Unique indicators somebody might be gay...such as words used in emails...

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    Sep 02, 2011 12:41 PM GMT
    This might be an odd question, but has your gaydar ever pinged due to something unique and different coming from somebody...such as their voice on the phone, or the words they use in emails/messages such as "omg" or "prolly"... or icon_smile.gif ... Just subtle unique indicators that make you think somebody might be gay.
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    Sep 02, 2011 12:50 PM GMT
    When a guy emails and says "Dude I´d really love to suck your huge cock then have you fuck me hard for hours. Hurt me. " I suspect that he might be at least bi-curious.
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:10 PM GMT
    gymrat100 saidThis might be an odd question, but has your gaydar ever pinged due to something unique and different coming from somebody...such as their voice on the phone, or the words they use in emails/messages such as "omg" or "prolly"... or icon_smile.gif ... Just subtle unique indicators that make you think somebody might be gay.
    No.. it tells me the individual on the other end is extremely immature.
    Has nothing to do with being gay or not.
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:16 PM GMT
    The unbridled use of exclamation marks..!!!!

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    Sep 02, 2011 1:20 PM GMT
    "FAB-u-LOUSSSS!"



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    Sep 02, 2011 1:21 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidWhen a guy emails and says "Dude I´d really love to suck your huge cock then have you fuck me hard for hours. Hurt me. " I suspect that he might be at least bi-curious.

    Win, this one.
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:25 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidWhen a guy emails and says "Dude I´d really love to suck your huge cock then have you fuck me hard for hours. Hurt me. " I suspect that he might be at least bi-curious.

    Huge cock? You? Prove it. Show us.
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:26 PM GMT
    This is the perfect question, coz guys, I have no gaydar! As I always say, someone might be hitting on me or trying to take a move and I don't notice or I duno... ignore the move/words; I'm so naive!

    So such a question is great since I'm trying to crack a guy am seeing, he is "straight" but i think he is into me, in a way or another...

    SO any ideas?

    Sorry OP if i'm stealing the thunder?
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:33 PM GMT
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    Lostboy saidWhen a guy emails and says "Dude I´d really love to suck your huge cock then have you fuck me hard for hours. Hurt me. " I suspect that he might be at least bi-curious.

    Huge cock? You? Prove it. Show us.


    I saw one of his pics and yeah he has a big dick....however, I agree with you. I still want him to prove it.
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:33 PM GMT
    "hey you!"
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:37 PM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    gymrat100 saidThis might be an odd question, but has your gaydar ever pinged due to something unique and different coming from somebody...such as their voice on the phone, or the words they use in emails/messages such as "omg" or "prolly"... or icon_smile.gif ... Just subtle unique indicators that make you think somebody might be gay.
    No.. it tells me the individual on the other end is extremely immature.
    Has nothing to do with being gay or not.
    That would tell me the dude is fucking desperate. icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:39 PM GMT
    Its not "gaydar" it is "femdar" which translates in your brain to gay. Other examples: the constant use of "annoying", "cute", "fabulous", excessive smiley faces and !!!!. Also, the word "leisure". It's not that only gay guys use these words. It's that females are more likely to use these words and gay guys tend to have more female friends than they have straight guy (aka 'douchey') friends. So gay guys tend to pick up their ways and their lexicon.

    Straight men do this too, often times picking up these words from their gf or wives, but they tend to also still have douchey male friends to balance it out OR call them out when they slip up.
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:48 PM GMT
    Here are examples of a gay response, and a straight response:

    Gay-ish

    "OMG! Going camping this weekend! I hope they have toilets! What do you think I should take for food? THIS is going to be SO much fun!

    Straight-ish

    Camping Fri-Sun. Got beer, ready to go.
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:58 PM GMT
    Not something that HE wrote, but that was written ABOUT him, a story I've posted here before.

