Where are all the masc, goodlooking guys at?!?

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    Sep 04, 2011 8:40 PM GMT
    I dont know if anyone else has had this problem, but where are all the masc guys hiding at. It seems like all that I can find are the feminine type. I would just like to find a guy that could sit on the couch all day saturday and watch college football with me or be able to go out to a sports bar and watch a game with all my buddies and actually know whats going on.

    I really dont have a "gay"dar so I can never tell if someone is gay or not and I dont do the whole going to the gay club either. Anyone have any advice to where they have met other masc, sports-minded guys?
  • mizu5

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    Sep 04, 2011 10:48 PM GMT
    Lol, where are all the guyswho don't assume that being more feminine means your don't get or enjoy sports.
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    Sep 04, 2011 10:51 PM GMT
    Sounds like I will never fit your version of the perfect guy. Oh, I'm masculine, and fit most of your stated criteria- but I am too busy playing sports to watch them. Today somebody suggested CFL (Canadian football league) rules to end off a football game. I had to ask another guy what the hell that meant.

    I will never be "Somebody who can "watch a game with all (your) buddies and know what is actually going on." It sounds like your definition of what is masculine is fairly narrow... just know the rules for professional sports and watch them...
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    Sep 04, 2011 10:51 PM GMT
    what banneduru is trying to say but can't find the polite way to say it is:

    It's lame making masc/fem the first priority in finding friends. It shouldn't matter all that much unless you've already met your quota for fem guys and would like a change.

    It's also unrealistic to think of guys as "masc" as everyone has traits that are masculine and feminine. There are no true marlboro men.

    Since you're new to the site you wouldn't know it but there are heated debates always going on about masculine guys and feminine guys, some saying feminine guys are less than, others calling the first group self-loathing homophobes for hating femmes just like society tells them to.

    Welcome to the forum!
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    Sep 04, 2011 10:52 PM GMT
    CHILL MASC STRAIGHTACTIN TINACTIN BRO NO HOMO BRO DOWN TO EARTH CHILLY SILLY WILLY WITH MY BILLY NO HOMOZILLY UP IN PHILLY THREADZILLY GUYYYYZZZ!!!!!!111!!!one!!11!!!one!!!
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    Sep 04, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
    bla bla bla

    Life is going to be very unsatisfying for you!
  • mizu5

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    Sep 04, 2011 11:14 PM GMT
    Banneduru said
    Ariodante said
    CHILL MASC STRAIGHTACTIN TINACTIN BRO NO HOMO BRO DOWN TO EARTH CHILLY SILLY WILLY WITH MY BILLY NO HOMOZILLY UP IN PHILLY THREADZILLY GUYYYYZZZ!!!!!!111!!!one!!11!!!one!!!
    lmfao i died
    I am continuing to die
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    Sep 04, 2011 11:47 PM GMT
    Whats with guys who want the masc type guys? Seriously...we are all gay we all like the same thing, why do some guys have this issue with masc or feminine guys. We are already discriminated against and we have this crap within our own community. Most guys, if they are feminine cant help it, just like they can't help there sexuality. Its so annoying...icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 11:52 PM GMT
    lilmonsterxx saidWhats with guys who want the masc type guys? Seriously...we are all gay we all like the same thing, why do some guys have this issue with masc or feminine guys.


    Internalized self-loathing coupled with a burning desire to belong to heteronormative male culture. "Nah dude I ain't into any of that fag shit I'm just a normal masc dude bro like any normal masc dude bro EXCEPT I LIKE TO GET MY ASS PENETRATED BY AN ERECT PENIS but other than that I ain't into no pussy ass shit".
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    Sep 05, 2011 12:10 AM GMT
    lilmonsterxx saidWhats with guys who want the masc type guys? Seriously...we are all gay we all like the same thing, why do some guys have this issue with masc or feminine guys. We are already discriminated against and we have this crap within our own community. Most guys, if they are feminine cant help it, just like they can't help there sexuality. Its so annoying...icon_rolleyes.gif

