Early AM meeting for coffee

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    Aug 29, 2011 12:39 AM GMT
    Events are actual and factual,
    I started talking-to this gentleman( well at the time) we chatted online, through email, etc., so on a Thursday morning before work, I agree to meet him for coffee. He was supposedly heading out of town. We met, talked seemed to have a good time. To me, we clicked, well in my opinion. Obviously looking back it seems his motivations were quite different then mine. He blow me off, not even an explaination but he hides like a coward. But such is life, what can one do.... Any one else have thi happen to them? Understand if neither was each other type, should that be said? What would you do in his shoes.
    Curious into what all you think
    Thanks in advance
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    Aug 29, 2011 1:27 AM GMT
    Your story is the most typical and common experience in the gay dating world. Guys will go out of their way to give you the impression they are interested in you, that they want to see you again, date you, have something to do with you. And the very next day they will ignore all your calls, messages, emails, etc, and you will never, ever see or hear from them again.

    Does it sound fucked up? Sure it does! Does it happen absolutely every day to a billion gay men? Undoubtedly. And that's the reality.
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    Aug 29, 2011 1:33 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidYour story is the most typical and common experience in the gay dating world. Guys will go out of their way to give you the impression they are interested in you, that they want to see you again, date you, have something to do with you. And the very next day they will ignore all your calls, messages, emails, etc, and you will never, ever see or hear from them again.

    Does it sound fucked up? Sure it does! Does it happen absolutely every day to a billion gay men? Undoubtedly. And that's the reality.


    Thanks but I'm not upset or anything about it, he's just a douchebag!