    He was featured in the Living section of a newspaper. It showed photos of the house he renovated with his own hands, the all-white first floor, even the furniture, and the Victorian bedrooms on the second. The crystal chandeliers in every room that he acquired from NYC antique stores, the several gardens that surrounded the house. A 39-year-old bachelor who never married, now retired from a NYC acting career and returned to his rural home town,1500 miles from Manhattan, where no man made is single past 25. Plus there was a photo of him, with a classic gay face.

    My gaydar went off the scale. So I mailed him a letter requesting a tour of his place, the article providing his name and address. I was surprised he lived on the same street as me, and more surprised I'd never noticed his house.

    He phoned me at my university office a few days later, his completely gay voice confirming my gaydar, and we arranged a meeting for me to see his house after I left the campus. We had sex in one of his Victorian bedrooms that first night we met, I moved in with him some months later, and we were together nearly 2 years.

    My gaydar works with printed words & photos as well as in person.
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    Sep 02, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    wrestlervic saidHere are examples of a gay response, and a straight response:

    Gay-ish

    "OMG! Going camping this weekend! I hope they have toilets! What do you think I should take for food? THIS is going to be SO much fun!

    Straight-ish

    Camping Fri-Sun. Got beer, ready to go.



    ^^ This
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    Sep 02, 2011 2:01 PM GMT
    wrestlervic said
    "OMG! Going camping this weekend! I hope they have toilets! What do you think I should take for food? THIS is going to be SO much fun!

    Straight-ish

    Camping Fri-Sun. Got beer, ready to go.


    What's camping?

    GLAMPING BABY BAYBAY!

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    Sep 02, 2011 2:04 PM GMT
    every 20 something I know uses those words
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    Sep 02, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    gymrat100 saidThis might be an odd question, but has your gaydar ever pinged due to something unique and different coming from somebody...such as their voice on the phone, or the words they use in emails/messages such as "omg" or "prolly"... or icon_smile.gif ... Just subtle unique indicators that make you think somebody might be gay.


    Whenever a guy usess the word fabulous

    I know then that he's a sloppy bottom!
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    Sep 02, 2011 4:41 PM GMT
    wrestlervic saidHere are examples of a gay response, and a straight response:

    Gay-ish

    "OMG! Going camping this weekend! I hope they have toilets! What do you think I should take for food? THIS is going to be SO much fun!

    Straight-ish

    Camping Fri-Sun. Got beer, ready to go.


    This exactly.
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    Sep 02, 2011 4:46 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidNot something that HE wrote, but that was written ABOUT him, a story I've posted here before.

    He was featured in the Living section of a newspaper...

    ----- snip{"long story involving shopping, refinement, gay face, and sex"} ---

    My gaydar works with printed words & photos as well as in person.


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    Sep 02, 2011 4:52 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidWhen a guy emails and says "Dude I´d really love to suck your huge cock then have you fuck me hard for hours. Hurt me. " I suspect that he might be at least bi-curious.


    But there is the opposite node of this:

    "Dude, I'm gonna shred your ass with my big cock. Your place, 8pm. Have lots of lube ready."

    ....which might be a tad gay.
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    Sep 02, 2011 4:54 PM GMT
    This is kinda obvious, but the use of "my partner" as oppose to my gf/wife
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    Sep 02, 2011 5:50 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidevery 20 something I know uses those words


    This is my thought, too. Most of my 20-25yo friends rattle off "lol" "prolly" "aight" and "fosho" pretty interchangeably, and it's not a gay thing.
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    Sep 02, 2011 5:57 PM GMT
    If you parse the language carefully enough you can convince yourself anyone is gay. People usually ring the gaydar themselves unintentionally with the substance of their content.

    Items such as: brunch, Paula Deen, bottomless mimosas, shopping, laser hair removal, spa, Splash, HGTV, shoes

    Straighties do not know a single one of those words.
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    Sep 02, 2011 5:58 PM GMT
    torrentprime said
    Dallasfan824 saidevery 20 something I know uses those words


    This is my thought, too. Most of my 20-25yo friends rattle off "lol" "prolly" "aight" and "fosho" pretty interchangeably, and it's not a gay thing.


    no, but it is a stupid thing. at least learn 2 abbreviate w/ numbers and back slashes.