Do you find shyness attractive, sexy, or annoying, etc?

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    Sep 06, 2011 9:44 AM GMT
    Hi all,
    Just wondering if you find a shy guy attractive or just annoying? I'm usually shy when I meet new people, but tend to open up more after a while. I also get shy around hot guys, LOL!

    If too many find it annoying, I guess I need to work on getting rid of it, heh.
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    Sep 06, 2011 10:00 AM GMT
    It depends on the guy and my interest.

    Guys I like it's cute for a little while, but they'll need to get comfortable and open up.

    Guys I'm just talking too it's irritating as hell, it's just a conversation, calm down, relax, enjoy the conversation.
  • petermalaka

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    Sep 06, 2011 10:54 AM GMT
    im shy at first icon_razz.gif
  • paduk

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    Sep 06, 2011 11:29 AM GMT
    If it is not a pathological shyness, I am sucker for it.
    I love when guys get a bit shy and clumsy icon_biggrin.gif

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    Sep 06, 2011 11:42 AM GMT
    Being shy at first is fine (I'm like that) but if they can't or won't break out of it after getting to know them then yes it gets very annoying.
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    Sep 06, 2011 11:56 AM GMT
    Nothing wrong with being shy
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    Sep 06, 2011 12:01 PM GMT
    It's cute to a degree then it just becomes annoying and very unattractive.
  • suedeheadscot

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    Sep 06, 2011 12:10 PM GMT
    My partner and I broke up, partly because of his shyness (among other things) - it just made social situations with friends really awkward. As The Smiths sang, "shyness is nice but shyness can stop you from doing all the things in life you'd like to".

    (If any RJrs know the song get to the front of the queue)...

    ANYWAY....I find shyness can be nice to a certain level then it just gets bloody irritating if you're struggling for conversation a lot. One RJ bloke on here kept instant messaging me and then being really silent, shy and awkward.

    On another note, I don't like over-self confident people either!!
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    Sep 06, 2011 12:18 PM GMT
    Shyness is cute up to a point. It becomes annoying after a while because it presents yet another obstacle before getting the guy. Admittedly, I'm quite shy upon meeting a guy I find attractive.
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    Sep 06, 2011 12:24 PM GMT
    I'm too shy to respond to this thread. icon_redface.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Sep 06, 2011 12:36 PM GMT
    It can be an attractive trait, but sometimes it can flip flop and can absolutely be something that holds the guy back from real successes in life.
    Sometimes shyness only affects certain aspects, like dating, but the guy may be a bulldog when it comes to business.
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    Sep 06, 2011 1:12 PM GMT
    As long as they aren't shy in the bedroom it's a very endearing trait icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 06, 2011 1:18 PM GMT
    shy can be cute but confidence just makes me melt
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    Sep 06, 2011 2:04 PM GMT
    I think shy guys are sexy- just hate when someone can't build up the nerve to approach you because of being shy... and then you're shy too...

    There's something very modest about shyness in a way, as long as its not like, extremely shy...
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    Sep 06, 2011 2:07 PM GMT
    I think shy is adorable. Especially if its someone one is interested in. It just shows innocence which I find extremely sexy. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 06, 2011 2:21 PM GMT
    Shyness is annoying when they send you pics of their entire naked body and then refuse to pick up the phone cos "they're shy". Its a game and childish.
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    Sep 06, 2011 2:26 PM GMT
    I'm VERY shy....but not inhibited......think about it. icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 06, 2011 5:53 PM GMT
    Depends on the guys age. Shy guys in their late teens and twenties is cute. Shy guys in their thirties and upwards would be annoying. You should have developed some level of confidence by then.
  • Lincsbear

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    Sep 06, 2011 5:54 PM GMT
    To a point it`s sexy and attractive.
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    Sep 07, 2011 12:57 AM GMT
    I'm too much of a freak to be considered shy icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 07, 2011 12:59 AM GMT
    i am shy n i kinda feel its annoying lol ... especially a shy top with me :/
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    Sep 07, 2011 1:02 AM GMT
    mayBbignow2 saidSome people arent people persons- its called introvert.


    Actually no, it's not.

    Anyway shyness is cute for a while, then it starts to get annoying.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Sep 07, 2011 1:04 AM GMT
    I'm shy. I hate myself for it.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Sep 07, 2011 1:06 AM GMT
    OK, I'm only shy at first
  • barriehomeboy

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    Sep 07, 2011 1:06 AM GMT
    then I get my whip out.