    Who said it's an issue? What you prefer is your own business as long as you treat everyone with respect. If you prefer red-headed guys between 6'2" and 6'4", that's your own business and you don't need to apologize for it.
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    Sep 05, 2011 12:12 AM GMT
    OMG!....more unrealistic whining from a 20 something about "where are all the good guys..just like me?"must we do all the work for your generation? Go find him yourself, I bet he is on this site, but probably wrote your cute ass off as a high maintenance whiner not interested in doing the work or working the plan....nice way to introduce yourself to the most likely site on the web for you to score this ubber straight acting sports minded gay man.. try a new tactic...icon_rolleyes.gificon_lol.gif
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    Sep 05, 2011 12:23 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidNice welcome guys...hope you all feel better.
    He obviously did not searching, and Realjock is not a difficult forum to search on. He clearly doesn't mind sounding redundant, and didn't post in the proper place.

    Yes, welcome.
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    Sep 05, 2011 12:26 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidNice welcome guys...hope you all feel better.

    With the shit I see you posting on RJ you don't have any right to try and put others in there place.
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    Sep 05, 2011 1:37 AM GMT
    Hey Hornsfootball11, welcome to RJ (though we see you've been here since May), and try a few gay sports groups where you live.

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    Sep 05, 2011 1:45 AM GMT
    Sit on the couch all day on Saturday?

    Eeeh sorry buddy but I have to get groceries and sweep the floor and wash my dishes and do my laundry, cause despite being a totally chill masc str8 actin bro dude I still have to feminize myself every Saturday doing all these womanly chores icon_evil.gif

    But all joking aside, watching football all Saturday? You must be sooo fucking boring, I don't think your ideal masc str8 acting sporty dude is gonna be down for that. I sure as hell wouldn't. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 05, 2011 1:51 AM GMT
    OMG you hit the #1 nerve in all of RJers. How dare you ask that kind of questions?!

    I'll tell you where they're all at. They're watching chick flicks with their girlfriends, OK? They are doing it as a cover up for their homosexuality. In fact, they are probably the one who suggested to their girlfriends that they want to go to watch the chick flicks.

    Then they go to their fellow "straight" buddies and complained how much they hated those films.

    Ta-da!!
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    Sep 05, 2011 1:53 AM GMT
    Tazo995 saidSit on the couch all day on Saturday?

    Eeeh sorry buddy but I have to get groceries and sweep the floor and wash my dishes and do my laundry, cause despite being a totally chill masc str8 actin bro dude I still have to feminize myself every Saturday doing all these womanly chores icon_evil.gif

    But all joking aside, watching football all Saturday? You must be sooo fucking boring, I don't think your ideal masc str8 acting sporty dude is gonna be down for that. I sure as hell wouldn't. icon_wink.gif


    I think if you read this poor guy's profile he was using the example of the couch as a figure of speech-

    to all intents and purposes he is an incredibly active guy into playing and watching sport

    welcome to RJ mate - just be careful of all those waiting to move in on you if they detect a chink - no matter how small...
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    Sep 05, 2011 1:58 AM GMT
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    ozmuscle2 saidwelcome to RJ mate - just be careful of all those waiting to move in on you if they detect a chink - no matter how small...
    thats-racist.gif

    you're really funny.

    or stupid
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    Sep 05, 2011 1:59 AM GMT
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    ROTFLMAO...The KFC bucket is just floating there!! And the kid's spitting out watermelon xDDD
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    Sep 05, 2011 2:04 AM GMT
    Uh-oh. Here comes the shitstorm.
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    Sep 05, 2011 2:06 AM GMT
    socalfitness said
    lilmonsterxx saidWhats with guys who want the masc type guys? Seriously...we are all gay we all like the same thing, why do some guys have this issue with masc or feminine guys. We are already discriminated against and we have this crap within our own community. Most guys, if they are feminine cant help it, just like they can't help there sexuality. Its so annoying...icon_rolleyes.gif

    Who said it's an issue? What you prefer is your own business as long as you treat everyone with respect. If you prefer red-headed guys between 6'2" and 6'4", that's your own business and you don't need to apologize for it.



