Did I loose my new member smell already?

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    Sep 06, 2011 7:50 PM GMT
    funny how you get slammed with messages when you join then they start slowly dying off lol at least the forums are still fun icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 06, 2011 7:56 PM GMT
    start randomly unlock your privates for people. that'll get their attentions again. then you relock them. you update with hotter pictures, then you go back and randomly unlock your privates again.

    I think it works.

    Feel free to try it on me.
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:02 PM GMT
    Yeah. It's kind of like when your cell phone or cable contract is up. The new offers are never as good as when you first signed up.
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:05 PM GMT
    hahaha all my private pics are clothed up ;) just here for friends.
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:11 PM GMT
    Sounds objectifying but if you want a steady stream of interest and messages you need to market yourself (if that's what you want). Become a relevant, engaging poster or constantly update your pictures, or both.
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:15 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidSounds objectifying but if you want a steady stream of interest and messages you need to market yourself (if that's what you want). Become a relevant, engaging poster or constantly update your pictures, or both.


    Ariodante I think you know that I've been quite active in the forums. I actually really like engaging with people on there. I was just wondering if there's genuine interest of people on here in making friends even if geographically it would be impossible to ever meet. Obviously keeping engaged does take a lot of effort.
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:17 PM GMT
    hairymusclejock saidhahaha all my private pics are clothed up ;) just here for friends.

    I am still waiting for that unlock
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:18 PM GMT
    waimea said
    hairymusclejock saidhahaha all my private pics are clothed up ;) just here for friends.

    I am still waiting for that unlock


    ROFL ok but would be nice to see who i'm unlocking for too icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:19 PM GMT
    OK a real piece of advice. It's fine to market yourself like Ario said, but don't post TOO much either. Sometimes you see a few guys here that literally have something to say about every single subject. After a while it's like, "oh, it's you again." Not good either.

    You can always hit up the guys you feel who are interesting too. The RJ mail system works both ways.
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:22 PM GMT
    waimea saidOK a real piece of advice. It's fine to market yourself like Ario said, but don't post TOO much either. Sometimes you see a few guys here that literally have something to say about every single subject. After a while it's like, "oh, it's you again." Not good either.

    You can always hit up the guys you feel who are interesting too. The RJ mail system works both ways.


    Good point. I try to only post on topics of interest i have something genuine to share. But thanks for the input.
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:36 PM GMT
    hairymusclejock said
    Ariodante saidSounds objectifying but if you want a steady stream of interest and messages you need to market yourself (if that's what you want). Become a relevant, engaging poster or constantly update your pictures, or both.


    Ariodante I think you know that I've been quite active in the forums. I actually really like engaging with people on there. I was just wondering if there's genuine interest of people on here in making friends even if geographically it would be impossible to ever meet. Obviously keeping engaged does take a lot of effort.

    I think many people are interested in making friends, even if located at a distance. You many never see some, but with travel, there's no reason you couldn't meet with some. The kind of friends you meet I think is impacted by how you interact with the forum. My sense is if you post in areas related to your interests and get to know others with similar interests and you start to communicate a lot, you'll tend to get to know some guys. On the other hand, if you spend most of your time in light, extremely casual (for lack of a better term) discussions, the odds are less so. One other way would be to participate in threads to discuss meeting in your area,
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:41 PM GMT
    SOCALFITNESSOne other way would be to participate in threads to discuss meeting in your area,


    That would be cool. haven't seen any come up for Houston. What section are they normally posted under? Travel or group activities?
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:42 PM GMT
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    waimea saidSometimes you see a few guys here that literally have something to say about every single subject. After a while it's like, "oh, it's you again." Not good either.
    Yeah, kind of like me.

    You shut your mouth!! Actually, please don't. I love your posts.

    Just shut your mouth of what you said in this post!
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    Sep 06, 2011 8:50 PM GMT
    hairymusclejock said
    SOCALFITNESSOne other way would be to participate in threads to discuss meeting in your area,


    That would be cool. haven't seen any come up for Houston. What section are they normally posted under? Travel or group activities?

    Mostly here or in the group area. There was talk a while back about having regional folders. I'm on a sports car forum that does, and it works well, but there was not much of an interest here.

    Probably as many discussed meetings never happen, compared to happening. Guys in NY have met, but in So Calif, doesn't seem to happen, so probably hit or miss.
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    Sep 06, 2011 9:11 PM GMT
    Hairymusclejock, you'll be fine.
    Just keep posting, keep showing your face here you'll be okay. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 06, 2011 9:25 PM GMT
    spelling definitely helps
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    Sep 06, 2011 9:29 PM GMT
    Did you know that Realjock sends out weekly updates mail to everyone and in that mail are profiles of new members? That could very well have been the reason for the slamming. Anyways like what most people say, keep yourself relevant. Participate in forum discussions, comment on photos, or profiles, occasionally go to the chatroom and strike up a convo with the crowd. You'll keep getting messages that way.
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    Sep 06, 2011 9:30 PM GMT
    BangitUp saidDid you know that Realjock sends out weekly updates mail to everyone and in that mail are profiles of new members? That could very well have been the reason for the slamming. Anyways like what most people say, keep yourself relevant. Participate in forum discussions, comment on photos, or profiles, occasionally go to the chatroom and strike up a convo with the crowd. You'll keep getting messages that way.

    Speaking of which, I haven't received mine in weeks. WEEKS.
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    Sep 06, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    I just put up a few up to date pics of me and kabang... more emails...

    if this keeps up I will have to do MORE new pics icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 06, 2011 9:32 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidI just put up a few up to date pics of me and kabang... more emails...

    if this keeps up I will have to do MORE new pics icon_rolleyes.gif

    My fave is still the original default. Very tastefully done.
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    Sep 06, 2011 10:10 PM GMT
    waimea saidstart randomly unlock your privates for people. that'll get their attentions again. then you relock them. you update with hotter pictures, then you go back and randomly unlock your privates again.

    I think it works.

    Feel free to try it on me.


    waimea showed me his vagina last night. hot.
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    Sep 06, 2011 10:13 PM GMT
    dekiruman said
    waimea saidstart randomly unlock your privates for people. that'll get their attentions again. then you relock them. you update with hotter pictures, then you go back and randomly unlock your privates again.

    I think it works.

    Feel free to try it on me.


    waimea showed me his vagina last night. hot.


    That whore is showing it to everyone these days...
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    Sep 06, 2011 10:17 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    dekiruman said
    waimea saidstart randomly unlock your privates for people. that'll get their attentions again. then you relock them. you update with hotter pictures, then you go back and randomly unlock your privates again.

    I think it works.

    Feel free to try it on me.


    waimea showed me his vagina last night. hot.


    That whore is showing it to everyone these days...


    Shocked.gif

    You guys swore secrecy! I feel so betrayed now. icon_cry.gif
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    Sep 06, 2011 10:17 PM GMT
    mayBbignow2 saidFunny.... i never got any messages except one from Stewart- and replies from photo posts.


    Thats strange, your picture is oh so enticing...
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    Sep 06, 2011 10:19 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    mayBbignow2 saidFunny.... i never got any messages except one from Stewart- and replies from photo posts.


    Thats strange, your picture is oh so enticing...


    love your witty remarks Chainers!...hmm should i admit this?? hahaha