I HATE IT WHEN

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    Sep 06, 2011 5:07 PM GMT
    I really pisses me off when i hit someone up just with the intention of trying to be friends and they automatically think i want a relationship with them. Its really annoying!! and then they get mad when i say i was just looking for friends. of all the gay people Ive spoken to in my life Ive always noticed this Bitch womanly trait of love expectancy and dependence. is there anyone who isnt on here just for relationships or that love crap icon_neutral.gif

    i mean i don't mind falling in love or being attracted to someone but if it happens it happens but don't ignore my message just cause u think Im hitting up to make you fall for me or get mad and stop talking to me cause i don't want a relationship with you.

    Its this sort of thing that keep stereotypes aflame that Gays are so much like women which is not true at all.

    but as a Bisexual i will say that sometimes Fags really do piss me off and need to Grow a pair SMH
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    Sep 06, 2011 5:09 PM GMT
    bluedepth saidI really pisses me off when i hit someone up just with the intention of trying to be friends and they automatically think i want a relationship with them. Its really annoying!! and then they get mad when i say i was just looking for friends. of all the gay people Ive spoken to in my life Ive always noticed this Bitch womanly trait of love expectancy and dependence. is there anyone who isnt on here just for relationships or that love crap icon_neutral.gif


    You and me both, brother.
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    Sep 06, 2011 7:28 PM GMT
    me. i don't want to know people that much, a minute and a half is pushing it.
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    bluedepth saidI really pisses me off when i hit someone up just with the intention of trying to be friends and they automatically think i want a relationship with them. Its really annoying!! and then they get mad when i say i was just looking for friends. of all the gay people Ive spoken to in my life Ive always noticed this Bitch womanly trait of love expectancy and dependence. is there anyone who isnt on here just for relationships or that love crap icon_neutral.gif

    i mean i don't mind falling in love or being attracted to someone but if it happens it happens but don't ignore my message just cause u think Im hitting up to make you fall for me or get mad and stop talking to me cause i don't want a relationship with you.

    Its this sort of thing that keep stereotypes aflame that Gays are so much like women which is not true at all.

    but as a Bisexual i will say that sometimes Fags really do piss me off and need to Grow a pair SMH


    Welcome to the club.
  • dancedancekj

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    Sep 06, 2011 8:32 PM GMT
    bluedepth saidI really pisses me off when i hit someone up just with the intention of trying to be friends and they automatically think i want a relationship with them. Its really annoying!! and then they get mad when i say i was just looking for friends. of all the gay people Ive spoken to in my life Ive always noticed this Bitch womanly trait of love expectancy and dependence. is there anyone who isnt on here just for relationships or that love crap icon_neutral.gif

    i mean i don't mind falling in love or being attracted to someone but if it happens it happens but don't ignore my message just cause u think Im hitting up to make you fall for me or get mad and stop talking to me cause i don't want a relationship with you.

    Its this sort of thing that keep stereotypes aflame that Gays are so much like women which is not true at all.

    but as a Bisexual i will say that sometimes Fags really do piss me off and need to Grow a pair SMH


    I'm pretty sure that you could have found a way to say this without being a chauvinist, simultaneously demeaning and marginalizing women and homosexual men.
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:49 PM GMT
    I hate it when I am trying out new dress shirts and I forget to remove one or more pins and lacerate myself when putting the shirt on ...

    And I especially hate it when I walk thru mine field, and some hidden explosives mangulate my legs. Who keeps messing with mine field ...? Clearly it is mine, since that is what the sign at the beginning of the field says: "CAUTION - MINE FIELD!"



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    Sep 06, 2011 8:51 PM GMT
    alphatrigger said
    And I especially hate it when I walk thru mine field, and some hidden explosives mangulate my legs. Who keeps messing with mine field ...? Clearly it is mine, since that is what the sign at the beginning of
    the field says: "CAUTION - MINE FIELD!"


    Pun intended?
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:58 PM GMT
    bluedepth saidI really pisses me off when i hit someone up just with the intention of trying to be friends and they automatically think i want a relationship with them. Its really annoying!! and then they get mad when i say i was just looking for friends. of all the gay people Ive spoken to in my life Ive always noticed this Bitch womanly trait of love expectancy and dependence. is there anyone who isnt on here just for relationships or that love crap icon_neutral.gif

    i mean i don't mind falling in love or being attracted to someone but if it happens it happens but don't ignore my message just cause u think Im hitting up to make you fall for me or get mad and stop talking to me cause i don't want a relationship with you.

