Dick size: A factor in sex/boyfriends/partners?

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    May 08, 2008 9:36 PM GMT
    This has to have made the rounds, but I'm still pretty new to this forum.

    My current 'boyfriend' is unappetizingly small and I suspect my interest in sex would be a little longer lasting iffn' there was more downstairs.

    Thoughts? (Willing to dodge any and all the "you superficial, shallow, . . ." comments to hear any similar experiences).
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    May 08, 2008 9:39 PM GMT
    There is a lower limit beneath which it does become laughable...just not in the guy's presence.
  • GQjock

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    May 08, 2008 10:07 PM GMT
    Penis size is like porridge

    When Goldilocks ate it some was too cold or hot and some was JUST RIGHT....

    Same thing with dicks....
    Some are too small
    Some are too big
    ...and the best are JUST RIGHTicon_wink.gif
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    May 09, 2008 1:56 AM GMT
    caslon saidThere is a lower limit beneath which it does become laughable...just not in the guy's presence.


    HAHAHAHAHA
    I'm never showing you what I have, I can already imagen all the horrible jokes I'd hear about later! icon_razz.gif

    But as long as I can feel it, he can work with what hes got, hes willing to try different things, well, then I'll work with it too..
    Mind you, hes gotta have other stuff, like a head on his shoulders, sense of humor and so on.
  • Timbales

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    May 09, 2008 1:59 AM GMT
    GQjock saidPenis size is like porridge

    When Goldilocks ate it some was too cold or hot and some was JUST RIGHT....

    Same thing with dicks....
    Some are too small
    Some are too big
    ...and the best are JUST RIGHTicon_wink.gif


    I actually had a few guys tell me I had a Goldilocks cock. :haha:
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    May 09, 2008 2:09 AM GMT
    I had a boyfriend with a laughably small penis who was a total top. I learned you have two options

    1) Buy a strap on. If you need to be filled in a way he can't, a toy can.

    2) Turn him into a bottom bitch. 100% tops just need someone to show them how much fun versatility is.
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    May 09, 2008 3:02 PM GMT
    The only time I've really found issues with this, is when a) they're too small to actually hit my prostate and b) they're so big that it actually hurts.

    Beyond that...I'm good =)
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    May 09, 2008 8:42 PM GMT
    For me and my current friend it's an oral issue. I simply have no desire to put his finger-size penis in my mouth. And when he tells me "I'm moist" (in Spanish), my aversion multiplies.

    I'm sorry but sticking my face into some sweaty pubic hair to suck on a too-short straw is not my thing. Call me overly fastidious, but that's it.

    Charlie
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    May 09, 2008 9:22 PM GMT
    I was hooking up with a guy with a small penis (size of my pinky). I never really had a problem with it. At least I knew I would never gag when I gave him head.
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    May 14, 2008 5:24 AM GMT
    Sounds like this relationship is not doing it for you, I would think about finishing it and moving on. Sounds like you almost resent him for having a small penis, that is not good.
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    May 14, 2008 2:15 PM GMT
    I'm happy to
    and I'm happy to be
    A BOTTOM.
    *whew*
  • BlackJock79

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    May 14, 2008 6:41 PM GMT
    I've been with a couple of guys that were really small. One guy was riding me and the next thing I know cum started spraying everywhere but I had no idea where it was coming from. His dick was so small until it was almost hidden in his pubic hairs. The other guy had a girlfriend (how she dealt with that small penis, I have NO idea) he is a bottom too and LOVES for me to screw him. I don't have a problem with small dicks but I do like to have something to suck on... I don't think it would be an issue with me but I guess if you are a bottom then it would matter.
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    May 14, 2008 9:24 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]BlackJock79 said[/cite]I've been with a couple of guys that were really small. One guy was riding me and the next thing I know cum started spraying everywhere but I had no idea where it was coming from. His dick was so small until it was almost hidden in his pubic hairs. The other guy had a girlfriend (how she dealt with that small penis, I have NO idea) he is a bottom too and LOVES for me to screw him. I don't have a problem with small dicks but I do like to have something to suck on... I don't think it would be an issue with me but I guess if you are a bottom then it would matter.[/quote]

    Dang thats a micro cock if ya don't even know where the cum is flying from. I've only had one encounter with what I'd define as a small penis. It was an odd encounter because it really threw me. The guy was at least 6ft and he was about as big as I was when I was a little kid. It made me feel uncomfortable. Didn't expect any of that. I use to joke with my friends that after seeing that I was convinced if there was a God that God was in fact a man hating lesbian :-)

