Do i get all the benefits of being on RJ ?

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    Sep 04, 2011 12:29 AM GMT
    Well i dont whine or something ... i love this site so much .. talking to new ppl .. get ignored by others ... however i miss the most important thing... which is i cant meet those ppl in real life ... not as a date Since its not a dating site .. just meet as friends and hang out ..you know that exactly 2 Profiles r active on this site from my country ...

    What do u think lol ?
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    Sep 04, 2011 1:23 AM GMT
    Orlando has (or at some point had) the highest number of RJ members per capita and after 4 years of membership here I've seen 2.
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    Sep 04, 2011 1:25 AM GMT
    I have to travel to get my meet RJers fix. NY RJ Meetup part three here I come! Only 2800 miles away! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 1:30 AM GMT
    Well I've only been a member for a week but i managed to meet one guy for dinner and talked to one on the phone who doesn't live here. It has been really nice. I love this site and the people on it.
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    Sep 04, 2011 1:31 AM GMT
    So few of these biotches want to actually do anything that's not virtual, your experience from half way around the world isn't that different from my experience with guys who live in the same town.icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 1:34 AM GMT
    The RJ crowd is an "online" crowd. The guys who would be most likely to meet you out are the ones who are rarely online. RJ is more of a blog site/chatboard and the guys who are more drawn to it are usually introverted. I've spoken with some cool guys in almost every state. But I wouldn't really fly to meet any guys, except for this one guy in Florida.
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    Sep 04, 2011 1:39 AM GMT
    Well ...but dont think its way easier to talk to someone inside ur country cuz it gonna be way easier to meet ? even tho its too far away .. ? even tho some others just ignore all other ppl that outside the country .. just cuz they r away .. and he cant meet them .. or hang out or w/e .. sometimes it disappoint me :/
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    Sep 04, 2011 1:40 AM GMT
    I've met a few and would be down to meet more.

    It's been nice.
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    Sep 04, 2011 1:40 AM GMT
    hairymusclejock saidWell I've only been a member for a week but i managed to meet one guy for dinner and talked to one on the phone who doesn't live here. It has been really nice. I love this site and the people on it.


    well congratz hehe .. thats am talking about ..
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    Sep 04, 2011 1:51 AM GMT
    i've met a handful, lots lately because of my flying benefits allowing me to come and go as I please.

    LA tomorrow woop woop!
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    Sep 04, 2011 1:57 AM GMT
    running11 saidi've met a handful, lots lately because of my flying benefits allowing me to come and go as I please.

    LA tomorrow woop woop!


    *envy* haha icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 2:01 AM GMT
    I haven't been able to log into the site as much as I would like to since I joined, but I've had a few pleasant conversations. There aren't many people in my immediate area either. I would have to drive into D.C. (an hour away) or something like that. Still, it's a nice virtual hang out when I can get here.

    I hope you find more people in your area. Good luck. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 2:05 AM GMT
    bhp91126 saidOrlando has (or at some point had) the highest number of RJ members per capita and after 4 years of membership here I've seen 2.


    WHAT?!?!?!? Seriously?! Yeeesh. I've only ever seen two, as well. Really, we have that many?

    Jesus, where are you guys?
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    Sep 04, 2011 2:05 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidI haven't been able to log into the site as much as I would like to since I joined, but I've had a few pleasant conversations. There aren't many people in my immediate area either. I would have to drive into D.C. (an hour away) or something like that. Still, it's a nice virtual hang out when I can get here.

    I hope you find more people in your area. Good luck. icon_smile.gif


    Yeah there is many gorgeous ppl in here and i have already met some .. which it makes me more passionate to meet them in flesh icon_smile.gif ...

    hehe about meeting someone from my area is going to be hard ... cuz the whole gay scene here is fucked up weee icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 2:08 AM GMT
    jprichva saidI feel kinda bad for you new guys.
    When we joined RJ years ago, every new guy was given a pony.


    And just about a year ago, we got our RJ gold cards upgraded to platinum with no yearly fee. icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 2:15 AM GMT
    I definitely didn't get a pony, although that would explain the mess in my living room. icon_wink.gif

    I did get some nice "welcome to the site" messages in the beginning. It's always good to know that there are some genuinely nice guys around here.

    I would like to have met more people, at least online. I have to put the blame on myself though. I haven't had the time or energy to write a good profile or to strike up a conversation with someone.
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    Sep 04, 2011 2:32 AM GMT
    bhp91126 saidOrlando has (or at some point had) the highest number of RJ members per capita and after 4 years of membership here I've seen 2.


    If you meet up with some of us at Come Out With Pride next month...you should see many more of us.
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    Sep 04, 2011 3:12 AM GMT
    MuscleComeBack said
    bhp91126 saidOrlando has (or at some point had) the highest number of RJ members per capita and after 4 years of membership here I've seen 2.


    WHAT?!?!?!? Seriously?! Yeeesh. I've only ever seen two, as well. Really, we have that many?

    Jesus, where are you guys?


    I'm working with my schedule for one or two of those dates. A handful of RJers have asked me if I go they are willing to travel to O-town. So hopefully I will be able to the meet them as well.
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    Sep 04, 2011 6:29 PM GMT
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    MuscleComeBack said
    bhp91126 saidOrlando has (or at some point had) the highest number of RJ members per capita and after 4 years of membership here I've seen 2.


    WHAT?!?!?!? Seriously?! Yeeesh. I've only ever seen two, as well. Really, we have that many?

    Jesus, where are you guys?


    I'm working with my schedule for one or two of those dates. A handful of RJers have asked me if I go they are willing to travel to O-town. So hopefully I will be able to the meet them as well.



    Thats great ...Maybe i could do same when i fly to US in a year or so
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    Sep 04, 2011 6:42 PM GMT
    I will be at Fiesta Cantina 6pm-9m and then at the Mayan for Hard Labor 10pm-??? if anyone wants to say hi or punch me.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 6:50 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidI will be at Fiesta Cantina 6pm-9m and then at the Mayan for Hard Labor 10pm-??? if anyone wants to say hi or punch me.icon_biggrin.gif


    Would love to say hi then punch ya in the nuts maybe icon_twisted.gif ... u makin' me jealous icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 7:02 PM GMT
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    Dallasfan824 saidI will be at Fiesta Cantina 6pm-9m and then at the Mayan for Hard Labor 10pm-??? if anyone wants to say hi or punch me.icon_biggrin.gif


    Would love to say hi then punch ya in the nuts maybe icon_twisted.gif ... u makin' me jealous icon_smile.gif


    dont be. The first half is a birthday thing for a coworker. The second part of my night I am going out alone.