Sep 02, 2011 11:43 PM GMT
I've been with my trainer now some 10 months and we've become buds. I'm suppose to train with him 3 or 4 days a week, yet we always seem to get together every day of the week (often more then once a day). He's become my triathlon training partner, ski and snowboard buddy, and now wants me to teach him to surf. We cook together, wine taste together, go to movies together, do fantasy football together, and hang out at his place watching TV alone on the couch together. We eat lunch or dinner together 3 or 4 times a week and on the rare occasion I don't see him, he's texting me or calling me to see what I'm doing. In the 10 months I've known him he's been on 2 dates. Talked about women a lot initially, but now rarely does. Always tells me either this or that made him think of me and he is always looking for things for us to do together. Signed us up for a century ride, couple mud runs and now a Spartan race. And the clincher, I booked a hotel room with two beds so we could drive down early on one of our triathlons. At the last minute a 3rd guy also doing the tri joined us (I know he is definitely straight). I grabbed one of the beds and went to bed first. In the middle of the night I roll over and guess who is in bed with me. Yeah. He could have gotten in bed with the straight guy, but instead gets into bed with the gay guy. By the way, he knows I'm gay and interested in him. Every so often I tell him I think you're gay, but he insists he's not. I really enjoy being his bud, but then he'll buy me a little gift or do something that makes it obvious he's thinking of me, and I think fuck I want more. Not sure how to convince him he wants more too.