I came out to one of my friends today

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    Sep 04, 2011 5:48 PM GMT
    So ive been talking to a few people on here and i really just wanted to say thank you. Before I came on this site, i really wasnt happy with who i was or being gay... After talking to a bunch of people on here I really have started to feel a lot better about myself and believe it or not, i got the courage up to tell one of my closest friends yesterday. I was just sitting in the car with her and I sort of blurted it out. I was terrified that her opinion of me would change and she wouldnt be as close with me. Anyways, she loves me more than ever. Im not sure if this was a curse or a blessing. She wants to talk to me about guys and she wants to take me "shopping" today. haha I love her so much and I really just wanted to post it here because I couldnt have done it without all of you. You guys helped me get up the courage to do it... Im going to gradually start telling my other friends and eventually my family. If anyone on here is worried about coming out, send me a message and ill do my best to give you some encouragement. It really was the best decision of my life. I was terrified up until the moment i told her. And now, I just dont give a crap anymore. haha its just like a breath of fresh air to know i can be myself around someone.

    Anyways, thanks to all of you!
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    Sep 04, 2011 5:50 PM GMT
    That's so nice to hear. Whenever I hear of someone struggling to come to terms with who they are whether it be gay, bi or pansexual, it breaks my heart. Never let others dictate how you should be. This is a great step you've taken to being happier and having a more fulfilling life. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 8:03 PM GMT
    AlwaysDreaming11 saidThat's so nice to hear. Whenever I hear of someone struggling to come to terms with who they are whether it be gay, bi or pansexual, it breaks my heart. Never let others dictate how you should be. This is a great step you've taken to being happier and having a more fulfilling life. icon_smile.gif


    Thanks Man, yeah i couldnt have done it without all the encouragement from the guys here icon_biggrin.gif