I think I'm becoming a Top.

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    May 09, 2008 10:02 PM GMT
    I've just seem to have lost the enjoyment that I used to get from geeting the ol' Pipe laid to me. Perhaps it's just because I can't find the guy to do it to me right. Perhaps every sixteen years my polarities switch. But even my fantasies seem to have me really roughing up some guy and getting rough and rowdy.
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    May 09, 2008 10:07 PM GMT
    Shut yer whiging, drop your pants and start munching pillow baby that arse is mine icon_wink.gif

    Maybe yuo are just getting sick of guys being uninventive? Maybe a little instruction but heck hy just be one or t'other. I love throwin my other half on the bed every now and again abd banging the hell out of him! Its good for the soul and teaches em how ya want it icon_lol.gif
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    May 09, 2008 10:22 PM GMT
    I find that when I am in either role, I really throw myself into it all the way. When I'm on top, I do like to be in control but I also want to be sure he's being pleased.

    If I'm ever in a position to do both at the same time, I won't know how to feel.
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    May 09, 2008 10:23 PM GMT
    Timberoo said

    If I'm ever in a position to do both at the same time, I won't know how to feel.


    Jeeze you must have a huge cock to be able to do that!
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    May 09, 2008 10:26 PM GMT
    bfg1 said[quote][cite]Timberoo said[/cite]

    If I'm ever in a position to do both at the same time, I won't know how to feel.


    Jeeze you must have a huge cock to be able to do that![/quote]

    lol

    you know what I meant
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    May 09, 2008 10:28 PM GMT
    hey dont shatter the illusion Im suitably impressed! Its obviously Timberoo as he is hung like the trunk of an oak tree!
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    May 09, 2008 10:31 PM GMT
    bfg1 saidhey dont shatter the illusion Im suitably impressed! Its obviously Timberoo as he is hung like the trunk of an oak tree!


    too funny

    as mentioned in the other thread, I was told by a few guys I have a Goldilocks cock.
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    May 09, 2008 10:46 PM GMT
    Timberoo said[quote][cite]bfg1 said[/cite]hey dont shatter the illusion Im suitably impressed! Its obviously Timberoo as he is hung like the trunk of an oak tree!


    too funny

    as mentioned in the other thread, I was told by a few guys I have a Goldilocks cock.[/quote]

    It dips in other peoples porridge??????
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    May 09, 2008 10:55 PM GMT
    I was a total top during my twenties, a non anal during my thirties but now after discovering how fun bottoming can be start turning to be a total bottom.
    Being a bottom use to mean being a weaker, sissy and effiminate for me. I guess I enjoy it because the top is doing all the hard work and you are basically laying there enjoying yourselves.

    BTW, I find myself loosing erections after I put a condom on (I was barebacking during my topping days 12 years ago). Since I am into safesex only now, I guess I have no choice but to be the bottom.
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    May 09, 2008 10:58 PM GMT
    Crimthann saidI've just seem to have lost the enjoyment that I used to get from geeting the ol' Pipe laid to me. Perhaps it's just because I can't find the guy to do it to me right. Perhaps every sixteen years my polarities switch. But even my fantasies seem to have me really roughing up some guy and getting rough and rowdy.


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    You can practice on me if ya want!
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    May 09, 2008 11:35 PM GMT
    i went through this phase about 2 years ago. it was simply a gradual transition from primarily bottom, to even-steven, to primarily top. the pendulum continues to swing... watch me turn into a 60-year-old bottom eventually.

    it's all good.
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    May 09, 2008 11:55 PM GMT
    Timberoo said[quote][cite]bfg1 said[/cite]hey dont shatter the illusion Im suitably impressed! Its obviously Timberoo as he is hung like the trunk of an oak tree!


    too funny

    as mentioned in the other thread, I was told by a few guys I have a Goldilocks cock.[/quote]

    Too Big, too small, or just the right size?
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    May 09, 2008 11:56 PM GMT
    Crimthann said

    Too Big, too small, or just the right size?


    just right, apparently. I dated two guys that also used to date and a third guy they know tried to pick me up, based on them telling him that.
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    May 10, 2008 12:10 AM GMT
    KissingPro saidIt's a bit embarressing.....I haven't bottumed on almost 20 years. In the past yeare or so, I've been trying to learn. I say trying because, believe it or not, a lot of tops say they don't want the responsibility of "breaking me in"...and/or I can't seem to meet a guy who know how to do it right (the way I like to top). I think a lot of guys really do not know how to top.....when I am on top, it's all about the bottum's pleasure......I fuk using all senses.



    wouldnt have it any other way! I hate selfish lovers whose Idea of foreplay is where's the lube!