    Its this sort of thing that keep stereotypes aflame that Gays are so much like women which is not true at all.

    but as a Bisexual i will say that sometimes Fags really do piss me off and need to Grow a pair SMH
    I agree with you on this because i am here for friends but people assume otherwise
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    Sep 06, 2011 9:08 PM GMT
    dancedancekj said
    bluedepth saidI really pisses me off when i hit someone up just with the intention of trying to be friends and they automatically think i want a relationship with them. Its really annoying!! and then they get mad when i say i was just looking for friends. of all the gay people Ive spoken to in my life Ive always noticed this Bitch womanly trait of love expectancy and dependence. is there anyone who isnt on here just for relationships or that love crap icon_neutral.gif

    i mean i don't mind falling in love or being attracted to someone but if it happens it happens but don't ignore my message just cause u think Im hitting up to make you fall for me or get mad and stop talking to me cause i don't want a relationship with you.

    Its this sort of thing that keep stereotypes aflame that Gays are so much like women which is not true at all.

    but as a Bisexual i will say that sometimes Fags really do piss me off and need to Grow a pair SMH


    I'm pretty sure that you could have found a way to say this without being a chauvinist, simultaneously demeaning and marginalizing women and homosexual men.


    because they choose to be...well the ones ive met
  • barriehomeboy

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    Sep 06, 2011 11:59 PM GMT
    I'm the same way when they think I'm just looking for a quick fuck, and they look like my next husband. Well, not that I'm a serial husband kinda guy. Just, THE GUY, you know what I mean.
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    Sep 07, 2011 2:41 AM GMT
    bluedepth saidI really pisses me off when i hit someone up just with the intention of trying to be friends and they automatically think i want a relationship with them. Its really annoying!! and then they get mad when i say i was just looking for friends. of all the gay people Ive spoken to in my life Ive always noticed this Bitch womanly trait of love expectancy and dependence. is there anyone who isnt on here just for relationships or that love crap icon_neutral.gif

    i mean i don't mind falling in love or being attracted to someone but if it happens it happens but don't ignore my message just cause u think Im hitting up to make you fall for me or get mad and stop talking to me cause i don't want a relationship with you.

    Its this sort of thing that keep stereotypes aflame that Gays are so much like women which is not true at all.

    but as a Bisexual i will say that sometimes Fags really do piss me off and need to Grow a pair SMH


    I think part of the problem is the general dishonesty people have when they state what they're looking for. Always "just friends", which isn't true, it's what they want to have out there in case an ugly guy hits on them, and even then they don't intend to be his friend. So we start having to translate "just friends" to "want sex or date with hot guy", and things get confusing when a person who actually says words for their literal meaning approaches them.

    Didn't enjoy your use of the word "fag" by the way.
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    Sep 07, 2011 2:57 AM GMT
    On a similar note, I don't like it when guys pretend to agree with you on being just friends, but really have an agenda to get in your pants.
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    Sep 07, 2011 2:58 AM GMT
    I hate it when a guy doesn't get the door
    even though I told him yesterday and the day before
    I hate it when a guy doesn't get the tab
    And I have to pull my money out and that looks bad

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    Sep 07, 2011 3:12 AM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    bluedepth saidI really pisses me off when i hit someone up just with the intention of trying to be friends and they automatically think i want a relationship with them. Its really annoying!! and then they get mad when i say i was just looking for friends. of all the gay people Ive spoken to in my life Ive always noticed this Bitch womanly trait of love expectancy and dependence. is there anyone who isnt on here just for relationships or that love crap icon_neutral.gif

    i mean i don't mind falling in love or being attracted to someone but if it happens it happens but don't ignore my message just cause u think Im hitting up to make you fall for me or get mad and stop talking to me cause i don't want a relationship with you.

    Its this sort of thing that keep stereotypes aflame that Gays are so much like women which is not true at all.

    but as a Bisexual i will say that sometimes Fags really do piss me off and need to Grow a pair SMH


    I think part of the problem is the general dishonesty people have when they state what they're looking for. Always "just friends", which isn't true, it's what they want to have out there in case an ugly guy hits on them, and even then they don't intend to be his friend. So we start having to translate "just friends" to "want sex or date with hot guy", and things get confusing when a person who actually says words for their literal meaning approaches them.

    Didn't enjoy your use of the word "fag" by the way.


    I agree. Though I'll never have this problem, but I'm pretty sure the more attractive guys have had to deal with a lot of situations where guys approach them to be friends, only to want more than friendship out of their relationship. You can't blame them for putting up a wall.

