K fellas need some advice

  • dubcwarrior

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    Aug 25, 2011 11:51 AM GMT
    I currently live in Indiana but am moving to Orlando, FL at the end of November. I was looking for someone that was looking for a roomate and found a pretty cool guy 32 years old very handsome. As we have chatted over a couple months we have started to like each other and want to try to make it more than just roommates as far as seeing where things can go. We have set up a time for me to go out there for a week to see if the chemistry transfers in person which we are both pretty confident that it will. So my question to you guys is...What are the odds that two people from different states with a big interest in eachother make it? All advice is welcome...Thanks guys
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    Aug 25, 2011 11:59 AM GMT
    You might as well consult this..no one can say with any degree of certainty.Just go for it.
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    Aug 25, 2011 12:08 PM GMT
    the question is redundant cause soon you'll be in the same state... just find a different place to rent, else if it doesn't work out, you're in for a world of pain!

    november is not far away!
  • dubcwarrior

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    Aug 25, 2011 12:16 PM GMT
    thanks guys...I do have a buddy that recently moved down there we are going to the same school so I do have a back up plan set just in case.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 25, 2011 12:19 PM GMT
    I'd pursue it for sure, you never know what might work out. But, I'd also come up with an alternative plan if things don't go well, or blow up or you just don't feel it's right. Do not go without a "Plan B" so to speak. Try and think of all potential scenarios depending on what comes up.

    That said, enjoy yourself and see where it goes! Good luck!
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    Aug 25, 2011 12:34 PM GMT
    Try it. If iit sucks you can always find another room or roommate.
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    Aug 25, 2011 12:36 PM GMT
    while a back up plan is great, don't you think by moving into the same house you're putting pressure on a potential relationship? it's like skipping steps 1-3 and racing for the finals!

    just a thought, but in the initial stages of anything between 2 people, you will need your space... but only YOU can be the judge of this... go with your gut instinct
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    Aug 25, 2011 12:39 PM GMT
    I'd say go for it, but surely you're not still thinking of being roommates are you? icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 25, 2011 3:37 PM GMT
    Scruffypup saidI'd say go for it, but surely you're not still thinking of being roommates are you? icon_eek.gif


    THIS
  • ohioguy12

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    Aug 25, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
    76coopers said don't you think by moving into the same house you're putting pressure on a potential relationship? it's like skipping steps 1-3 and racing for the finals!



    THIS!!
  • dubcwarrior

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    Aug 25, 2011 5:35 PM GMT
    thanks again for all of the advice I do have a plan B set and since we are going to try for something more we probably won't be roomates. I am flying down there the end of this month to spend five days with him and we'll see how it goes.
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    Aug 25, 2011 9:42 PM GMT
    Who said he wanted to marry the interstate? Sheesh.icon_wink.gificon_cool.gif
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    Aug 25, 2011 10:09 PM GMT
    Making a relationship work & finding a new roommate should be kept separate!