I don't know what I like.

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    Sep 01, 2011 12:35 PM GMT
    Hey everybody, I feel really ashamed to talk about this. I don't like anal sex. I don't have a problem with people who do like anal sex but I don't for some reason. I'm 22 years old and I've never ever been with a guy but i've fantasised being with a guy like nearly everyday. I don't even think I like oral sex.

    Is there a gay person on here who knows they are gay but just isn't all that into anal and oral sex?

    I hope this doesn't make it harder for me to get a boyfriend because I'm already struggling to have one.
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    Sep 02, 2011 7:47 PM GMT
    Don't worry to much mate, things may change one you meet Mr right, and feel relaxed with him. But......some guys never like it up their butt; my arse is so tight It can whistle, and I'm fine with that. But I had to fight them off, because my butt is still tight and round, and I am almost 50.

    Some guys like women don't like head either. just don't be forced to do something you don't want to do. It may only take meeting the right guy for you, so relax mate.
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    Sep 02, 2011 7:49 PM GMT
    warrior123 saidHey everybody, I feel really ashamed to talk about this. I don't like anal sex. I don't have a problem with people who do like anal sex but I don't for some reason. I'm 22 years old and I've never ever been with a guy but i've fantasised being with a guy like nearly everyday. I don't even think I like oral sex.

    Is there a gay person on here who knows they are gay but just isn't all that into anal and oral sex?

    I hope this doesn't make it harder for me to get a boyfriend because I'm already struggling to have one.


    There are plenty, slimnmuscly is one so is paulflex, ask them.
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    Sep 02, 2011 8:00 PM GMT
    I don't care about anal could easily be in a relationship without it.
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    Sep 02, 2011 8:07 PM GMT
    I could easily make it on oral alone, but no oral or anal is a long shot.

    There are some guys who prefer not to have sex at all to avoid diseases, or they think sex is gross. In fact, I've called myself hooking up with guys only to discover that they just wanted to watch porn together and jack off.

    I do think you are so inexperienced, its kind of hard for you to say what you like. I thought I didn't like oral because the first 7 guys to give me it sucked and I felt nothing. It tooked my ex to show me how pleasurable it could be.

    Never allow yourself to be pressured into something that you don't want to do, but I strongly suggest you just try it, and not just once, but a few times before you make your final decision.

    There are guys who could handle your lifestyle, just not as many as those that enjoy some form of sex.
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    Oct 24, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
    I've had the same fear, though I'm cool with oral. It seems there are plenty who agree with you about anal. Don't worry, it's pretty normal.