How should I change my profile?

  • Musicman91

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    Sep 07, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    So I have been wondering how I should change my profile to be more........intriguing? I have messaged a few guys and not heard from any of them so I can only assume it's my profile lol. I know my picture is horrible but I look horrible in pictures to begin with haha. I look better in person and everyone tells me I look bad in pictures but a bit better in person. I don't have alot of pics on my computer so I have to get a recent one somehow.

    Also what should I say on my profile or in a message? Anything special to catch attention? I am just tired of being ignored and would like to be able to talk to a guy and have some friends on here because I don't have any gay friends in real life haha.

    Any suggestions are greatly appreciated icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 07, 2011 7:01 PM GMT
    You should use words like "ostentatious" or "uncouth" or "lugubrious" or "indubitably" for dramatic effect. icon_lol.gif

    Then people will think you are somewhat smart because you use odd words. Well, that's what some people think. I don't know why. They are just different words. They aren't any better than others. Ha!

    I happen to think that my profile is the best ever because it details exactly what I'm looking for as far as people who I want to meet. If people don't like that then they can kiss my booty... gently, though.

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    Or wait- you could just take a bunch of shirtless photos and photoshop them to look really good. Then you can get tons of hits from guys that are "interested in getting to know you."

    But we all know what THAT really means. icon_lol.gif
  • Musicman91

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    Sep 07, 2011 8:32 PM GMT
    Maybe I should photoshop some pics I am easily least attractive guy on the site. Maybe that would make people wanna respond. I have to upload a new pic soon the one on my profile is a few years old.
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:37 PM GMT
    MusicMan91 saidMaybe I should photoshop some pics I am easily least attractive guy on the site.



    It's not that bad. You probably just need to photoshop out that large growth on your side in the left of the picture.
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    Sep 07, 2011 10:23 PM GMT
    Iceblink said
    MusicMan91 saidMaybe I should photoshop some pics I am easily least attractive guy on the site.



    It's not that bad. You probably just need to photoshop out that large growth on your side in the left of the picture.


    Kinda what he said. You're on a gay site with a picture of you looking very cozy with a chick. The first impression I get of that pic is "gamer/dork type with his gamer/dork type girlfriend." You're also doing that John-Malkovich-as-creepy-dude thing with your mouth. And it's your only photo. All this said kindly - I like dorks. But I think a lot of people on this site aren't looking to talk to someone whose photo screams "Level 12 Paladin." icon_smile.gif

    You also don't have many stats in the stats section. Without at least a weight and waist size reference, 5'9" doesn't give enough info to those who are interested in what your body type is.

    But most of all, and first, get rid of the girl! icon_smile.gif
  • Musicman91

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    Sep 08, 2011 3:56 AM GMT
    Well atm I am trying to lose weight so I don't want to put it up till I reach my goal weight =p


    And I am probably going out this weekend I 'll have to take another picture and put it up here. I have to make sure I look somewhat decent.

    I'm also the farthest thing from a gamer lol.
  • wild_sky360

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    Sep 09, 2011 8:18 AM GMT
    All of the above is true, but it was cute nonetheless. Just put something up. If you aren't comfortable with your body image just yet then don't post that type of photo. Just be you. Anything is better than the non picture you have now.
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    Sep 09, 2011 10:20 AM GMT
    this is easy