    There was a recent thread about a guy looking for friends. But if you read his post, it didn't look like he was seeking friendship. The way he was describing the activities he and his new friends can engage in, he came across as someone who wanted to knock boots with his new pals.

    Sometimes people are not even honest to themselves about their true intentions.
  • dancedancekj

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    Sep 07, 2011 3:15 AM GMT
    bluedepth said
    dancedancekj said
    bluedepth saidI really pisses me off when i hit someone up just with the intention of trying to be friends and they automatically think i want a relationship with them. Its really annoying!! and then they get mad when i say i was just looking for friends. of all the gay people Ive spoken to in my life Ive always noticed this Bitch womanly trait of love expectancy and dependence. is there anyone who isnt on here just for relationships or that love crap icon_neutral.gif

    i mean i don't mind falling in love or being attracted to someone but if it happens it happens but don't ignore my message just cause u think Im hitting up to make you fall for me or get mad and stop talking to me cause i don't want a relationship with you.

    Its this sort of thing that keep stereotypes aflame that Gays are so much like women which is not true at all.

    but as a Bisexual i will say that sometimes Fags really do piss me off and need to Grow a pair SMH


    I'm pretty sure that you could have found a way to say this without being a chauvinist, simultaneously demeaning and marginalizing women and homosexual men.


    because they choose to be...well the ones ive met


    I meant you were being chauvinistic by treating feminine traits as undesirable and weak.
    I meant that you were being demeaning towards homosexuals with your use of the word fags.
    I meant that you were demeaning women by first of all, stereotyping them, and then calling those stereotypes to be problematic, and inferior to male stereotypes (grow a pair, womanly traits of love expectancy and dependence).

    Please educate yourself on these matters, it will serve you well.
  • dancedancekj

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    Sep 07, 2011 3:21 AM GMT
    Yes, the poor attractive individuals who are constantly being hounded by these hordes of people who are feigning that they want to be friends, but all they want to do is jump your bones...

    It's not an issue unless you make it one (i.e. methinks the lady doth protest too much). For me, it is a simple matter of misunderstanding. A firm but gentle clarification of my feelings on the matter works quite well.

    It is a misconception that we are crystal clear in our actions, words, and social cues to others. If it were easy to tell, nobody would ever spend time worrying about whether somebody else liked them or not, which is as old as the story of time.

    The fact is, we are as ambiguous to others as they are to us. While we assume that everyone else is an open book (Oh, that's how dad ALWAYS is. I knew that is what she would do, she is so predictable) and that we ourselves are mysterious and full of enigma and that no one truly knows us or is as unique... the truth lies somewhere in the middle.

    Chances are, there are not hordes of people who want to be friends and then are trying to commit relationship faux pas. And even if there are several cases in which this happens, a mature individual wouldn't let it bother them. He or she would be flattered, but then would move on, and would not let it affect him or her, nor their relationships with others.
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    Sep 07, 2011 6:39 AM GMT
    dancedancekj said
    bluedepth said
    dancedancekj said
    bluedepth saidI really pisses me off when i hit someone up just with the intention of trying to be friends and they automatically think i want a relationship with them. Its really annoying!! and then they get mad when i say i was just looking for friends. of all the gay people Ive spoken to in my life Ive always noticed this Bitch womanly trait of love expectancy and dependence. is there anyone who isnt on here just for relationships or that love crap icon_neutral.gif

    i mean i don't mind falling in love or being attracted to someone but if it happens it happens but don't ignore my message just cause u think Im hitting up to make you fall for me or get mad and stop talking to me cause i don't want a relationship with you.

    Its this sort of thing that keep stereotypes aflame that Gays are so much like women which is not true at all.

    but as a Bisexual i will say that sometimes Fags really do piss me off and need to Grow a pair SMH


    I'm pretty sure that you could have found a way to say this without being a chauvinist, simultaneously demeaning and marginalizing women and homosexual men.


    because they choose to be...well the ones ive met


    I meant you were being chauvinistic by treating feminine traits as undesirable and weak.
    I meant that you were being demeaning towards homosexuals with your use of the word fags.
    I meant that you were demeaning women by first of all, stereotyping them, and then calling those stereotypes to be problematic, and inferior to male stereotypes (grow a pair, womanly traits of love expectancy and dependence).

    Please educate yourself on these matters, it will serve you well.




    OHH NO! NOT ANOTHER WANNA BE GAY MARTYR/HERO!! SMH DUDE LEAVE THAT TO THE ONES WHO DIED FOR FAITH.....NOT COCK! icon_confused.gif