Can straight guy be a gay because of other gay guys?

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    May 11, 2008 9:01 AM GMT
    Sometimes I hear that some of my gay friends hit to straight guys. But they always says that they couldn't make it. How about you guys? Is there any people who changed your postion from straight to gay, because of otehr gay guys?(he can be your BF now )

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    May 11, 2008 10:10 AM GMT
    I personally don't bother hitting on straights, its disrespectful to everyone when you know there straight.

    I've had guys who claimed to be straight hit on me and I've had a few guys who where just curious and those who where just looking for a lay with a guy (straights who screwed guys occasionally)

    There are a lot of people who will take advantage of a guy who's had to much to drink too, which is really sorta seedy you don't get much but a terrible lay and then a freak out in the morning.

    But not a heterosexual guy wont turn gay because hes around other gay guys (we aren't contagious) those who do are curious/bi/gay or what ever.
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    May 11, 2008 2:46 PM GMT
    No, sexual orientation is not like religion, you cannot convert someone.
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    May 11, 2008 4:19 PM GMT
    No. There are only three times in life straight men will have sex with other men: When they are drunk and lack other options, when they are certain no one will find out, and when they are in prison.
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    May 11, 2008 5:58 PM GMT
    JustJohn saidNo. There are only three times in life straight men will have sex with other men: When they are drunk and lack other options, when they are certain no one will find out, and when they are in prison.



    Ummmm, there's a fourth. If it pays well enough.
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    May 11, 2008 6:01 PM GMT
    you forgot a fifth: when they're in the military! -EG-
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    May 11, 2008 6:12 PM GMT
    No no no no no no.

    He only claimed or perhaps he even believed he was 'straight' but clearly, if he's sucking cock and what not now, he is not nor was he 'straight'.

    One can define one's sexuality with words. But the words often don't match the emotions/actions/etc.
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    May 11, 2008 6:46 PM GMT
    Wonder I'm gay at thirty-fwhore.
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    May 11, 2008 6:47 PM GMT
    That would go under prison.

    growingmuschou saidyou forgot a fifth: when they're in the military! -EG-
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    May 11, 2008 8:19 PM GMT
    if a guy has tendencies that he's buried and ignored for fear of them (which most of the male population does), then yes, being friends with a gay guy, trusting him, and learning to grow comfortable with those feelings can bring them to light. but they would have to have been there all along. otherwise, no lol. can someone become albino if one has an albino friend? its genetic, not a contagious disease, and not a 'lifestyle choice.'
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    May 12, 2008 6:24 AM GMT
    growingmuschou saidyou forgot a fifth: when they're in the military! -EG-



    haha Well that was funny lol

    but I mean.. idk I just can't explain.. straight to gay...

    The reason why I'm asking this is that I have read the article about the guy.. He was totally straight guy, but one gay guy hit him so hard. and then this straight guy fell in love with him suddenly.. I don't know I just wondered;; lol

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    May 12, 2008 8:14 AM GMT
    Oh well...some times, I WISH. fuck no...there just gay closet pokers.
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    May 12, 2008 11:11 AM GMT
    No. But I've heard of instances though. Considering that most people are latent bisexuals, that may have been the case with 'conversions'. i.e. The guy was bisexual but didn't know it and was influenced to pursue the homosexual side of his bisexuality due to environment.

    However, like everyone else here if a guy says he's straight, I'm going to respect that.

    Except for muttskins, everyone knows he's gay. icon_lol.gif
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    May 12, 2008 11:15 AM GMT
    No, straight is straight. Gay is gay. The undecided, the gay for pay, the bi and the curious are all just gay. Guys who like women are straight. end of.
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    May 13, 2008 1:42 PM GMT
    I've been with guys who claim to be straight but just want to get off. They are always tops and they never kiss.

    I think they're disgusted with the games straight women play and just need some relief.

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    May 13, 2008 2:34 PM GMT
    A MAN CAN HAVE SEX WITH YOU. THEN HE NEVER WAS STRAIGHT AT ALL, HE WAS UNDEFINED, HE WAS A COWARD. AND AFTER TO HAVE SEX WITH A GAY MAN, HE IS GAY TOO!!! NO DISCUSSION AT ALL.
    THE SEXUALITY CANT CHANGE LIKE A CLOTHE, PLEASE!
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    May 13, 2008 2:37 PM GMT
    I hate the fact that some of these "straight" guys appear on gay sites and try to talk down to you. "My girlfriend is asleep, so come on over" BS. I have no use for them or their games.They are basically confused or stupid. Quit riding the fence.
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    May 13, 2008 3:06 PM GMT
    Sedative saidExcept for muttskins, everyone knows he's gay. icon_lol.gif

    Ahem... You know I'm reading this?! icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gificon_wink.gif
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    May 13, 2008 4:42 PM GMT
    When I was young I had experiences with Mates so called!
    But it was a one off thing that was never discussed or happened again.
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    May 13, 2008 5:23 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidNo, straight is straight. Gay is gay. The undecided, the gay for pay, the bi and the curious are all just gay. Guys who like women are straight. end of.


    MMMM. I think that's the problem with tags/labels...
    You can't divide people into four main races.
    You can't divide people into only two different political views (at least in the rest of the world)
    and so on...

    I think most people can be considered as mostly heterosexual or mostly gay, only a part of them can be considered EXTRICTLY straight or gay, but there's a quite wide gray area in between, to which many other people belong.

    I'm sure there are a lot of folks out there who claim to be straight, but wouldn't mind fucking a gay guy. The same goes for gay people: Many are just over-pigeonholed as gay and wouldn't mind having something with an opposite-sex person.

    But, as for "trying to turn" a straight guy into a gay, I think it's a little disrespectful with 'em. There's loads of hot guys out there willing to have sex with you, why focus on the ones that don't want to?
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    May 13, 2008 5:54 PM GMT
    Um, no. If a guy has sex with another guy, he is not straight, period. Bi maybe, closeted maybe, but not straight.
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    May 13, 2008 6:01 PM GMT
    jarhead5536 saidUm, no. If a guy has sex with another guy, he is not straight, period. Bi maybe, closeted maybe, but not straight.

    That's what I'm saying...
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    May 13, 2008 6:01 PM GMT
    jarhead5536 saidUm, no. If a guy has sex with another guy, he is not straight, period. Bi maybe, closeted maybe, but not straight.

    That's what I'm saying...
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    May 13, 2008 6:06 PM GMT
    The reason why I'm asking this is that I have read the article about the guy.. He was totally straight guy, but one gay guy hit him so hard. and then this straight guy fell in love with him suddenly.. I don't know I just wondered;; lol

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    Show the article because it sounds like what he is really saying is that up until he met this guy he fell in love with he was "living" a straight life ( which doesn't make a guy 100 percent straight. It's called closeted and fucking confused ) but after meeting the gay guy he stepped on over the line. Look, you can't turn a straight guy gay and contrary to belief you can't turn a gay guy straight. There are straight guys who will let you suck them off with no recip if that is your thing but I'd suggest staying away from those. I call them chicken or sheep fuckers. They will stick their cock in anything for release.
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    May 13, 2008 6:33 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidNo, straight is straight. Gay is gay. The undecided, the gay for pay, the bi and the curious are all just gay. Guys who like women are straight. end of.


    Do you all honestly believe it's this black and white? That there are only two clearly marked sexualities in the world?

    But then again, why define, label or better yet, limit yourself to one thing or the other. Why can't we all just be "sexual"?