FEMIDOMS... !

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    Aug 31, 2011 1:04 AM GMT
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    Have you tried them (yourself wearing one or the guy you were ploughing) ?

    Tops, how is the feel? I have a suspicion that the sensation would be much less tight and desensitizing than a male condom ... - yay/nay?

    If you're a catcher, would you mind taking a femidom up your butt when things started to get hot and heavy with your fella, as opposed to him
    wearing a rubber on his smushing-rod?

    What say you?



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    Aug 31, 2011 8:30 AM GMT
    I've never once wanted to try it, I think it would be messy and uncomfortable!

    If you're larger than average just use XL condoms.
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    Aug 31, 2011 9:40 AM GMT
    I think it is more the feel of a condom that I really dislike. The latex doesn't feel good for me in the slightest, and as soon as I put it on, I noticeably feel immediately less 'excited', feels like my dick is similtaneously being moderately strangled and suffocated.

    The XL condoms are a tad 'baggy' and still feels like fucking a plastic bag.

    I saw a vid on xtube of a guy boning someone who wearing a femidom, it looked hotttttttttf as fuck.

    Hmm. I hear the femidom is already pre-packaged hella lubed up, so it would save time having to repeatedly apply lube manually when wearing the male condom. Another potential plus icon_biggrin.gif


    Qn: is it the mental barrier that would bother you re femidom
    (I.e. being originally marketed towards women)?


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    Aug 31, 2011 9:50 AM GMT
    Well have you tried a range of different condom brands and sizes? I find I just don't get on with certain ones. My favourite are Durex XL - they aren't huge, they are just a better fit/less restrictive than regular ones, I don't feel like my cock is having the circulation cut off at the base.

    I think though it sounds like more of a psychological thing, you've convinced yourself you don't like using condoms so you associate them with something unpleasant, hence it makes you lose a bit of excitement. I think it's fairly normal to feel like that, but if you are quick at putting one on I really don't think it's long enough to lose much excitement, it takes me literally 5 seconds to get it on. Plus, if you do find you lose it a bit, just get your fella to lube you up with his hand, that should soon get you standing to attention again!

    Though I don't really have an issue with condoms in general, I've never really had an issue with them being a turn-off, partly because they are eroticised for me from watching lots of condom-only porn :-)

    If you're finding you're having to re-apply lube a lot while fucking, consider trying silicone lube, it tends to last longer and you don't have to use as much, or re-apply as often.

    With a femidom, it's not the fact they are designed for women at all, I just think they look weird like a deflated jellyfish and it really wouldn't appeal to me to see one hanging out his arsehole like a prolapse rectum.

    I'd like to see this hot vid though to see if my mental image is wrong - link?



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    Aug 31, 2011 10:18 AM GMT
    Hmm, I guess it could be partly mental. Although the thought of BB isn't exactly a turn on either (well, maybe under a certain hypothetical and thoroughly clean, 100% safe fantasy, but reality is a bitch lol) the physical feeling is uncomfortable. Wanking in a condom also feels 'meh' too.

    Yh i've tried loads of diff condoms. Will try different large types soon- in the name of science ;)

    The guy from xtube is called Sereen Curtis. He has his own site. I'm not sure if the xtube vid in question has been removed or not (on my iPhone ATM and xtube is crap via smartphones) - his xtube channel is:

    http://www.xtube.com/community/profile.php?u=sereen90210

    (its better on mute, his talking annoys me)

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    Sep 19, 2011 8:00 AM GMT
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    Have you tried them (yourself wearing one or the guy you were ploughing) ?

    Tops, how is the feel? I have a suspicion that the sensation would be much less tight and desensitizing than a male condom ... - yay/nay?

    If you're a catcher, would you mind taking a femidom up your butt when things started to get hot and heavy with your fella, as opposed to him
    wearing a rubber on his smushing-rod?

    What say you?





    I haven't used one, but my understanding is that they have a couple of advantages. There's an inner ring and an outer one that help to shape the tube. You can put it on/in earlier in the night, then when you want to have sex, it's completely spontaneous, no need to ask about condoms or wait to put one on - it's just bend over and get to goin'.
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    Sep 19, 2011 8:13 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidI'd definitely use it (catching). If it feels more 'natural', great. And it would seem to me to be more resilient than the male condom (thicker?) So if that means safer ferocious pounding, I think I could get over whatever negatives there might be. Male condoms have negatives; these will have negatives, too.

    I do wonder about the dynamics of putting it in. Do you put it on a dildo or hard dick first and push it in? It seems like it would be like trying to squeeze a plastic grocery bag up your ass. Not easy. Not sexy. So I'm interested what the "graceful" way is for a guy to put one of these...umm....in.


    I believe the end of it that goes inside has a ring that you can compress and just push through the hole.
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    Sep 19, 2011 9:10 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidI'd definitely use it (catching). If it feels more 'natural', great. And it would seem to me to be more resilient than the male condom (thicker?) So if that means safer ferocious pounding, I think I could get over whatever negatives there might be. Male condoms have negatives; these will have negatives, too.

