When did you meet your first guy?

  • studflyboy87

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    Aug 25, 2011 3:43 AM GMT
    When did you meet your first gay guy?

    I was 22 when I met my first guy. He was 20, a college student, had a great six pack, but was only home for winter break. So we met at a park, talked, tossed the football around, and ended up kissing in the canal out of sight from others. It was a good first date for me, but we lost touch after that.

    I didn't really have the time to date anyone in college and I was still figuring out my sexuality. It wasn't until I graduated that I met my first guy and began dating.

    What about you??
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    Aug 25, 2011 4:11 AM GMT
    I came from a very insular and conservative community so I never met an openly gay male until I was 17 years old, a sophomore at university far away from home, and my Evolutionary Biology professor's TA was flaming fire fuchsia. Nothing ever happened between us besides him putting his hand on my shoulder and me slapping it away, but I was like whoa, they do exist.

    My first gay date was when I was 21 years old, he was still an undergrad and quite dumb. We met on craigslist. Italian dinner, pumpkin spice latte, making out in his tiny cramped apartment. Never heard from him again.

    My first serious dating kind of thing is right now, age 25.

    I am picky ... if the sparse, few and far between guys I liked actually liked me back I would have been a huge slut since I was 12 years old.
  • studflyboy87

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    Aug 26, 2011 1:19 PM GMT
    I wonder why this thread does not show up in the latest threads on the main page?
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    Aug 26, 2011 1:45 PM GMT
    I first realized I could date a guy at 25, which I turned in December. In February, I kissed my first boy. And then the rest is history.
  • mstevens

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    Aug 26, 2011 1:53 PM GMT
    I was 18 and was starting my freshman year of college. I had a really cool roommate who was also the nicest guy I had ever met. He ended up coming out to me as the first guy he ever told that he was gay. I considered myself straight (had been dating girls all through HS) but I was really supportive and felt honored that he felt so close to me to be the first person he came out to.

    He asked me if I could teach him some martial arts so we ended up sparring a lot in our dorm room. A combination of him flirting with me, me being nice and playing fun back, and we ended up falling for each other.
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    Aug 26, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    Well, if you count playing truth or dare with my friend at school when we were 15 then he was my first, we then went kissing in the bathroom.

    But my first sexual encounter was when i was 21 years old someone i met online and he insisted that we meet...
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    Aug 30, 2011 12:30 AM GMT
    mstevens saidI was 18 and was starting my freshman year of college. I had a really cool roommate who was also the nicest guy I had ever met. He ended up coming out to me as the first guy he ever told that he was gay. I considered myself straight (had been dating girls all through HS) but I was really supportive and felt honored that he felt so close to me to be the first person he came out to.

    He asked me if I could teach him some martial arts so we ended up sparring a lot in our dorm room. A combination of him flirting with me, me being nice and playing fun back, and we ended up falling for each other.



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    Sep 02, 2011 11:56 PM GMT
    I was almost 26 and he was 23. We met on match.com. Lasted over three years.
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    Sep 03, 2011 12:18 AM GMT
    I was a senior in college, he was a junior. We dated for a year.
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    Sep 03, 2011 12:22 AM GMT
    My first gay date was when I was 15.

    The first guy I actually dated for a few months was when I was 17. First time I lived with a guy was when I was 20.