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    Aug 31, 2011 1:19 PM GMT
    hi
    i live in india. i am 26 , due to family pressure i had enter in marriage with a girl.the problem i am facing is i dont have even a bit of attraction for girls so i am going through a very hard time.

    i have heard that many gays marry and have children. i want to know that how these gays get erection towards girls .

    all those gays who have children please tell me how you are able to have children, i mean how you had sex with women please please help me
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    Aug 31, 2011 1:28 PM GMT
    Then tell them you're gay and you can't! I know someone from India and his parents still live there and he came out and they have grudgingly accepted it. He already got married to a woman and it didn't work out and it was painful experience, so just avoid the whole situation altogether. Having kids with her will only make it worse.
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    Aug 31, 2011 1:40 PM GMT
    mocktwinkie saidThen tell them you're gay and you can't! I know someone from India and his parents still live there and he came out and they have grudgingly accepted it. He already got married to a woman and it didn't work out and it was painful experience, so just avoid the whole situation altogether. Having kids with her will only make it worse.


    I agree with what you're saying but Indian don't seem to understand why people are gay and they don't like it when their son tells them that he is gay. They believe it brings shame and disgrace to the family. Trust me they can be very narrow minded people. I'm Indian but I was born and raised in the UK and my parents said to me last week that if I ever start dating a guy they would disown me because it bring shame and disgrace to the family. It could make things much worse for him if he comes out to them.