    I do wonder about the dynamics of putting it in. Do you put it on a dildo or hard dick first and push it in? It seems like it would be like trying to squeeze a plastic grocery bag up your ass. Not easy. Not sexy. So I'm interested what the "graceful" way is for a guy to put one of these...umm....in.



    Agreed icon_biggrin.gif

    I'd imagine, just squeeze the tip and push in with a finger? The top could easily do it for the bttm I imagine ...

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    Or something dildo like I could see working pretty easily too I guess.

    femidom2.jpg

    Replacine vag for hot boy butt, of course ;D


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    Sep 19, 2011 9:17 AM GMT
    And that's meant to be LESS of a turn-off than a regular condom?
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    Sep 19, 2011 10:36 AM GMT
    Lool, I'm sure it doesn't take more than 5 seconds to push it in, and then you're good to go.

    I think it could even be put in as a part of foreplay when the top is, erm, digitally preparing the bttm for the main even, so to speak... As one does ;)
  • metta

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    Feb 11, 2014 8:17 PM GMT
    Gay men dig female condoms

    http://www.sundayworld.co.za/news/2014/01/27/gay-men-dig-female-condoms




    http://glbtqjamaica.blogspot.com/2011/02/female-condom-femidom-2-recommended-for.html
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    Feb 11, 2014 9:02 PM GMT
    South Africa: The Other Side of the Female Condom


    "Anova Health runs special MSM-friendly clinics in both Cape Town and Johannesburg. While the organisation notes that female condoms may be more likely than male condoms to slip during anal sex, they can be a viable alternative for HIV prevention"

    "Using the female condom wasn't easy at first because I was used to the male condom," Mzimkhule remembers. "After about four months, I started enjoying sex much more because I was safe from HIV re-infection and other sexually transmitted infections."

    http://allafrica.com/stories/201401160487.html
  • metta

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    Feb 11, 2014 9:19 PM GMT
    Better than barebacking?

    "The ring inside the condom designed to sit on the cervix could be removed for anal sex, he says.

    “It is just in the way and can cause all sorts of problems, from difficulty inserting it, to wrinkles that cause friction, and even the likelihood the condom will end up deep inside you,” he explains. “With the ring removed, it is a lot easier to insert by putting it on the erect penis and placing it inside the receptive partner.” "


    "grab the condom and pull it out at the same time as you withdraw your penis, immediately after ejaculation, and to be quick and careful about it."

    http://dailyxtra.com/vancouver/arts-and-entertainment/better-barebacking
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    Feb 11, 2014 9:23 PM GMT
    How to use them

    The following points may be useful in talking to someone about using the female condom for anal sex. Of course the language should be adapted to best meet the needs of the patient, or client.

    The easiest way to use the female condom for anal sex is to wear it like a 'male' condom. Put lubricant in the female condom and then place it over the penis (or a dildo). Use plenty of lubricant on the outside of the female condom or around the arsehole before fucking.
    Alternatively, you could try to insert the female condom in the rectum first, as for vaginal fucking. Use plenty of lubricant around the anus, and loosen it with a finger in readiness for the female condom. Make sure your fingernails are cut short.

    After removing the female condom from its wrapper, hold the inner ring between your thumb, index and forefinger, and squeeze it so that it forms an oval. Don't remove the inner ring, as this will lead the female condom to become tangled, and could lead to breakage.

    Push the female condom up into the rectum as far as you can, using the inner ring as a guide, whilst spreading your arsehole with your other hand. You may find this easier if you raise one leg onto the side of the bath, or a stool.

    Then put your index finger inside the female condom, until you feel the bottom of the inner ring. Push up as far as you can, but do not insert the outer ring.
    You will find that the outer ring, and perhaps a small part of the female condom, is on the outside of your arsehole. That's meant to happen, and should stop the female condom from slipping inside.

    Use more lubricant inside the female condom, to keep it moist, and add it whenever you need it during fucking.
    Check every now and again during fucking that the outer ring of the female condom hasn't slipped inside your arsehole, or that the penis hasn't slipped between the female condom and the arsehole. If it has, stop, remove the female condom, and use a new one before starting again.

    Don't re-use the female condom. The female condom is designed for vaginal sex and for single use. Some gay men are reported to have used a female condom when being fucked by multiple partners. If you use it more than once for anal sex, we don't know the strains that it could put on the sides of the sheath, which might easily tear. And if you get a lot of semen in the female condom, we don't know how effective it is in holding it in, or whether any seepage into your rectum could take place. It is likely that fucking in somebody else's cum would be risky for the active partner.

    Removing the female condom. Because the female condom lines the inside of the rectum, your partner doesn't have to withdraw immediately after coming. You can remove the sheath when it suits you, making sure that no semen is spilt. Twist the outer ring to keep the semen inside, then pull gently. Throw away the used female condom.

    http://www.aidsmap.com/Female-condoms-for-anal-sex/page/1322575/