT
    Neither would offend, but I'd greatly prefer the 2nd (date) scenario
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    Aug 24, 2011 9:06 PM GMT
    Offended?
    It's not a matter of offense. It's all a matter of his presentation. Some guys are sincere, eloquent, and hott. I'd give the guy an opportunity to show me his verbal abilities and social graces (which can include refined horniness) in order to see if he succeeds in wooing me.

    Recently two youngish attractive guys approached me (on different occasions) with sexual interest. One of them told me that he had lots of "Tina" at home, the other told me that he had just had cocaine. I made it clear that they should fuck off since they're into drugs. It repulsed me. Otherwise I would have taken their attraction to me as a compliment.
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    Aug 24, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
    LittleDudeWithMuscles saidNeither would offend, but I'd greatly prefer the 2nd (date) scenario

    So what if the guy said "Hey bitch, lets go back to my place so I can get you on all fours and fuck you senseless." Would you be offended then?
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    Aug 24, 2011 9:43 PM GMT
    BuddyinNYC saidOffended?
    It's not a matter of offense. It's all a matter of his presentation. Some guys are sincere, eloquent, and hott. I'd give the guy an opportunity to show me his verbal abilities and social graces (which can include refined horniness) in order to see if he succeeds in wooing me.

    Recently two youngish attractive guys approached me (on different occasions) with sexual interest. One of them told me that he had lots of "Tina" at home, the other told me that he had just had cocaine. I made it clear that they should fuck off since they're into drugs. It repulsed me. Otherwise I would have taken their attraction to me as a compliment.


    lol
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    Aug 24, 2011 9:45 PM GMT
    Neither would offend me. In fact, those offers were made to me and I only accepted the sex one. When I wanted a date and thought of getting a serious relationship I was the one approaching guys.
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    Aug 24, 2011 9:49 PM GMT
    Simurgh said
    LittleDudeWithMuscles saidNeither would offend, but I'd greatly prefer the 2nd (date) scenario

    So what if the guy said "Hey bitch, lets go back to my place so I can get you on all fours and fuck you senseless." Would you be offended then?



    Well, I still wouldn't be offended. But it's unlikely I'd do it. I'd probably laugh.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Aug 24, 2011 9:52 PM GMT
    I wouldn't be necessarily offended by the 1st, though somewhat turned off, and would much prefer the 2nd
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    Aug 24, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    Celticmusl saidTwo scenarios. Would you be offended if:

    -A guy comes up to you and explains he is attracted to you and would like to have sex with you.

    -A guy comes up to you and explains he is attracted to you and would like to go on a date with you.


    No. I'd be flattered. I have been ask #2 many times and #1 twice.

    EDIT: I should have also mentioned that there's a line between asking and me saying yes. A compliment or invitation is always welcome., it doesn't mean I will say yes.
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    Aug 24, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidNeither offend me so long as he does so in a way that is discreet and not a public display for others (especially his friends) to witness.

    And I may or may not accept his offer/s. icon_twisted.gif



    ^^^^^^ This
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    Aug 24, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
    I would be offended by neither. I would be flattered.

    I would most likely always refuse the first scenario, but depending on the guy, might accept the second.
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    Aug 24, 2011 10:26 PM GMT
    Neither. I'd decline either way, and his degree of crassness wouldn't be a factor either. It's outside of the categories that offend me.
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    Aug 24, 2011 10:28 PM GMT
    Celticmusl saidTwo scenarios. Would you be offended if:

    -A guy comes up to you and explains he is attracted to you and would like to have sex with you.

    -A guy comes up to you and explains he is attracted to you and would like to go on a date with you.
    Both beat the hell out of being turned down.
  • waccamatt

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    Aug 24, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    As stated I'd be flattered by either one. It would depend on the guy and the situation as far as accepting the offer.
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    Aug 24, 2011 10:31 PM GMT
    Neither would offend me as long as the guy said it in a respectful manner. Actually, as long as he is respectful, I'd consider either a bit of a compliment.icon_cool.gif
  • ohioguy12

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    Aug 24, 2011 10:34 PM GMT
    I honestly think most people would be flattered if the guy is hot, but if he wasn't, they would consider him a creeper.
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    Aug 24, 2011 10:37 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidI honestly think most people would be flattered if the guy is hot, but if he wasn't, they would consider him a creeper.


    THIS! Its a funny world we live in. I am guilty of it too though. Sometimes when a hot guy hits on me and I think it was cute, I try to imagine a not-so-hot guys doing it which lets me know if it really was cute or if I was just blinded by the hotness.
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    Aug 24, 2011 10:37 PM GMT
    rnch saidit would depend on:

    how drunk I am

    how horny I am

    what the guy looks like


    This. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Celticmusl

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    Aug 24, 2011 10:37 PM GMT
    I tend to get offended by the proposition of sex in that......"what, I'm not good enough to date?" kind of mentality.