    Its an issue. Its all I ever see now within the gay community. "I only like gay guys who like sports and act like a straight dude." So just because people who don't like sports and have feminine tendencies but have an awesome personalty and could treat you right, you won't even give them a chance??? Its what they prefer, sure...but not giving someone a chance because their not a douche bag and enjoy sports is just wrong in my opinion.
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    Sep 05, 2011 2:09 AM GMT
    lilmonsterxx said
    socalfitness said
    lilmonsterxx saidWhats with guys who want the masc type guys? Seriously...we are all gay we all like the same thing, why do some guys have this issue with masc or feminine guys. We are already discriminated against and we have this crap within our own community. Most guys, if they are feminine cant help it, just like they can't help there sexuality. Its so annoying...icon_rolleyes.gif

    Who said it's an issue? What you prefer is your own business as long as you treat everyone with respect. If you prefer red-headed guys between 6'2" and 6'4", that's your own business and you don't need to apologize for it.



    Its an issue. Its all I ever see now within the gay community. "I only like gay guys who like sports and act like a straight dude." So just because people who don't like sports and have feminine tendencies but have an awesome personalty and could treat you right, you won't even give them a chance??? Its what they prefer, sure...but not giving someone a chance because their not a douche bag and enjoy sports is just wrong in my opinion.


    Its not a matter of liking sports. We get it a lot of straight guys like sports, but Im a total nerd who doesnt like a lot of sports and I do just fine in this community.
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    Sep 05, 2011 2:09 AM GMT
    lilmonsterxx said
    socalfitness said
    lilmonsterxx saidWhats with guys who want the masc type guys? Seriously...we are all gay we all like the same thing, why do some guys have this issue with masc or feminine guys. We are already discriminated against and we have this crap within our own community. Most guys, if they are feminine cant help it, just like they can't help there sexuality. Its so annoying...icon_rolleyes.gif

    Who said it's an issue? What you prefer is your own business as long as you treat everyone with respect. If you prefer red-headed guys between 6'2" and 6'4", that's your own business and you don't need to apologize for it.



    Its an issue. Its all I ever see now within the gay community. "I only like gay guys who like sports and act like a straight dude." So just because people who don't like sports and have feminine tendencies but have an awesome personalty and could treat you right, you won't even give them a chance??? Its what they prefer, sure...but not giving someone a chance because their not a douche bag and enjoy sports is just wrong in my opinion.


    At the same time dude...you cant have a successful relationship with somebody who is opposite and TOO different. I have quite a few fem friends but we are on different wavelengths and there is NO sexual attraction. People are entitled to be attracted to what they are attracted to dude.
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    Sep 05, 2011 2:11 AM GMT
    agri_sci said
    lilmonsterxx said
    socalfitness said
    lilmonsterxx saidWhats with guys who want the masc type guys? Seriously...we are all gay we all like the same thing, why do some guys have this issue with masc or feminine guys. We are already discriminated against and we have this crap within our own community. Most guys, if they are feminine cant help it, just like they can't help there sexuality. Its so annoying...icon_rolleyes.gif

    Who said it's an issue? What you prefer is your own business as long as you treat everyone with respect. If you prefer red-headed guys between 6'2" and 6'4", that's your own business and you don't need to apologize for it.



    Its an issue. Its all I ever see now within the gay community. "I only like gay guys who like sports and act like a straight dude." So just because people who don't like sports and have feminine tendencies but have an awesome personalty and could treat you right, you won't even give them a chance??? Its what they prefer, sure...but not giving someone a chance because their not a douche bag and enjoy sports is just wrong in my opinion.


    At the same time dude...you cant have a successful relationship with somebody who is opposite and TOO different. I have quite a few fem friends but we are on different wavelengths and there is NO sexual attraction. People are entitled to be attracted to what they are attracted to dude.


    I feel like opposites attract, Im attracted to people with different opinions than me and so forth.
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    Sep 05, 2011 2:13 AM GMT
    Your personal preferences are an issue when you post them on a public online forum and you are accountable for them. You're not ruminating your thoughts here, you're presenting them as a platform implicitly for debate (don't think you are? that's what message boards are for). Don't want your personal preferences picked apart? STFU and don't post them online for the public to read.