    Im like you I get more intense pleasure and satisfaction out of pleasuring whoever I am with!
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    May 10, 2008 12:13 AM GMT
    KissingPro saidIt's a bit embarressing.....I haven't bottumed on almost 20 years. In the past yeare or so, I've been trying to learn. I say trying because, believe it or not, a lot of tops say they don't want the responsibility of "breaking me in"...and/or I can't seem to meet a guy who know how to do it right (the way I like to top). I think a lot of guys really do not know how to top.....when I am on top, it's all about the bottum's pleasure......I fuk using all senses.


    Sometimes it seems it's hard to find the guy who does it all right.

    For me it went kinda like this:

    Rich gave the best rim jobs ever (tounge, teeth, and beard) and was very inventive, if not the biggest I've ever had.

    Steve was the master of the hands-free frak and he had the abs to prove it. He was awefully fond of mirrors though. He liked to watch himself. But then there was the whole multiple orgasam thing.

    John F. was hot. He liked to spank the hole, the taint, the bum. Knocked over a few pieces of furniture with that one. Broke some too. But a clean freak to the extreme. A little mud on the helmet and the evening was ruined.

    John R. made those sexy animal noises. (I miss high school).

    Harry. Ahhh, ...Harry. Kinky SOB. Too bad he's married.

    There's more but I don't want to get too X-rated here.

    By no means am I an expert at anything. I'm sure they all have complaints about me. And I know that this isn't Burger King. But it just seems that older I get, the less I get what I want. And I find myself creating myself into the man I'm looking for.

  • zakariahzol

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    May 10, 2008 2:22 AM GMT
    Kissingpro and bfg,

    Boy, How I wish I have an opportunity to go to bed with you guys, or someone like you guys. It really difficult to find guys that are really concern about the bottom, rather than pleasing themself. I have one (unfortunately) really chubby guys topping me and really treat me nicely from his movement , word and making sure I enjoy myself. However his dick is kinda not that big/long enough and didnt really hit it.

    Most other guys are like early withdrawal, not hard enough , refuse condom, no foreplay or just plain want to get it over it. Sometimes I wonder why do I go thru all the trouble cleaning and deuce my ass for some 5 or 6 minute penetration and cant hardly enjoy myself.

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    May 10, 2008 3:05 AM GMT
    Any man can top, any man can bottom. But a gentleman can do both.
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    May 10, 2008 4:32 AM GMT
    seems like many guys start off as tops and end up as bottoms, anybody else find this to be true?
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    May 10, 2008 5:35 AM GMT
    studd saidseems like many guys start off as tops and end up as bottoms, anybody else find this to be true?


    Nope.
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    May 11, 2008 8:18 AM GMT
    studd saidseems like many guys start off as tops and end up as bottoms, anybody else find this to be true?


    yep I call it the "scared arse syndrome" icon_lol.gif
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    May 11, 2008 10:29 AM GMT
    studd saidseems like many guys start off as tops and end up as bottoms, anybody else find this to be true?


    Nope, I started as a bottom, never gotten much chance to top anyone so.. mmhmm didn't need to tell everyone that!
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    May 11, 2008 11:13 AM GMT
    oooo is that 10 p on the floor, bends down to pick it up icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gif
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    May 11, 2008 6:17 PM GMT
    Where's the soap?
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    May 11, 2008 7:09 PM GMT
    I agree with Kissingpro and bfg. Pleasing the bottom is numero uno. If you can not do that, than you are missing out on more than half the pleasure of sex. The pleasure he is getting you get right back in intensity and then you can give that intensity back. It is not about doing it like rabbits, it is about the totality of the bottom's and the top's senses.
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    May 12, 2008 2:50 AM GMT
    i think that the top does all the work, sometimes the btm should do something more than jerk himself off and just get into the feel of the dick up his ass. tops often think that they are in control and getting the most outta it but man its the btms who rule the world.