    Would I date or form a relationship with someone who had a small cock? Well, when I'm evaluating someone's over all potential to be boyfriend material cock size has never been a factor. However, if it made me uncomfortable enough that I saw I wasn't able to enjoy sex I'd have to be honest about it and probably would not go further into the relationship. Either way I'd know how I stand on this issue well before I have created a long term thing. If I find I'm good with it then I'm good. If I see signs where there is going to be some problems I probably will step away from the situation. I'd have to be fair to the both of us. I'm sure he wouldn't want me to feel uncomfortable with him when it comes to sex. But there is that other side that I may be way into his little penis with it's little eraser head and it's wittle bitty shaft. Sifting through pubic hair to find it may be too much but hopefully I can encourage him to shave that off without cutting anything vital along the way icon_smile.gif
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    May 14, 2008 10:26 PM GMT
    I think that would depend on your preferences.icon_eek.gif

    For me, since i really don't enjoy giving a head, then, size doesn't really matter. Also, i have never been bottomed, therefore i really don't care. Good thing I'm proud enough with my *****icon_lol.gif

    On the contrary, of course if you're a bottom and loves being one, then i think size would play a role. Same applies if you're crazy about giving a head.
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    May 14, 2008 11:17 PM GMT
    I've been with this guy a few times who's *too* big. I didn't let things go anywhere past oral.

    On the other hand, I've had guys who were what most would think too small, and that was just fine.
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    May 15, 2008 1:34 AM GMT
    The male copulatory organ now in 77 sizes and colors! Choose yours today!
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    May 15, 2008 1:37 AM GMT
    I'd have to say I've never been with anyone too small - but was once with someone far too big - OMG - I thought he was going to split me in two! It hurt so, so much - I may never have gotten used to him - no matter how much time and lube was used.

    So - I'd have to say dick size is a factor when considering a guy - but, there are far, far more important aspects to my choice of men!
  • CSPYNY

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    May 15, 2008 2:30 AM GMT
    I imagine my size wouldn't count much as I think I would be the recipient. But I could care less about the other guy. That is the last thing that I would look at in a relationship.
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    May 16, 2008 2:59 AM GMT
    I do know sex wise that I enjoy a bigger cock, esp on the thick side. After having a couple and playing with toys I got used to it. For me it really turns me on when a guy has some girth and if he has length too then all the better. I just love the feeling of a bigger cock in me.

    Relationships though can be different, however it doesn't take away a desire for size. You just choose what is more important. Of course the best thing is when the dude is cool and so is his package, haha.
  • HereNBoston

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    May 16, 2008 3:24 AM GMT
    my first bf was huge. just... massive. first time we had sex I thought i was going to have a seizure. Unfortunately he was also the first guy I messed around with, so i was setup for a lifetime of disappointment haha so with that, for better or worse, dick size is definitely on the checklist when it comes to prospective boyfriends
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    May 16, 2008 7:36 AM GMT
    Honestly, it would, but only when it came to sex.

    Too big and too small would both be problems for me, even if he was not solely top. icon_razz.gif There's also oral sex to consider, y'know. icon_razz.gif

    It's superficial, so if the guy's really awesome in all other aspects, I doubt it would matter to me at all.
  • GQjock

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    May 18, 2008 11:09 AM GMT
    I knew I signed onto the right club icon_cool.gif

    Research says erect gay penises are bigger
    Uncovered Kinsey Report data show homosexual members have hetero ones by a head.

    - - - - - - - - - - - -
    By Hank Hyena

    Nov. 4, 1999

    Six inches is the average length of a male erection, right? More or less? More (6.32 inches) if you're gay, apparently. And less (5.99) if you're straight. Stiff homosexual organs are one-third of an inch longer, claims an article titled "The Relation Between Sexual Orientation and Penile Size" in the June Archives of Sexual Behavior.
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    May 18, 2008 4:47 PM GMT
    I prefer 'Average" Big cocks are fun to look at and that's about it.
  • SFTraveler

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    May 23, 2008 8:18 AM GMT
    While very large dicks are very erotic, I've learned from experience (oww!) that some large dicks are too big for me to take. One guy was easily 10-11 inches and thick and I couldn't take it without great pain to me. Luckily, he liked the way I gave oral sex.
    A good size for me is 8 inches and pretty thick. That fills me up just right and hits my prostate in just the right way!
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  • HndsmKansan

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    May 23, 2008 12:16 PM GMT
    Well you have a point only that its an observation.

    If this man is great in other aspects, I think his dick size should rank at the bottom of your concerns.

    If I were in your situation it probably isn't something I would even acknowlege.