bi curious. would you experiment with a girl?

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    Sep 04, 2011 9:54 PM GMT
    I've accepted that I'm gay and have only ever had sex with guys before but lately i've wanted to experiment with a girl. I do find muscle guys hotter but occasionally do enjoy watching straight porn. I recently met this hot girl through a friend and we hit it off really well. actually ended up kissing yesterday. She definitely wants more and i would like to try it but I'm unsure of how to go about telling her about my sexuality or even if i should at this stage. Its more than a one night stand since she's a friend's friend and i don't want to spoil anything if things don't work out with her. Would love to hear your thoughts on what you would do in this situation.
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    Sep 04, 2011 9:57 PM GMT
    Tell her your gay, it'd be really mean not to.

    But then tell her you want you're curious about being with a girl

    I really think honesty is the best policy here

    Chances are if she thinks youre hot and gay and offering no strings sex, she may jump at the opportunity, I know my friend did icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 04, 2011 10:02 PM GMT
    RHUK saidTell her your gay, it'd be really mean not to.

    But then tell her you want you're curious about being with a girl

    I really think honesty is the best policy here

    Chances are if she thinks youre hot and gay and offering no strings sex, she may jump at the opportunity, I know my friend did icon_wink.gif


    That's probably the right way to go about it. I just don't want her to find out anything about the friend that introduced me to her. he's not out and we hangout a lot. We play it off as gym buddies.
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    Sep 04, 2011 10:35 PM GMT
    Just be honest with her about your sexuality and that you find men more sexually attractive than women and that you are bi-curious. In the end, in most cases, sex is just sex and if you didn't know any better and were, say, blindfolded, I doubt that you could tell the difference about who is rubbing your genitals.

    And if the opportunity did arise that a hot girl wanted to try me out, I probably would take the chance just to say I did it, you know?

    BTW-It's good to see that other predominately gay men on here get or are bi-curious.

    Be well.
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    Sep 05, 2011 6:02 PM GMT
    Be totally honest with her. She will probably be turned on, and want you to fuck her anyway. And careful with the ladies though bro, it can get emotionally complicated, and what if she starts coming around for more? All the more reason to be up front.
    I have had relationships with women, and they all got more emotionally attached after sex. Cultural conditioning, hormones, whatever...the result was still the same. Honesty is the best policy.
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    Sep 05, 2011 6:04 PM GMT
    Well i enjoy Straight porn but i still stare on the guy not on the girl icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 05, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    Thanks for the input guys. I backed off a little yesterday and didn't end up seeing her. Will hangout again this week and figure out how to tell her.